I am an American guy in his mid-40s. I am tall, good-looking, and make a lot of money ($500k per year). After dating and dating endless American bitches, I got online, and met and married a Filipino girl 14 years younger than me. She is beautiful, educated, extremely talented (ex-professional ballet dancer, and amazing ex-professional singer), speaks fluent English, and can cook like you have no idea.
She worships me, takes excellent care of me, she is feminine, libertarian, hates American feminism, loves sex, and thinks that American women are the fucking devil. She is truly a magnificent catch.
Having said that, there are COUNTLESS Filipino girls on dating sites who will steal you blind and have NO INTENTION of leaving the Philippines. In fact, my wife hated leaving. I send her home once or twice a year for 2-4 months out of the year. She loves it. In fact, I go there with her for parts of her trip, because I love it there, too. I also send her over for that much time each year in order for our kids to learn Filipino culture and language, and to get to know their grandparents, aunts and uncles, cousins, etc.
But the fact remains that if you marry a Filipino girl, for example, and have no intention of allowing her to maintain a close connection with her friends and family back home, you are cheating her out of her relationships, and almost guaranteeing the demise of your marriage. Furthermore, if you have ANY ideation that you will be able to marry a foreign girl, bring her home to your western country, and mould her into an American/Canadian/Aussie/Brit/Kiwi woman, you are DREAMING. Cultural roots cannot be uprooted! Be VERY well-prepared for a multi-cultural relationship. It is more work, more challenging, BUT far more interesting, as well. Nevertheless, it takes a very special guy to do that. I have traveled the world (over 20 different countries on 4 different continents), I am bi-lingual (also fluent in Spanish) and I have a much different perspective than most American guys, whose only experience in international travel is crossing the Mexican border into Boystown for a weekend of chasing hookers. Most American guys totally lack the background to be able to handle a foreign wife, quite frankly.
I cannot speak about other western men, except maybe Canadians, who are similar (but NOT the same) to American men. But American men, generally speaking, are stupid and extremely naive. They are dumb enough to watch the news (CNN, Fox, MSNBC, take your pick), and actually believe the American-centric nonsense they watch. They also believe that America is the “greatest country”, and that our culture is the best culture, and that our economy is the best economy, and that the whole world looks to us as the leader of the world.
American men need to understand that the world now has this wonderful thing called the INTERNET, and the rest of the world is far better informed about the realities of America, than most Americans are themselves. The mythology of “the American way of life” and “the American dream” is most thoroughly believed by Americans themselves. The rest of the world has already woken up. America is in a steep decline, both economically and culturally, and the rest of the world knows it. American men were highly desired around the world 50 years ago. Not so much any more. Sorry guys. We blew it.
Worst of all, if you are an American guy, you are stuck in a country full of obese, ugly, bitchy women, who are the biggest gold-diggers on the planet, AND, at the same time, the women in other countries really don’t want you, for the most part. They want your money, of course, but, YOU? Not really. But they know that they can put their pictures online, write some B.S. in their profile, and that you will be dumb enough to send them money.
The area of the U.S. where I live has a HUGE Russian population. It is so funny to see all of the Russian girls who come here on fiancee visas, get married, and dump their American husbands a couple of years later, once they have scored citizenship. There are huge enclaves of Russians, and they all know the scam. I have met several of the Russian guys who have told me all about it. The girls get their citizenships, and then bring their Russian husbands over to the U.S. The unsuspecting American dupe never even knew she was married.
The physical beauty of Ukrainian and Russian women (Ukrainian in particular) is truly astounding. These are some of the best genes in the world, no doubt. But the cultural realities very quickly put those gorgeous models into perspective. Are there some who genuinely want to marry a western guy? Of course! There will always be that 2% or 3% who want to leave their country. That is true of ALL countries. There will always be that 2% or 3% who want to marry outside of their culture or race. That will always exist. But if you think that all of the hot women on these dating sites are a part of that 2% or 3%, you are insane!! Most of those women are gold diggers and are NOT sincere!! It is the same on the Filipino dating sites, as well.
I can tell you this: In the Philippines, the men really ARE lazy, rude, crude, treat women like shit, they are mostly uneducated, etc. No question that a Filipino women would be MUCH better off with a western guy, and believe me, if you are a good-looking white guy on a tour of the Philippines, while you are there, you will be hit on, stared at, ogled, and flirted with, non-stop. I am not kidding. It is surreal. But that doesn’t change the fact that, when it comes down to brass tacks, most of these girls will NOT sleep with you, they will not date you, and they will certainly not marry you. I don’t think any country would present a western guy with a better opportunity to score a hot wife than the Philippines, and it is still downright difficult to find a girl with whom you can fall madly in love, where she has tons of things in common with you, and yet is still willing to leave her country for you.
How much harder to find a girl like that in the Ukraine? If you think the Ukraine is poor, I will take you on a tour of the Philippines, and show you POOR. I have been to the Philippines 16 times in the past 9 years, and have traveled throughout that country extensively. Trust me when I tell you that it is a VERY poor country. A lot of manufacturing is leaving China now, and heading to Viet Nam, Philippines, etc., because wages are cheaper in these other countries than in CHINA. You cannot imagine what you can hire out in the Philippines, and how little you will pay. Things like concrete work, for example. I poured a driveway that was 15 feet wide, by 25 feet long. My total cost was $600, for supplies and labor. It took 3 guys three 12-hour days to get the job done, and they did a splendid job. That price also included a walkway from the driveway to the front door of our home in the Philippines. The walkway is 3 feet by 20 feet long.
This is a terribly poor country, and I can assure anyone reading this, that the men in the Philippines make the men in the Ukraine look like knights in shining armor. Filipino men are largely worthless. Yet, again, good luck finding a Filipino girl with whom you are truly compatible, and who will be willing to leave her home to be with you, living half-way around the world. And YES, my wife’s family back home has DSL, and they communicate DAILY by Skype, and iChat. They video chat and everything else, but it is not the same as being there. Thus, we are there once or twice a year.
If you can’t afford to do that, I highly recommend that you not bother trying to score a foreign bride, UNLESS YOU ARE WILLING TO LIVE IN HER COUNTRY WITH HER, LEARN HER LANGUAGE, AND HER CULTURE.
Culturally, the U.S. is a piece of shit. Maybe leaving the country will be the best bet for many of you. If you truly want a traditional wife, i.e., a woman who knows her role in a marriage and does NOT want to be the man (unlike 99% of all American women, and most western women), the best bet may be to leave the U.S. (or your respective countries), and live elsewhere with a much better woman in a much better culture. Feminism and unlimited faith in government has absolutely ruined western culture. This is why you are a man looking at pictures of beautiful Ukrainian women, dreaming about having a wife who is feminine, traditional, and who also happens to be a runway model. Your country’s rotting feminist culture has run you out of your own country, forcing you to look for love elsewhere.
Have you met any guys here in the U.S. who have scored a hot runway model wife from the Ukraine? I’d love to see one, where the marriage lasts for more than 2-3 years. I’d love to see some of the kids from these runway models and their American husbands. Most will NEVER have kids with you, because they don’t intend to stay married to you!
Oh, don’t get me wrong, I am sure that there are a couple of marriages like that out there, between American guys and Ukrainian women. But they are VERY exceptional. You will find countless more marriages like mine (white guy, Filipino wife), where the couple is still together 6, 7, 9, 10 years later, and with kids, too. But even my situation is pretty rare.
When I was 23 years old, I rented a room in a really nice house of a rich guy who was 49, who was married to a Russian girl who was 32. They had been married for 3 years. They were fighting nearly every day, and she finally left him after I had been there for a couple of months. The guy told me that she had suddenly gone from being a sweet, nice girl, to outright picking fights with him over nothing, continuously. He was baffled. In the end, they divorced, and she got a lot of money out of him in the divorce, plus, she had scored her U.S. citizenship. I do not know what she did after that. All that I DO know was that this guy was not bad looking, he was VERY wealthy, he was VERY considerate, respectful, and loving to his wife, and she treated him like DOGSHIT. She was NOT a runway model, by the way. She was average looking, but did have a pretty nice body. They lived in a beautiful house just off of the coast of Florida’s Treasure Coast. Beautiful area to live in. She did not want kids, and she was obviously not there for the long-haul, by any stretch of the imagination. That was 23 years ago. How much worse is it now, boys?
The best thing that we U.S. men could possibly do, is to REFUSE to marry American women, and treat them like the whores that they are. That is the only way we can take our culture back, and beat those cunts into submission.