Do Ukrainian women want to get married to foreigners?

So this is the questions. Who can count how many people from the USA, Canada, Western Europe, Australia, etc. are trying to find Ukrainian or Russian women. I can bet much more than there are women who want to marry them.

Many times I heard that marriage agencies tell their clients, that all women in Ukraine keep dreaming about a man from “The West” and they will marry any guy who will come and take them to his “Western Heaven”.

If you ask – “Why? What’s wrong with local men?”  The answer will be:

–         All the men there are alcoholics, drug addicts, beggars, violators, tyrants and so on. They can’t support, love and care; Women want to escape from this damned country.

This is a big delusion.

I don’t say that all men in Ukraine are perfect. But the social problems here are the same as in other European countries. Many foreigners coming in Ukraine are very surprised. One guy told me that he didn’t expect to see so many males here. And more than that, he didn’t expect them to be well dressed, good looking and rather wealthy. Most of them have money enough to satisfy their ladies’ material needs. And of course most of them can satisfy ladies in sexual and social way.

So the first thing a man “from the West” has to know is – he is not better than locals, he has to compete with local men and it is a very hard competition.

Ok, we’ve just found out that you are not the One who are Ukrainian women waiting for. Let’s go on.

The next question to illuminate is how many Ukrainian women want to get married to a foreigner and another important question – how many of them want to leave Ukraine for another country.

Some experts counted that many Ukrainian women still want to get married to a foreigner. In 2008 there were about 60 thousand women, in 2009 due to the crisis – 62 thousand. Most of them are from Northern and Eastern parts of Ukraine, but the most popular cities for foreigners are in the South (Odessa, Nikolaev, Kherson, Zaporizhe, Crimea). But only 40 thousand of them will leave their country and only  the half of them won’t  get divorced as soon as they get the citizenship.

Statistics shows that only 3 thousand got married to foreigners last year. And most of the foreign grooms were from European and Eastern countries. Only 9% of those women have a desire to leave Ukraine for the USA and other far, far away countries. So American, Australian, S. African men can try to find their soul mates from only 6 thousand Ukrainian women.

Another question that is coming next is how many men visit Ukraine every year to find their women. Statistics shows that about 250.000 man visit Ukraine “in private affairs” every year. OK 250.000 try to find not just a woman, but the right woman among those 20 000 of real ones. It is very competitive, isn’t it?

Now you can understand why there are so many agencies in Ukraine and outside. Because there are so many men who want to marry a Ukrainian woman.

Now you can understand why there are so many scam agencies in Ukraine and outside. Because there are so many men who want to marry a Ukrainian woman but there are not enough women who want to get married to a foreigner.

It’s like a lottery, if you are lucky enough you’ll get the right woman, if not – you’ll make your contribution to Ukrainian Economy.

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368 Responses to Do Ukrainian women want to get married to foreigners?

  1. mark says:

    OK I am all ears. I was personally thinking of visiting the country myself, mainly the crimea area. The women are hot and if I score a beauty that would be a bonus. But I add I am there to enjoy the country and experience it’s culture first. Picking up a woman is secondary. If I find a woman to accompany me to all the touristy places then great. Looking forward to your advice.

  2. Michael says:

    my advice is yes find your soul mate and of course be honest from the word go about everything, i was and now i am about to marry a wonderful woman, we are very much in love, there family have accepted me to be part of it so now our happiness is in fruition. it takes a while, don’t just find any one be careful and if you find you have a lot in common then go for it. if you live a long way away, then be prepared to go there more than once, I am now in my second visit here from my country western europe and there will soon be a third and a wedding then we will live in Ukraine as it for me is a wonderful country with a lot to offer, growing everyday. with a climate similar to where I live now and the sea warm in summer as well as the outside temperature you could ask for nothing more.

  3. Joseph says:

    Well until i know the most of all those Ukrainian women who end up marrying their own man are always the most undesirable and unattractive women.And honestly talking they’re men aren’t good looking at all.Many ukranian women are always complainig about their men once an ukrainian woman told me that she never liked the men of their country because they are ugly and don’t know how to treat their women.

  4. personalguide says:

    Joseph, have you ever been to Ukraine?

  5. Joseph says:

    Ok Whoever you are let me put this way, first of this article lacks of Psychological, cultural and even scientific evidence about the real mentality of Ukrainian women and subsequently the problems of that country which during years has been affecting women’s life. I don’t need to be in Ukraine in order to know how the situation there is! Women are desperately looking for foreign men and there are many reasonable reasons! One of them could be because they can’t find a suitable good-looking man in their country which could give them what they really want in life and it’s not only money as some of them are also looking for but also to satisfy their sexual life because their local men can’t be capable to do it due to their Alcoholism and drug consumption problems which incapacitate their sexual life I’m not saying that all them have it. But it’s extremely evident because each time there is more and more young men who at the age of 8 start having problems with Alcohol and the national medical health society of Ukraine and Russia has confirmed this fact to be true and it’s getting from bad to worse! Not to mention that Ukraine is the second country with more problems with AIDS after Netherlands. There are 8 women for every man in Ukraine if you didn’t know this! Only 3% of those men have “Good works with respectable salaries” can find a girl but the majority of those who have good works are corrupts or involved in any sort of mafia. and the other 5 % of them are unfortunately unemployed who spend the whole day at the streets drinking vodka and looking for easy sex with their women without giving them hope of a better tomorrow raising a family or valuing them as women but instead of that they treat them as if they were sexual objects and even beat them, because their local men are lazy and hate Working I’m not saying that all of them are like that. Now did you know that every single day there are hundreds of Ukrainian women who are forced to illegal prostitution in western countries? And the average of that figure doesn’t stop to amaze me! Btw it’s really stupid the way the writer of this article says that “their local men can sexually satisfy their women” ignoring that Western men have more sexual experience over this matter! Once I met a German guy who told me that when he got there he get laid with 9 Ukrainians girls without paying a cent. How do you explain that? It’s really hard for women there to be part of society which is mainly domained by men with a very different mentality. I don’t need anyone to tell how the things are after all The Dr William Pierce used to be focus on this matter. And he was always right and will always be. So please next time you write something bring solid and coherent source of that fact before start saying things as you want them to be! I’m glad to know that I’m not a lemming who ended up swallowing that bunch of lies you wrote there!

    • Joseph needs some serious help! Ignorance should be his middle name!

      • Marc says:

        I was talking with a friend today, she’s a lawyer from Kiev and she has no intentions of leaving the country for now because she’s making heaps of money despite the current political problems. I asked her about the dating question, why Ukraine women would want to move away. She came with this simple reply : everyone wants to go to Kiev because in other cities there is little work and money to be made. So what they get is a lot of work but then they have to pay high-priced rents, and they go back to their families maybe two times per month so it’s not a nice life, and you cannot buy a flat or a house in Kiev cause prices are high.

        The second factor is that there are many men who die before the age of 50 due to heavy drinking, unhealthy habits as well as pollution in industrial cities which are numerous in the country. So, basically there are much more women in their 40’s than there are men, and women are afraid of having to be a single mother when the husband is dead.

        Finally, Oksana pointed out the fact that many men don’t want too much responsibility, and when the woman gets pregnant it’s not rare that the man runs away because he does not want to be a father. That’s why you have so many single moms in Ukraine these days. This is a straigthforward by a woman in her early thirties who has a somewhat cynical but true view about her country. She frequently tells me she cannot foresee any future for Ukraine.

        I was lucky enough to meet many Ukrainian women and discuss with them, I appreciated their honesty, their strong mind and their thirst for knowledge. It does not hurt that they are beautiful, too, and I don’t see the problem if they want to marry a foreigner. After all my sister married an American man, and she is not from Ukraine, so why should it be forbidden to someone from Odessa or Kiev? We live in a world without boundaries nowadays, this is 2014!

        I think you cannot change a country in one minute, the collapse of the Soviet Union was a bit more than 20 years ago, it’s not a lot to change a country, and all the current politicians were in the Komsomol, their parents were communists so there is still the same mentality of corruption and keeping the power in the same hands. I really understand why women want to move to other countries, if you see for instance how is an hospital in Ukraine, lacking so many things, you understand that you don’t want to get sick there. I’m sure this country has a great future, it’s beautiful and the people are amazing, but it will take some time really. Meanwhile, women who don’t want this life anymore turn to western guys. Makes sense to me.

    • John says:

      stfu with your stereotypical propaganda mouth.Things have changed alot since the soviet union era. (censored).Big mouth know it all (censored) .

      • Joe Czerkawsk says:

        People like you tend to react aggressively when they are in front of something which their brain doesn’t let them deal with, Due to the lack of working neurons which their tiny brain could not let them possibly produce..That’s highly understandable since you must be someone with an IQ lower to 70.

        I really find funny the way you wrongly refer to me as if I were a ‘kike’. Plus what propaganda are you talking about?

        Now my question is have you ever been to Ukraine?
        If there’s something with annoys me the most is the fact that the majority of these ‘men’ think that these Slavic women are at their disposal as if they were fresh meat to be sold to foreign guys who know little and sometimes nothing about Eastern Europe. I even think that you don’t know what the Ukrainian Holdomor was.

        Yes indeed many things have changed but I hardly doubt that you could know them. I was limited to say the true like it or not that’s all.

        I bet that it took you a while to produce such so enlightening comment.

  6. personalguide says:

    Another “smart”, self-confident, arrogant foreigner worth being scammed by agencies which invented the myth about “poor, foreigner-desiring” Ukrainian women and “drug, alcohol and anything else addict, rude and cruel” Ukrainian men. Good luck in Ukraine Joseph if you ever come here don’t forget to bring more money with you, you will definitely need it.

    • Lee says:

      Hello just wanted to put my comment in real fast. I am married to a Ukraine woman. She was 28 when I met her. And she told me the ugly story’s of how she had been beaten and raped by so called good Ukraine men. Also she is not the only one who has told me this. All her friends who she still talks to have told me the same story’s. It seem that in Ukraine women have little power to say no to a man if he is dating her. And they drink to much. I have been to Ukraine many times and have stayed there for a few months each time. I have seen it with my own eye’s. Not all men are bad. My brother in law is a good man and works very hard to take care of my wife’s sister. He does drink a little to much be he is not as bad as his friends. Even he will say that his Ukraine brothers have really bad habits when it comes to treating Ukraine women the right way. You can take it for what its worth but every girl I have talked to that has moved to the states says the same story. Ukraine an Russian men ether cheat or drink to much. If you want to keep your women treat them better.

      • personalguide says:

        So how many women from Ukraine have you met there, 2, 5, 10? More than 10? That’s your statistics? I’ve met a hell more than you. Thank you for informing. Why don’t you google family/domestic violence in the USA? Won’t you have any results? Do you have any idea about the percentage of heavy drinking Americans? How many fat and ugly men are there in the USA? Will your women be happy to marry 200 kilo mcdonald’s addicts? Should I conclude that all American men or most of them are fat and ugly chips and popcorn eaters? I have had more than 10 evidences about it. Should I say – Hey, if you want to keep your women, eat less? And what happened to your women? Why are you so desperately seeking for women in Ukraine? Have you eaten all fine women in the US? Who is to blame for the lack of good women in the US, hurricanes, George Bush, Obama, Iraq war, Taliban? Every country has its percentage of bad men and bad women. Some countries more some less. Even within a country. In Ukraine Lugansk and Donetsk regions are famous for rude and hopeless people, both men and women. Many of them, but not most of them.

      • marcos says:

        Ukraine, 2015 = 1.07 to 1.34% HIV positive.
        *I would consider more exact 0.85% – 1.07%. They didn’t use anything to make statistical corrections in a situation of excessive positive results. Most of Ukrainian who got HIV+ were people with higher chance to have the illness..

      • personalguide says:

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  7. Joseph says:

    personalguide I thought that you were going to reply me intelligently but i’m sorry to say that i was wrong about it! I got a lot of Ukrainian friends who dsapproved and eventually disagree with your mindless Article which lacks of coherence…
    And let me tell you something which i hardly doubt that you could be capable to understand since you don’t have the competitive intelligence to do it!
    There are thousand of Ukrainan women and children who everyday single day are being trafficked to work as sexual slaves locked in squalor and unhealthy rooms because these poor women were fooled by ghost companies that offered them to work abroad and get out from that hell they’re living! Why don’t you talk about that instead of creating confusion saying things which are far to be part of the reality of Ukraine and it’s people.
    Or why don’t you say that the most of all ukrainian women at the age of 30 basically turn old unattractive and undesirable for their useless men?

    It’s obvious you’re full of hate against foreigners and you’ve been trying to alternate this reality with your fictious and patetic article!

    I loved the way you call me arrogant only because i cited real and rational facts! And btw i am a good-looking guy I don’t think that i’ll need money in Ukraine to get laid with any of those gorgeous ladies because some of their men look Turkish or eastern to me! But yeah in part i agree with you! money is important everywhere!

    Anyway personalguide have a nice day and please please stop dreaming welcome to our reality! I know you’re not smart at all but at least try!

  8. personalguide says:

    You are so smart and intelligent that my poor ignorant Ukrainian mind (of course it is poor and ignorant as I am a Ukrainian man) can’t compete with your bright and divine brain. And of course you can judge on distance about everything in Ukraine as I can feel your powerful intuition in every word you write here. I hope everything is OK in your perfect home country where every single man is just perfect, where no one is stressed, suppressed or depressed and where you can find neither sadness nor misery. (I just can’t understand why such a bright and top intelligent handsome model type alfa male is looking for someone in such a defective country as Ukraine. Can’t local women of his country understand and appreciate all his advantages or let me guess, this example of sophistication is considering Ukraine as a public house and Ukrainian women are just prostitutes for him? Oh no, how can I dare saying that!)

    • GAURAV says:

      ha ha well said bro good answer for the dumb american

    • Marc says:

      I have to admit that’s a funny response 🙂 and I agree that Americans can be…how to say… irritating ! To say the least. But personalguide I think you are taking this too personally. I was raised in a communist country and I see how the changes can be very slow. It is clear that not everything in Ukraine is working properly and perfectly – well anyway where ? Maybe in Monaco it works OK and I’m not even sure about that. There are many challenges that are facing Ukraine (as some other CIS countries). What I think is that the people can change it, because one thing is sure, there is a strong will, a strong capacity to survive. Ukraine has a great potential, but it will require time to change, really, and you must admit that the politicians are not helping very much :))
      However the view that some Western men hold against Ukraine is simply stupid and even disgusting. I invite everyone to go past the cliches and discover the heart of this splendid people.

      • Manash says:

        Your words sound good. Ukraine is a country with great agricultural,industrial,business prospects. Moreover skilled manpower can change it’s fate.

    • daz says:

      hey to both of you equally (joe & personal fella). you two are perfect together, so why dont you two get a room and stop this butt boy flirting? its getting neither of you anywhere and bloody childish. or… check your egos at the door and let it be.

    • underhill32 says:

      I can tell you no man is perfect, no man is righteous, we have all missed the mark, myself included. My grandfathers second wife was from Kiev. They did get divorced and I do remember spending with her at her apartment in Sydney. I don’t know the circumstances behind their divorce. I’m not saying that western men are any less well evil than I, since we are all just as bad as each other. I’m sure there are probably many other sob stories of men who get married only to find themselves divorced once citizenship is achieved. But there are some successful marriages too. I suppose it’s the same in all countries. Put in the effort and see. I have to watch myself because I too am searching yet again with the demise of my own marriage. You need to first repair yourself. What I’m trying to say is anything worth pursuing is valuable and you to be the pure diamond and gold instead of cut glass and gold plate.

  9. Joseph says:

    Look brother i didn’t even know you were a guy.Well it seems that i highly offended you by something i said this time,I didn’t have any intention to make you feel that way.But it seems that you also feel like some sort of indignated or mad by foreigners because they’re taking your women away and i can perfectly understand that!
    Although that doesn’t mean that all foreigners are Evil or that their mind were easily corrupted by sex!
    Btw I don’t use any Marriage Agency Service at all. What made you think that? ABSOLUTELY NOT!
    And please stop misunderstanding my words because i never NEVER said that Ukrainian girls are whores to me!
    Not all Ukrainian women end up marrying foreigners And not all Ukrainian women can’t be enough lucky to find a suitable men in their country! Some of them just can’t find a good man and stay single which is really sad as well.
    Sorry if i offended you but you can’t deny that i cited very interesting points which should have been taken into consideration in order to be studied and analysed as well instead of creating ficticious stories like that one you wrote denying a very evident fact….In other words i’m glad to say that i’m not a Lemming 🙂

    • James says:

      I’m 26 yrs old and I totally agree with the Joseph. He’s absolutely right and he’s such a wonderful person and I totally agree with him. I’m the victim and almost 40 beautiful gorgeous girls of Ukraine approach me to get married with them. I was so surprised that I was asking myself that am I the handsome guy in the world ? The truth and the correct answer is what the Joseph is telling on this forum. I work for UNICEF and mostly working on third world countries like Ukraine.Currently my region is Pakistan and Afghanistan Children. Why I’m on this forum is to find out the answer of my question should I married to Ukrainian girl of 26 yrs old or not ??? because she is very gorgeous and sweet girl I’ve ever met in my whole life. But my mother is not supporting me because my religion is different. She is Christine and I’m Muslim so this is the dead end for me 😦 but still I don’t know what to do ??? and I’m also from United States of America.

      • daz says:

        james, i read your message & i feel for ya man. your obviously a good man working for unicef. i respect you brother. My advice to you about this girl is to ask her questions LOTS of questions. use your intelligence to work out a plan of subtle connecting questions to see if she is genuine or not. dont ask them all at the same time, dont be obvious. formulate them in your head first. you think she might be using you for a green card. it’s always a possibility. her answers to these questions are like small jigsaw pieces that when put together make the clear picture of her intentions. if the picture doesn’t fit the answers.. she’s not genuine. if she completes the picture, she’s honest and you should marry her if you LOVE her. no-one ever got anywhere by being too cautious. life can get messy but thats what its for. learning from the shit. learn and move on without any animosity, because even bad shit is good if you take a valuable life lesson from it (i should know mate.) lemons into lemonade dude.
        no-one was born knowing everything, so kick ya ego to touch and live Your life, not the one your mum wants, no matter how much you love and respect you mother. who knows your mum might actually respect you more for standing up too her.
        so screw the religion difference as all major religions are basically reading from the same book, they’re just looking from different perspectives. languages get distorted. so you have more in common than you think. i hope it all works out the best for you, if not i pray you can move on, learn, let it be and find another girl. you sound like a good fella and there’s always a nice girl looking for a good man. remember your wealth dude, you can’t buy goodness. happy trails

  10. Keith says:

    I have talked to many Ukranian women who said that they can’t stand the men in their country. They said that they are ugly and treat the women very badly. As far as coming to the United States, i have had no problem with the women wanting to come here. Maybe its because i am good looking and I treat them with respect. I haven’t made my mind up to marry one yet, but I know if I do, i will have alot of options. Ukrainian women email me every day.

  11. Joseph says:

    I agree with Keith! You’re completely right about that! During these days I met another Ukrainian girl who told me that she hasn’t met any good nor suitable man of her country! So once again this article is total disgrace!

  12. personalguide says:

    Sorry guys, I have my opinion and it’s based on my lifelong experience in Ukraine. Also it’s based upon lot’s of surveys taken by me. I can add that I’ve been studying this subject for many years from scientific point and, sorry guys, I think you are not very competent in this question. Before we carry on our discussion, I’d like to know how many women from Ukraine have you met so far and how many times have you been to Ukraine, and where did you meet them? I’d also appreciate your age and marital status.

  13. Joseph says:

    “Personalguide” You’re Ukrainian man, I thought that you have got the point but once again you failed! ” I can add that I’ve been studying this subject for many years from scientific point” my question is: What “Scientific” evidence are you talking about? You decided to use the world “Scientific” since I told you that your article lacks of Psychological, cultural and even scientific evidence about the real mentality of Ukrainian women and subsequently the problems of that country which during years has been affecting women’s life, So far you haven’t showed any so do us a favor! STFU…..Your point of view is totally irrelevant! So this case is closed!!!!

  14. personalguide says:

    I’m sure this discussion doesn’t have any point as you Joseph doesn’t seem to be a person intelligent enough to carry it on, sorry and good bye.
    Keith, still have some questions for you. Where did you meet those women you wrote about?

  15. Joseph says:

    Why are you so interested about knowing where we’ve met all those Ukrainian women we have been talking about? Why do you refuse to understand that I’m completely right about it?
    After all it’s just you who hasn’t showed any evidence about what you’re claiming to be truth! Now who’s the unintelligent here? You comments make no sense so stop wasting your time trying make us change our minds with what we perfectly know is truth! Do not answer his question whatever his say should be totally irrelevant to you! Just believe in those women who are usually complainig about their useless men! He’s Ukrainian and he feels humiliated after seeing how the women of his own country prefer to get married with Western than with their men! THIS CASE IS CLOSED!

  16. personalguide says:

    Joseph, you can close and open your own cases as many times as you wish, but here it’s not your case to order, so please, don’t bother me with your ignorant comments anymore!

  17. Joseph says:

    People like you make the women of your country look bad! So if you don’t want me to keep bothering you with thruth.Why do you keep writing your no sense comments? Do us a great favour STFU!

  18. Joseph says:

    As you wish.But your blog was already filth before I came here!

  19. steve johnson says:

    Joseph is an ugly stupid creepy troll. Probably lives with his parents in a basement.

    An American who lived in Ukraine

    • Hey Steve…I happen to live in the cellar of my parent’s place. I take care of my mother since my father died last year. Are you bad mouthing me too asshole? You know Steve, I’m not a violent guy, but when I run into idiots like you, I sincerely feel like booting your tiny nut sack up to your throat. Lucky for you that you spew out your verbal diarrhea from behind a computer screen…lucky for me in a way too. Think about what you say before somebody fuks you up.

  20. personalguide says:

    Thank you Steve, you make me sure that most of the Americans are much more intelligent than Joseph

  21. Joseph says:

    I’m really amazed how stupid this so-called “Personalguide” is! Well it seems that your idiocy does not known bound,huh?

    Firstly I am not a troll as you’re claiming Steve! The fact that both of you are wrong is extremely clear and I can perfectly see that you both are not very Articulate at all to produce your own conclusions! That’s the only way inferior beings as yourself react when they see that there’s something which they can’t be intelligently capable to deal with something they can’t utterly understand!

    How many times do I have to tell YOU that this case is closed?

    Steven is Personalguide, You can’t fool me dude! But it was a good try!

    There are two ways to be fooled. One is to believe what isn’t true; The other is to refuse to accept what is true~Soren Kierkegaard….

  22. Michael says:

    i read all your articles with interest, however none of you seem to go there and do it. Do not just go there for your pleasure as I know americans are like that, haveing see from experience duing the war i Vietnam. Go there be honest with the woman you meet and if every thing goes well you will be very suprised and happy. i have spent in Simferopol three months staying with the woman I will marry having a wonderful time meeting all the family and being made part of the family which really touched me very deeply. There is one thing i will say you want to marry make sure your documents are in order, they must comply with the Hague convention of 1961 and be Apostile led. Translated or be multi lingual as most international documents are.However thios is how it should be, but remember the local registry office may want something additional like that they are translated to Ukraine also although being international it is not necessary under normal conditions. As far as corruption goes yes there possibly is however the wealthy are the ones in power politically and stay there otherwise they lose it. Until Ukraine gets political freedom then not a lot will change as only the people can do that.

  23. William says:

    I have never been to the Ukraine. I was planning to go in august of this year. I do talk to a woman from kherson, and I met her through one of the agencies. I didn’t know any better. It was a way of coping through my divorce. I know the girls at the agencies get paid, I am okay with that. I talk to her a couple times a month there. We email each other, and talk on the phone although my russian is bad, and we talk on facebook.

    I have been trying to find out as much information as possible about the Ukraine, and I have seen all the information Joseph and personal guide has commented. I am trying to make an educated decision on wherein lies the truth. I have seen Ukrainian men as Joeseph describes and as personal guide describes.

    She says she is serious about looking for a husband. How much truth in that I am still very skeptical. I enjoy talking with her, she is educated at Kherson State. I thought worse case scenario is to go, see the culture, see the sites, hang out.

    I have talked to other Ukranian girls from Kherson via the agencies and later some other vehicle, so I know I can meet other women.

    But these women are very cunning, and they are gimme girls in their beliefs, of how a man treats a woman in the ukraine. Have I had heated debates with her, yes. I have no problem telling her she is trying to be manipulative, when she is.

    She tries to play like she is poor ukranian girl. I respond by telling her I have seen your house as you run through carrying your laptop with the webcam still on, quit embellishing.

    When she pulls the statement that Ukranian men are not serious about marriage and drink to much. The drinking may be true, but i have seen Ukranian men in her age group. I find it hard that she does not have the pick of the litter.

    So what is the truth, I don’t know. I won’t know until I go. Any help you can throw my way. I would welcome it, because I am going in with friendly mindset, but my guard is also going to be up.

    • personalguide says:

      The truth is that ukraine is just another European country and the men and women are quite alike to other Europeans. The difference is that feminism is not the idea of most Ukrainian women (thanks God) and the men are pretty spoilt having the best wives in the world.
      William you are absolutely right, you won’t know until you visit Ukraine. And meeting agency girls is like a lottery ticket, only 1 of 100 can be lucky, others are just not real and the waste of time and money. If you need any help in arranging your visit or in personal guiding and searching a woman in Ukraine don’t hesitate to contact me

      • Ashkan says:

        Dear Personalguide, I am planing to visit Ukraine in 3 months later, my important intention is to find a nice and honest Ukrainian woman to marry her and then to live Ukraine, I would like you to give me some tips , advice and guideline that which cities are more safe, and cheaper to live. I will write you to your mentioned email, then you may kindly reply my email. My name is Rahim and the email Id is begins with the name Rahim. Regards

      • Marc says:

        Personalguide I think having you as a contact is certainly a great help for someone who does not know Ukraine. On my blog I recommend the agency Elenas Model but I got some messages from men who worry about scammers etc. If you are still in the business perhaps I could direct these guys to you ? I can write a post about you, or even better you could write a post that I post on my blog, for instance if you have suggestions or ideas (about travel, coming there, what to do, how to behave etc) and then the guys interested can get in touch with you and arrange something, after they have met a girl on Elena’s Models (or other agency site, but EM is the one I used to find my wife) Let me know if it sounds like an interesting idea to you – Marc

      • personalguide says:

        Hi, Mark. Thank you for your comments. Of course you can direct those guys to me. I’ll do my best to help them and answer their questions.

      • Marc says:

        Great, thanks ! I’ll write a post about you tomorrow and I’ll add a link to your site and your email and contact info. What about the pricing? The page “services and prices” is from 2010, is it still current?

    • if you have Skype ..please call me at rolex7401 I can make everything clear in your mind .

  24. HB says:

    I am Nepalese young boy . I want to married European women. who is to be a manicured. because Manicured women is very love her husband. and European is normally educed so I want married .
    if possible email me.

  25. cesar says:

    It´s all a big bussiness i have been scam, many girls make it just as a job, It is real they don´t want to marry a foreigner man there is a huge industry of scammers in Ukraine and outside, Something that its true is that women are beautiful but all is a big lie. So save your money and find a good girl in your own country.

  26. Joseph says:

    Cesar you should better talk by yourself the fact that you were scammed by some of them does not mean that all of them enjoy scanning men only because they want to know if thery have money or not! Everything depend on your look and ethnic background personally talking you got an hispanic name “Cesar” is not a white name! you got be hispanic in oder words you must be a non-white! That could also be a possible reason why you were rejected by many of those women! There are a lot of Ukrainian women with Khazar,ashkenazi and mongol blood those are not the kind of women who i’m looking for ! Definitely not! Btw man you gotta need some learning. I don’t deny that there are some women who are loking for money and there are others who aren’t but looking for a good man. Let’s just face it Marriage Agencies are not the solution! Cesar if you want an advice get away from white women and look for another beaner like yourself! And do us a favor STFU!!

    • Nung says:

      I knew you were one of those racist pig, who doesn’t like anyone. You think you are the most intelligent being in the world but every time you open your mouth you let every one know the level of your mental capacity. You are an embarrassment to america, I am glad most people in America don’t have this low IQ that you have shown.

      • ricky says:

        Excuse me Nung!!!! I happen to live in SA where all white people are currently being forced out of their homeland by black africans killing, raping, and destroying the world’s best country through this very mentality that you share… Let me put it straight so that you can understand! Believing that inter racial relationships are wrong, does not make one a racist! Maybe grow a back bone and honor your heritage, or are you the one that is ashamed?????

        Racism is a hatred of different cultures, not telling someone to marry their own color???? Then again, take a history lesson and discover for yourself why african americans are in USA, it is because the black tribes of afvrica sold their own people off after wars for money, they traded their own people for commodities!

        The problem here is not marc, the problem seems to be you with your inability to accept who and what you are, and like so many others will not rest until everyone conforms to your very narrow minded thinking….

        Question! Would you breed a dog and a cat, and expect either out of their babies? No, so Nung, please get a life as MANY PEOPLE WILLNEVER CONFORM TO INTER RACIAL RELATIONS, does not make someone a racist for telling them to stick to their own!

  27. Hugh says:

    joseph’s another amazing racist ass-hole. “Hispanic non-white”? shut the up mother-fu.ker!

  28. personalguide says:

    As far as I can see josy is still putting his crap into my blog. It’s time to stop it. Go to trash Josy, that’s a nice place for you and your comments

  29. Rasal says:

    Hi..i m from BANGLADESH yes this is a good site and this will help to make bond and relationship with one countries to another countries.

  30. jason says:

    I have read all the posts and find everyones opinions iteresting. I am a 32 year old man who has allways been interested in the post soviet era countries.The big quetion I have is why would a women from the Ukraine want to leave. Also I am interested in coming to the country to take in the sites as well as meet a beautiful women, and frankly I find the agencies have a bunch of elderly men who are old and sexest parading around with women that could be there grandaughters. What I would like is to find a reliable guide to show me as much about the culture and take me around to the local hot spots. All I need is an introduction the rest I could do on my own, and if I can’t then at least I could see all I can of a country I have been intriged to visit

    • personalguide says:

      Hi Jason, that’s a good question. Yes, there are women who want to leave, but there are much more foreigners who want to get a U krainian wife. So there is a real competition between them. And the winners are those who are realistic and familiar to the mentality and culture of locals. So you are right, don’t go to the agencies immedeately, come to Ukraine and stay in one of its cities for a while. I can meet you in Nikolaev and guide, that’s what I usually do for foreigners. And you’ll see everything by your own eyes. When do you want to come? Email me

  31. datingangel says:

    I agree with personalguide that most Ukraninain women probably do not want to leave there. If they truly are university educated have nice homes and have raise their children themselves after divorcing (gee that sounds an awful lot like American women) why would they want to leave all that behind to come to a country where the cannot work for at least six months and then only after gaining American citizenship. Why give up jobs as Engineers, Doctors and Lawyer as many of them claim they are over there to do nothing but sit around for months? What truly educated woman would want to trade a good life for a boring one? Besides that many American men who are looking for a Ukrainian women are not completely truthful with those women. They make themselves out to be better off than they really are financially. The girl will come here and then find that the man is barely able to support himself let alone another person. She will have to work eventually and unemployment in the US is at an all time high in all states. Getting a job here when you can’t even speak the language will be very difficult and if she is University educated as so many on those sites claim to be she will be over qualified as many Americans are told they are. Life is not all roses and good times here either so if the Ukrainian women think that it is she will be vastly disappointed. Sad to think that they may be leaving good life to possibly be living a life much worse because some American man is not honest with her from the start. Many American men will lie to get a beautiful woman. For that matter I imagine men from all countries will do so. There are good honest men everywhere including here but there are also many men who are not so honest. The women of the Ukraine need to be aware that all may not as it seems here either. Many American women have divorced due to men who where alcoholics, drug addicts, sex addicts, physical abusers and verbal abusers. It is not the country that someone comes from that matters it is the ethics of that person that matters.

  32. Olya says:

    I just don’t understand what you are talking about.I’m 29,I’m Ukrainian (a woman) and I’m married to a Ukrainian man. We live in Kiev, but I was born in a small industrial town. I heard many times that I’m beautiful and very attractive. I think I’m quite nice and good-looking. I’m absolutely happy here, with my husband in my country.
    We are a developing country and we have some social problems (like low-level salaries and pensions, in many towns and villages poor medical support and so on). So, I think, that when you hear that Ukrainian women want to marry foreign men (mostly Europeans or Americans) you should understand that such women just want to steer away from difficulties (in other words they just want to live in more or better developed countries). I mean, it’s true, in our country some men are alcoholics and drug addicts – just like in any other country in the world. But among my friends and acquaintances a lot of men are successful, have good jobs, some of them are handsome, don’t smoke and so on. I’m married to an absolutely great man, he doesn’t like alcohol very much (I mean, sometimes he drinks, but it’s just for fun and it’s very seldom), he has never smoked, he isn’t fat or anything, he is well looking and intelligent.We have a lovely flat in Kiev and we love travelling.
    It is absollutely ok that people want to live better and more comfortable lives. Such a desire is “downloaded” into humans beings from the very beginning of their existence – everybody wants to live a wealthy life, have strong health, nice food, good clothes and convenient bed. To achieve this, some go and work hard, some take the money from their parents, some win a lottery and some (like several ukrainian women) go and marry men from more developed countries. You know, I wouldn’t mind living in a country like Germany or Sweden and I wouldn’t mind our country being like Sweden or Germany – in fact, I hope that we are moving in this direction. With very slow and sometimes stupid steps, but still we are moving and developing little by little.Rome wasn’t built in one day.

    • Olya says:

      Sorry for late reply.If you still need advice regarding city, I can tell you that you can come to Kyiv, but rent a flat not in Kyiv – rent a flat in a sattelite town (e.g. a town which is 15-minutes drive from Kyiv), for example in Irpin (or Irpen).You will live near the capital city, but you’ll pay much less than in the capital.Actually, Ukraine is a very big country and there are many cities and towns.Every region is different.

      My favourite city in Ukraine is Ivano-Frankivsk:it’s beautiful, the pollution is very low, the air is very nice, prices for real esate are fairly low, living stndards are ok, it’s very cultural and it is situated in one of the most wonderful parts of our country – one hour drive and you are in the mountains with fantastic nature 🙂 So if I chose where I would like to live in Ukraine, I would definitely choose Ivano-Frankivsk.
      But as for foreigners, I mean, how they feel in our country- I don’t know. I know that when they come to Kyiv-they absolutely love it!

      There are south, north, west, east and central part of Ukraine.

      Western part of Ukraine is the closest to Europe, people in this part are mostly religious, very kind and tolerant and they like to follow the tradition,I think the level of crimes is the lowest in this part. This is very touristic region.

      Central part of Ukraine (Kyiv,Dnepropetrovsk and others) is the busiest.As I said, everybody comes to Kyiv to look for job and earn a lot of money. People are mostly nice here, because living stndards are quite high here, so it’s ok.

      Eastern part is very industrial and, unfortunately, polluted.I mean, there are a lot of factories there, so for environment and for people’s health it’s very bad.I’m talikng about Donetsk and Lughansk regions. Also, people work hard in this region, most of them do physical work, that’s why the level of aggression is the highest in this part. The level of alcoholism is also the highest there. People have very difficult lives in this part, a lot of men drink too much alcohol or take drugs, people have poor health there, a lot of die of cancer – all of this is a very big problem. Unfortunately, people are not very religious there.I mean, officially, they are religious, they call themselves orthodox, catholic etc., but de facto they know nothing about it. Because of very hard life and conditions this is the most problem and unfortunate part of Ukraine.

      Southern region of Ukraine is quite beautiful in many parts. The Crimea is a very famous resort with absolutely fantastic towns and cities. The nature and the Black sea is very nice.As for people I think that mostly they are nice there, but this is the part of Ukraine I visit least of all, so it’s difficult for me to say something for sure.I know that prices for real estate are quite high there.

      Sorry for such a long reply, but, as I said, Ukraine is a very big country, so it’s really challenging to answer your question in two words.

    • miky says:

      Hi Olya I looking for carryng lady. But I very sceptic about they honesty. ? Could you help me. I met one lady in I am 42 she is 39. Named Oksana from Odessa who claimed to work as bank manager down there. She told me that she has been left by her husband. Question why…Do you know what is salary for experienced bank specialist.
      Her letters are too sweetheart to my to be honest….
      What to do.

      • personalguide says:

        Hi Miky, why don’t you order the woman check service? Here you can find the details

      • Simon says:

        Hey Miky
        Here is my story. I met a young woman on an agency site, she was an angel for me and my poor mind couldn’t even admit the idea she might be a scam. She was so nice to me and seemed honest and geniune. Now I realize there were lots of red flags everywhere, but I was blind. She was sending me letters full of love and desire to marry me and picturing our future life. I spent $12 thousand sending her presents an cash, paying for her english classes. She told her family had health problems and they were poor to pay for treatment. When I finally arrived to meet her she didn’t meet me, she just disappared. No answer from her email, skype and phone. I was frustrated, my first idea was that something bad had happened to her. Finally I came accross a private detective on the Internet and asked him to find her. It cost me another 2 thousand. What I found out astonished me. The girl was fine, she had another name, another address, even the city was different from what I visited. Other girl got money and presents for her and they shared the incomes. Can you imagine what a feeling I had? Money I wasted doesn’t matter much, my time and efforts and my heart was ruined. I was really depreesed. But I still wanted to find a real and honest woman in Ukraine. Paing 2 thousand every time to find out about a woman I was communicating was too much. I was recommended by a guy I met in Nikolaev to contact personalguide. His services for women’s check are fast, accurate and of reasonable price. Every time I was going to do a stupid thing like sending the woman money or booking a trip to Ukraine I asked him to check her. 5 times I was told it had been another scam and my recent choice seems to be real. I met a really nice lady, we’ve been together in Nikolaev for 2 months, now we are finishing all the paperwork for her visa to Canada. I’m sure we’ll be the happiest couple ever.
        Check the women gyus before starting spending a cent and moreover before visiting them.

  33. Clark Kozlowski says:

    Well Olya to be honest I’ve never seen the first “Good-Looking” Ukrainian man in my life.Popleyou all should stop bullying everyone wants to leave that hellish country damn!

    • Olya says:

      I’m just shocked. You are such a pessimistic person, or it’s even better to say too sceptic.When you say “I’ve never seen the first “Good-Looking” Ukrainian man in my life” – are you trying to provoke me? This is ridiculous. So all those nice and in a good shape men who I see when I’m training in my fitness centre – they are just illusion?
      Of course, some men take care of what they eat and how they live, some men don’t take care of that at all. You shouldn’t say that “everyone wants to leave that hellish country down”- you don’t know what EVERYONE wants. It’s simple: if you have a good job and the money, you don’t want to leave Ukraine. If you don’t have a good job and for some reason you can’t find a well-paid job-you might want to leave our country and try to find a better life overseas.

  34. personalguide says:

    Oh yeah, Clark, all the men in Ukraine are monsters, come and save poor women, show them how fine can a man be!
    That’s not amazing that people of this type of thinking with all those stereotypes have the least percentage of successful marriage. The thing is they don’t understand that the reality is completely different from what they want to believe to.
    With every day the chance for a foreigner to find a wife in Ukraine becomes smaller. I know that well, I’ve been doing the woman search for foreigners for 6 years, 23 happy marriages is the result of my work and I know very well what it is to find a real woman who really wants to leave Ukraine and to live with a foreigner.

    • Frank says:

      this page has been the highlight of my day, amusingly so. however i do have a serious question.

      What are tell-tale signs that a ‘real (Ukraine) woman who really wants to leave Ukraine and to live with a foreigner’? Any tips?

      • personalguide says:

        Hi Frank, what is important in recognizing a real woman and distinguishing a scam lady is your being realistic.
        1. Age difference: if you are an older gent and looking for a model type young Lady you’ll more likely be scammed. Younger the ladies are less they need someone from another country. There are endless choices for them in Ukraine.
        2. Marital status: a woman looking for a foreign guy is usually disappointed in her current or ex family life, so it’s gives you more opportunities if you look for someone divorced with a baby.
        3. Money requests: a real Ukrainian Lady will never ask for money for any reason. If she does it’s a scam
        4. Real ladies will give you their email or skype to avoid you wasting money on pay per letter service or paid agency chats
        5. If the lady says she has no skype or it’s a problem for her to install it, that’s a scam.
        6. If the Lady constantly complains about Ukrainian men, blaming all of them to be jerks and alcoholic idiots, that’s a red flag, be careful.
        7. If she says that she likes you very much or even loves you in her 2,3,4 letter, sends you kisses, hugs and other intimate signs – she is a scam!
        Well, I hope that’ll be enough for the first time.

  35. Sveta says:

    You write nonsense. in Ukraine as in any country there are different women. someone wants to get out of love, and someone for the money. Yes, bad medicine in Ukraine and the government does not care about its citizens, but our women are still women who are feminine and beautiful and well maintained. Men have also different, as in other countries. There are good and the bad ones. need to listen to your a pity that foreigners think of our women readily available, I am very frustrated when I hear it, but we are all different and I want it all to understand.

    • personalguide says:

      Sveta, who exactly writes nonsense?

      • Jeffrey says:

        Sveta your absolutely correct i despise guys who think Ukrainian women are easy or desperate i am going to marry a Ukrainian woman in a few weeks after a long courtship,the women in Ukraine are desirable because they take care of themselves and are feminine and deserve a proper gentleman… Men never think of them as available for your taking .the Ukrainian women are wonderful treat them with dignity and respect

  36. Clark Kozlowski says:

    Hmm it would be really interesting to see that but as I can clearly see you don’t even show any solid or real evidence of what you’re claiming to be true. You can say anything you want because after all this is just internet! But that doesn’t mean that I would have to take it as if it were true! Because the reality out there is completely different to what you’re saying I am quite sure that that’s exactly what you want it to be like but unfortunately for you the reality as I previously said it’s just another one..
    In fact your words seem to be full of anger against foreigners for not reason! It’s really stupid seeing how you’re saying that
    “Every day the chance for a foreigner to find a wife in Ukraine becomes smaller”
    First of all I am not saying that I want to marry an Ukrainian lady.

    Secondly all my female Ukrainian friends are frequently speaking badly about their own men. And are usually complaining about being single. In fact I got proves of it and I could show them to you whenever you want!

    Third Ukraine is everyday poorer than ever and more than one there wants to leave that country which seems to be worse and worse!

    By the way three of them are already engaged with Americans. And I can guarantee you that they are not looking for money but for good men that could respect them as the women they are! I have been knowing them for a while dude and they are good women but I don’t like their physical appearance! By the way one of them Elena is also from Nikolayev. Once she told me that she was attacked by one of those worthless Ukrainian drunks fortunately the police came and did their job.

    Of course you’re completely wrong about what you’re saying keep in mind that Ukraine is one of the most economical stricken country in Europe. Everyone desires to leave that country. You’re words are telling me absolutely nothing you are saying things which lack of any rational evidence!
    In fact your article seems to be full of anger as I said before and you sound very unconfident as well.

    I am not telling you that you’re lying or anything like that but your words and your aggressive behavior are highly questionable, You’re obviously Ukrainian and there’s something telling me that you hate seeing how every day the number Ukrainian women rejecting their own men grows bigger and bigger, And that’s something you can’t obviously stop. Your inner rage and impotence are killing you my friend!

    But the funny thing of this is that you’re talking about culture The Ukrainian Culture. A culture which is clearly draining through the sewer. And people like you are the perfect proof of it! My female Ukrainian friends also seem to be rejecting their own culture. I’m not advocating this but I’m just adding this fact to what’s really part of the reality.

    Did you know that Ukrainian women are extremely mistreated in countries like Poland? for example

    Poles use to refer to them as “Brak blokuje ukraiński nierządnica”
    Which in polish means “Poor starving Ukrainian whore”

    It’s sad man to see that kind of behavior but that’s how things go.

    There’s something I want to clarify personally I think that there’s no need to fall in any personal argument which will just us nowhere but to talk as civilized people. Hmm it would be really interesting to see that but as I can clearly see you don’t even show any solid or real evidence of what you’re claiming to be true. You can say anything you want because after all this is just internet! But that doesn’t mean that I would have to take it as if it were true! Because the reality out there is completely different to what you’re saying I am quite sure that that’s exactly what you want it to be like but unfortunately for you the reality as I previously said it’s just another one..
    In fact your words seem to be full of anger against foreigners for not reason! It’s really stupid seeing how you’re saying that
    “Every day the chance for a foreigner to find a wife in Ukraine becomes smaller”
    First of all I am not saying that I want to marry a Ukrainian lady.
    Well sorry if I at first I was kinda offensive. It was not my intention to offend anyone here but to clarify the points which needed to be clarified.

    • Sky says:

      Even your words have no scientific proof…!!!
      Not scearching an ukrainian for love or marriage doesnt qualify that.


    • miky says:

      You are wrong we knew what Ukrainians are. People from western Europe dont understand eastern Europe… Whose woman who came to Poland they are ready to sold they sexy assex for money,,, They are name like this by own ukrainian citizens. But they do they job. I even respected it more then scams.. In my opinion almost all agences are forged and preper just for scamming activity. They used art official pictures as well profiles. Even of ladies from western countries. To search this problem is my hobby as well as sort of interest. Have you ever seen dating stes from the North Korea for example.
      It is impossible..In Poland and other central europian countries is one opinion, All ladies from Former Soviet Republics are scams and not reliable at all. It is partly belonged to they culture corraption etc.
      Not only man drink in Ukraine women also…I large numbers..
      Quality of life is different in small and big cities. What real chance that she going to find man from the west. Very small. What they do in mean while. Sitting at home and praying hihi. I am knew that most of them are married. Scamming is a way to get extra money to rise their kids etc. They realy dont want to go abroad. Why. The culture and mentality differences. Some one said for what is passport. You need money for travel anywhere..
      Money is the biggest issue.

  37. personalguide says:

    Clark, Can I ask you a question? How many times have you been to Ukraine?

  38. personalguide says:

    Speaking about proofs of what I’m claiming. Clark, after this article had been written I started questioning the Ladies on the social and dating websites where I and my employees usually search for women for my clients (who are mostly Americans). We’ve been asking 3 questions: 1. Would you like to leave Ukraine for another country? 2. Would you like to get married to a foreigner? 3. Do you think that men in Ukraine are worse than men in the western countries? So far I have results from about 4.000 Ukrainian women. This is where I have my confidence in these questions from.
    Of course Clark, I cannot compare my humble experience with your comprehensive understanding of Ukrainian women. Your understanding is based on the experience of communicating with an amazing number of Ukrainian women (2 or 3 by the way?). My understanding is based on 4.000 replies only, that’s definitely nothing.
    One more thing, you are writing about my anger, I’d say that’s not an anger, this is an irritation that is similar to the irritation of a scientist who is told by some medieval “experts” that our Earth is flat and the Sun is running around it.

  39. Clark Kozlowski says:

    Well dude that question was off topic, I don’t know if you remember that I’ve just asked you to at least bring one real and solid rational source of what you’re claiming to be true.And that way we could analyse it and study it too. Otherwise you would be just wasting your breath with things which are not based on any social and cultural evidence of what your country is living nowdays. Just saying to be fair. You want to embellish what you cannot and that the reality!

    • Olya says:

      Listen, Clark, I can give you “real and solid rational source” of what’s really happening. I live here – this is the best source. Where do you live by the way?I’ve read your comments and I don’t understand your point. You are talking about reality – how do you know that your understanding of our reality is correct?

      • adrian says:

        I find the attitude of many Americans and other countries to Ukrainian women quite depressing I have visited Yalta Simferopol I did meet any girls begging me to take them back to the UK or begging me for money or a free visa etc I did meet a few girls who where polite humourous mature in their manner attractive well informed in fact just like many girls in any country I met many Ukrainain guys who where not drunk hopefully drug free polite and sensible just like men in my country
        whats all this stuff about negative relationships?? most girls will marry someone they love others for greed others because they feel that they should marry for children its the same all over the world

  40. personalguide says:

    Clark, I’m a man from Ukraine, probably I’m not as “bright and intelligent” as you are, and I’m not that sort of “gentlemen” as you are but I will never let you offence Ukrainian women here. Any time you are in Nikolaev I’ll be glad to meet you for a confidential talk to make you understand what can be a joke and what is the evidence of an utmost ignorance and stupidity. I hope you are young, strong and healthy enough to stand our talk.
    Anyway Clark, welcome to the garbage bin, that’s a nice place for you!

    По-моему, фамилия как никогда оправданна в случае данного индивидума.

    • adrian says:

      I find the attitude of many Americans and other countries to Ukrainian women quite depressing I have visited Yalta Simferopol I did meet any girls begging me to take them back to the UK or begging me for money or a free visa etc I did meet a few girls who where polite humourous mature in their manner attractive well informed in fact just like many girls in any country I met many Ukrainain guys who where not drunk hopefully drug free polite and sensible just like men in my country
      whats all this stuff about negative relationships?? most girls will marry someone they love others for greed others because they feel that they should marry for children its the same all over the world

  41. JB says:

    Well reading all the past post and have been on many sides of it from being scammer by date sites and tour dating…. i then decided i wanted to meet the real women of ukraine good and bad. so i got talking to one women from Ukraine as a friend and went to visit. i met 2 none ukraine men one from US that has lived there 10 year and one from England been there 3 and from them got to know a few women there. yes there is at lest from what i seen in the place i was more men abuse there wife or girlfriends and not the laws we have here to stop them. but as any country there good and bad. really one must think you always hear more the bad stories then the good. I am maybe one of the lucky ones for i found the women of my dreams and shall be married and moving to ukraine to live there. yes i have the means to suppot myself and study the russian lang and the means to buy a home. maybe i am a bit old fasion but i believe that when a man marry a women she becomes his family. and is it right to take a women away from her family and friends? i do not think so. so i shall live there and we shall visit my country from time to time. if in future she wishes to move to my country then we may. but i will always keep the home we shall buy in ukraine there to go back to.
    and one saying i remember from my father as a child “ a women makes a home a home, cling to your wife and keep her happy“ and my parents were happy married 48 years.
    Almost every women in every country tends to get there husband to live closer to her family then his if you think about it… so if you truely want a women from ukraine ask yourself “are you looking for love? or just for the other beauty of the women? and what are you willing to do for her and less what she do for you“

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  43. personalguide says:

    Ashkan write me on my email and tell about yourself: where you are from, who do you want to find and so on

  44. mick says:

    Was emailing ladies on a ukraine dating site,so decided to visit odessa for a week, arranged to meet four ladies at different times, just in case i was being scammed then could at least spent time with a special lady (thought one would meet me) had all there personal emails, so first lady did not meet me at airport, cut a long story short none showed up, emailed all of them no replies, so i am a well dressed very confident 40 year old male work out in the gym most days, non drinker or smoker, went to posh hotels & bars etc, most ukkraine men were well dressed & seemed good looking well groomed, nice cars, yes talked to plenty of beautiful ladies, but they seemed to prefer local. men, who were not drunk or violent i was lead to believe. But had a fantastic week in odessa, weather was fantastic, people were great, loads to do & see. Going back end of july not to meet lady but enjoy the great country.
    So what i learned go & visit this great country & if you find love then good luck because the ladies dress & are beautiful but i would not go there on intention of finding love, hope i am wrong if you are going to visit..
    Good luck,

  45. ASW says:

    Hello all, this is a very interesting Forum. 🙂
    I would like to say that opinions are simply that and not fact. To have a true accurate opinion you must visit a country with an open mind and respect. I have been to Ukraine now four times and met some lovely people. Intelligent men and women who are genuine nice people and made me feel welcome. It could be that there are scams where a country has poor economy, but that is not the fault of the population but the government and the history.
    Ukraine is a lovely contry, nice climate and yes, it is poor. But the people have a sense of humour about their difficulties and smile at problems. They are not obese and eat healthily. I can understand men with a poor future and unemployment take to alcohol, but this is the same everywhere.
    It is very competitive with these lovely women and they are not all available. They are simply women and need respect.
    The men I have met are good intelligent and mostly self employed and successful.
    If I was sure that I wanted to marry a lady from Ukraine I would deffinately consider living there. The people of Ukraine wish to leave only to see the world and have a better life but not necessarily to leave permanently. I fact I did not meet one person who wanted to leave. I did on the other hand meet a boy whose family were living in the USA for the past 5 years and they were wishing to move back to Ukraine.
    I am an English man and I like the family values that people in Ukraine have and unfortunately in Europe and USA we seem to be losing.
    Go to Ukraine, see for yourself. Do not look for women with an agency, just go and be a friend to the people of Ukraine.

  46. Christopher says:

    Hi Personal and everyone, I stumbled across this site and found it very interesting and helpful. I am an American man with slightly above average intelligence,lol. I have met a Ukrainian woman thru a dating site and plan to visit the country and her in the very near future. I did some research on the country and I find it to be a beautiful and cultured country. I will be going there with the utmost humility because it is the first time Ive been outside my country. Take care everyone.

  47. O'brien says:

    I need a good girl for marriage.

  48. Alina says:

    There are unpleasant-looking and handsome people all over the world. Sometimes we meet people who are not nice physically but have beautiful soul. So no need to state that all Ukrainian men are ugly and alcoholics. There are very kind and family-oriented men in Ukraine who still have saved traditions and Orthodox faith of our country. But there are few, as well as women. Too depressing that females in Ukraine have lost modesty and strive to marry rich foreigners in order to get out of Ukraine, Simply because of lack of courage to do anything on own way. Those women who say that ”our men are ugly” say so, because want to please a man they are trying to catch. Everything is simple.

    • miky says:

      You are right, they are bitches who would like sell they dignity for money in other way. Or paid by agences to do for some grants

  49. Frank says:

    Damn! I have seen few of the posts here and some of the most fired up/interesting from PersonalGuide, Steven, Clark and Olya. basically each one of you guys are a little right and a little wrong. This is my third experience in Ukraine and here is my understanding of the situation: Ukrainian women definitely don’t mind to date older man that are economically stable, family oriented and such. A lots of them want to marry a foreign man and i was explained why: poor job market, low selection of men and especially good men, alcoholism problem was the third one and the way that foreign trat women also!.I was told that the good men are already engaged or married by several ladies. Definitely there is much more girls than men. I am sure that marrying a foreign man is not the dream of every Ukrainian woman but there is quite a few that do want to do that..otherwise we wouldn’t have such many agencies and reviews and “talk” about the topic. More over i don’t see many polish Dating agencies or Czech or other eastern European country exception made for Russia and Ukrainian and down the line few others. I think we have to put all of this in perspective: Ukrainian is NOT a first world Country, it is low quality of life most of Ukrainian families, that struggle to survive or just live with a very modest standard of living. There are no jobs, even thou i see people driving brand new flashy cars all over the place (some wrong with that..). My take on the whole thing is: I have dated three-fur different women, seriously i mean. There are a good number of women here that want a change of life, not necessarily leave their Country, which they are proud of, BUT, a place where raising a family is not an every day challenge. I am sure that there are a lot of happy marriages but i see a and hear that a lot of women are divorced and left with kid(s) with no means to support them.Women also are definitely more educated than men..that adds up when they have to find a partner that can only grunt instead of having an intelligent conversation. I mean this is a Country where is by all means possible to meet a nice lady, younger than you, intelligent, educated and with strong family values. beware of the scammers thou…mostly in the big cities.ONE MORE: all women here take extremely care of themselves and are little vain…

  50. Polina says:

    it is really funny to read how American idiots talk about Ukraine :))) That why so many dating agencies in Ukraine are making money on you guys :)) Because you keep believing that you are best in the world and Ukrainian women are dreaming to marry you 🙂 haha i have some experience at Dating agencies question, i might tell you that poor of you guys who believe that 20 years old beautiful lady from Ukraine really can not find a good man in her country :)) Darlings… I don’t know how old are you but you need to learn one simple thing… it is about how entire world work…. Ukraine or USA or whatever. Beautiful woman will never have problem with finding a man… not in Ukraine not in Iraq or USA(the most naive country in the world) Please American idiots… who had never been in Ukraine yet, and who base their facts on “A girl from Ukraine said to me that…”
    or my friend from Germany said to me that
    or i have met many girls from Ukraine who said to me that….
    Dear idiot… please when you talk to your friends or girls from Ukraine before believe to everything simply think what else those people can say??? You met Ukrainian girl in USA who told you that men in Ukraine are ugly… what else she had to tell you??? That I went to USA only because of the money and because life here is better, i married a man and divorced him because i needed citezenship…. lol You would be the first man who would beat her in that case ;)))
    And what your friends could possible tell you besides that he could easily get in bed with Ukrainian girl??? That he went to Ukraine spend 1.500 dollars on a ticket + 500 dollars for food + 500 for hotel and coudn’t have sex even with one Ukrainian girl??? He would be a man if he would say something like this. :)))))
    So my dear American idiots … . stop thinking that Ukrainian women can love you for something else besides your money 😉
    See ya! Your darling Polina

    • Frank says:

      i think you need to get laid. Find yourself a good man and steam off your anger. Believe it or not there are women in Ukraine, your Country, which apparently you don’t know at all, that want to change dating scene. I personally went there few times and i met few ladies that i have been dating for quite a few. Didn’t go there for sex tourism, which is very active, and i did meet someone decent that is not just targeting my money ( I am not rich). It is easier in Ukraine than in the US? Yes it is, plain and simple. May be because women don’t have higher expectations other than finding a good man that can take care of the family. It is just a mentality thing. That might change in the future when Ukraine will become a wealthier Nation with plenty of jobs etc. It is what it is for now. Women here have just good intentions to meet a good man with a stable job and if is foreign they don’t say no! Scams? plenty ,like in any other Country. That’s why you meet people in persona nd you decide!

      • Edgard says:

        Polina before start calling people you don’t know idiots improve your English which is highly pathetic. You’re obviously inferior!

    • GAURAV says:

      h aha ha ha ah a ha polina this one was the best one so far keep it up

    • Sky says:

      Good Reply….. You can also see more stupid americans …. how to talk rough with ladies…..with finding their faults….!!

      • Matthew says:

        Neither one of those men are American. Edgard is from American ms he sounds like a real asshole either way. Instead of improving her English maybe he could improve is Russian or Ukrainian, maybe he could improve some of his personal traits like empathy or understanding.

    • It’s good to know the cold hard truth. Thank you miss Polina

  51. mudryst says:

    I’d have to agree with the writer. This is the first time I have seen some actual numbers. I have only been able to questimate based on the research I did. In fact, I have spent more than three and a half years living in Odessa, Ukraine, and I have tried to stay away from English speaking people so I could learn more about the mentality and thought process of Ukrainian girls. There is plenty more to read on the topic. It appears that our personal assistant and I are on the same page, but being that I grew up in America and have studied human behavior and the thinking and behavior or Ukrainian girls for many years, I can pick up this conversation topic and take it to a whole new level. Thanks again for a great article.

  52. Tim says:

    I enjoyed reading a realistic description of your culture, and the motivations of women who live there. I apologize for the conduct of fellow Americans here. Just as you admit you have your fools, we have ours too; except more of them, because our population is larger.

    Some of these men are probably here because local women in the US find them insufferable. It is a shame that you would be left with the impression that everyone from the US is like that. In truth, we have a very diverse population, and there are all types to be found here.

    An intelligent person understands that everyone wants to be respected. It shouldn’t really have to be said.

    I was raised under the belief that a traditional, monogamous relationship is best, and that a man should be responsible for taking care of his wife and family. It’s not impossible to find others who still think the same way in the US, but it has become more difficult.

    I appreciate the fact the fact that it sounds like it is still common to think that way in Ukraine.

  53. Terry says:

    Well said Tim, I am an older Canadian man 58,have been on 1 dating site I received over 300 interested inquiries within a 2 day period. I was astounded by the amount of young women asking for attention. I never searched for any women as I was overwhelmed and had to suspend my account. I found it as is stated many times here that all are beautiful with mostly wonderful pictorials. My profile clearly states that I’m not looking for a gold digger , as I don’t have any gold, yet interest was still there. I would really like to hear more on the scams from people and how to tell if its happening and what to expect, any sites to avoid. i’m on based in the USA. I am chatting with a few women and trying to plan a trip in the spring. Most of these letters cost $10 to $20 to open and read . It seems to me pretty expensive as you only get 1 letter for free. This is my first experience to any dating site so I’m a little nieve on the subject. I would like to add that all people in every country have their issues and every country can be a wonderful place to live if your open to it. Canada is an amazing country but it is becoming to expensive to live here as is many parts of the USA. I applaud the Ukrainians defending themselves in these comments, you should. Culture is culture and who knows their culture the best. Treat people with respect and people will treat you with respect I was told and believe.
    One last question. Are these girls on the sites paid to be on them and marketed just to make money from the letters ? (anyone have a realistic percentage on this )

  54. adrian says:

    Terry there are Ukraine dating sites that questionable and I have some suspicions regarding ladies who may get a commision to get men to write to them why?? I notice that a lady I was writing to ( I was paying a fee to open her letters) does not write now that I have paid for so many letters which allowed me to write to her personal email address

    Yet she was very enthusiastic and seemed very genuine when I was paying a fee to open her letters??

    Some Ukrainian guys I know said that the majority of these( pay fee for letters sites are just a rip off) be warned

  55. DeL says:

    I thank all the people here for sharing there insights, after reading all the info here, it had me questioning a few things.

    Firstly I was chatting with one Lady who was 40, I thought she was very nice and I told her that i would only chat with her so if their was a real chance it would atleast start with honesty. After reading all blogs on here I decided that I would create a new Nick name on the site and contact the same lady to see if she would reply or stay sincere to the original me…. You guessed it she replied to the 2nd me (without knowing it was me) and low and behold her first letter to the 2nd me was identical to her first letter to the original me..
    I have since sent a letter saying I will no longer be contacting her..

    Anyway I am not upset or anything as I live in the best country in the world (Australia) have a great job, and for what little money I have spent I can easily afford to write it off, and I am just happier that I really know the real deal as I woul have gone to visit Ukraine.. But not now.. I will go to a country where people are sincere and truthful and for the internet meeting crap I would suggest DON’T!!!!!!

    I hope that this idea helps some other men out there, I realise that there is the additional cost of buying credits under your alias Nick but money well spent and should you come to the same conclusion as me, you will be happy that you did..

    Thanks all.. Have a great 2013…..

    • Sky says:

      this can happen with anybody……anywhere in the world…including australia…..i believe so……But, I am sorry for you and respect and value your emotions…

  56. Alina says:

    DeL, I am sorry you’ve got such a terrible experience with that Ukrainian lady. The thing is that you may not even know whether you correspondence with a woman or a man. Most bridal agencies use fake profiles in order to deceive men and get money from them. That’s a bloody filthy business. There are more chances to meet a realistic woman on free websites. But of course the best way to meet someone is a coincidence.

    • Jack B. says:

      **** IMPORTANT*** If any of you guys are communicating with a woman sending you pictures that may seem a little risqué….. then upload those photos on to Google images… you’ll find out quickly if she really is who she says she is. I did it for half the girls I talked to and the images were of professional models… girls with nude blogs, playboy centerfolds… and so on.. now, they story is that most of these women are in fact pretty. They are just sending photos of the other women because they are afraid of getting their faces photoshopped onto a nude body, and so forth…. or so it seems. I communicated with women who turned out nothing like the original pictures they were sending me…but their real pictures were not too shabby either. Mind you, this was only after I gained their trust and exposed them in my replies…. Some of the professional models probably are solicited by a go-between to pose for pictures if you have requested a specific one… eg: with a striped zebra dress. The girl will tell you she has problems taking a picture or that her friend is a photographer and is out of town or something lame like that, and 2 weeks later you get a picture somewhat matching your request. Ask her to show her real picture the minute she starts asking for money to continue communicating with you. If you get stalled for a while…. then you know it’s not her in the pictures.
      Remember… .Google image upload icon…

  57. Spencer says:

    Blog site members, the variety of comments are all over the map with theory, testerone prowess, and not really understanding the need for human contact.

    First, women will always be whom they are, attractive, unpredictable as ever, and it depends on that very moment how they feel about a situation with a man! Next, men are the same, yet their primal function of conquest is more of a fixation with that infamous little head.

    Next, I’ve had the opportunity to live in Europe for a number years and business travel sent me around the world to live in many different places. With that said, I can share a bit more insight on women in general than most have commented. As a man of color, black African American, the context of my engagement with women has varied from curiosity to genuine desire for companionship. My European experience was a taste such as, Swedes, Danes, German, Czech, Dutch, Latvians, St Petersburg & Moscow Russians (no Ukrainians), Moroccans, and French. I mention these ethnic identities not to brag or to list them as marks on the pistol rack, rather people are people, we all have desire and need, it does not matter your ethic make-up, it’s all about the content of your character.

    I’m sure there are those of you who want to spin their story in such a way that states secular is better or best, but I’m here to say that it is not so! As one person mentioned many guys will say the grass is greener here in the U.S.; however, anyone who is up on economics, the world is in dire straits, there are not too many countries doing well in this economy. But let me get back to the issue of Ukrainian women wanting to escape their existing plight.

    I have to agree with the one blogger comments on this situation that people are silly enough to believe those dating sites and their reference to women who’ve stated irrational words about the state of affairs in particular country, it’s an attention grabber. If you believe that, then I have a bridge to sell you as in the swamps of south Florida. The Internet is a vast cyber-space where no one can hear you scream! The old proverbial saying of “see a fool, bump his head” is so true, common’ guys when will you wake up?

    If you want to meet women from another country, get on a plane and travel there. If you have the resources stay long enough to meet the locals, hang-out if you can and see with your own eyes. What is it that you really see? Marco Polo discovered the orient by plying his ability to barter and trade for goods. You, the Internet chair ridden individual has to step outside your comfort zone and find that Ukrainian, go there and meet her!

    Much has been written about the saga of reasoning because you think you’re much better than the situation, well it’s an illusion between your ears. Go there and make yourself know, rejection is half the fun of getting to know someone. If I were paid one dollar for each time someone refused my forward and candid attitude, I’d be a wealthy man many times over.

    You can’t play the game observing from the sidelines….

  58. david says:

    There are always scammers out there and you have to weed thru them just like anything online, but if you find a legitimate site that scrubbs their members, you can find really nice women. I took these words, in context, from a woman from Ukraine stating her opinion and circumstance.

    Tetiana Vorozhko, a native Ukrainian married to a U.S. citizen, lives in Vienna, Virginia. She has a master’s degree in journalism from Ohio University
    It’s not about the money, it’s about partnership, writes Tetiana Vorozhko. I am a Ukrainian woman in a happy marriage with a U.S. citizen. Our story is a part of a modern trend. Many of the girlfriends I used to hang around with in Kyiv, as well as my own sister, are now raising children in Warsaw, Munich, London, Toronto, Denver, Oklahoma City and Los Angeles; our friends in the Washington, D.C., area are mostly mixed couples of Ukrainian women married to American men.

    Why is that?

    The reasons are plenty. In many comments to Alina Rudya’s article [The People of Ukraine: Part 2 — Women, Kyiv Post, March 12], both Ukrainian and Western men blame Slavic beauties for chasing the money. OK. Who doesn’t? Everybody wants better lives for themselves and their offspring. Let’s be honest. That includes the ability to buy better things and do more exciting stuff.

    All women around the world prefer men who make more money, the same as our ancestors preferred Stone Age hunters who could kill more game to feed their families. Even if a girl in love marries a poor guy, she still sees some potential in him. Nobody goes into a lifelong union determined to stay poor forever.

  59. Bob USA says:

    Where is best place to visit in Ukraine?

  60. Karin says:

    I am the girl from Ukraine Karina. And ridiculously to read me your understanding about the Ukrainian men: ) I am 30 years old. men grow in Ukraine till 40 years. girls it know also it as the Russian roulette of the girl marry at 20-25 what was lucky a question: )) and who wasn’t lucky: ) in the sexual plan at our men everything is normal: ) simply they разбалованы also got used after communists that the woman and for work goes and to children gives birth and borsches cooks, and we any more those we not mother and the grandmother kotoroy will wipe snivels and on a pot reduces, and it is necessary to our men such, their mothers such and look for similar that’s all is divisible: )

  61. Karin says:

    Я хочу замуж и не важно какая страна важно какой человек и почему я не могу искать свою половину во всем мире??? почему вы ищите в украине девушек:)??? да я хочу переехать мне надоели плохие дороги на Украине я постоянно нервничаю через это, но если мне мужчина с украины подарит внедорожник и я не буду замечать плохих дорог я не против выйти замуж за украинца:))))) главное чтобы заботился;)))))))

    • Sky says:

      translated:: from google translate ….

      I want to get married and it does not matter what country it is important what kind of person and why I can not look for the half of the world?? why do you look for in ukraine girls :)?? Yes, I want to move I’m tired of bad roads in Ukraine, I always get nervous over it, but if I give a man from Ukraine SUV and I would not notice the bad roads I do not mind marrying a Ukrainian :))))) the main thing to take care;)) )))))

  62. Tobias says:

    I have married a Ukrainian woman. She is the love of my life! I am 50 and she is 28. So its not impossible to make your dreams come true. She is a good cook, a good lover, and we do everything together. We take showers together. She goes to work with me and we hold eachother all night long. I hope that you too can find your soul-mate like I did. Thanks Ukraine for my love!!

  63. WaterlooGuy says:

    Joseph: YOU ARE AN IDIOT. And you are way too confrontational, so please calm down, smarten up, and try to listen to what PersonalGuide has to say as he really does know what he’s talking about.

    I have been to Ukraine a few times to meet the women, and most of them are just as stuck-up and bitchy as the women here. And I have met the guys and no, they are not drunk and unemployed, they have good jobs just like the guys over here in Canada. And yes, from what I see, there are 100 times more foreign guys trying to find a girl than there are SERIOUS girls trying to find a foreign guy. Even the Philippine women know that Russian women prefer their own MUCH MORE.

    I was married to a 21 year Ukrainian lady from Cherkassy when I was 35. . We were married for 7 years and in that time she had sexual affairs 4 times with other local Russian guys here in Canda, then she left me for a Canadian guy, who then dumped her 6 months later, claiming she was nothing but a SKANKY WHORE, aand that no Russian woman can be trusted. And yes, he’s mostly correct there.

    She never cooked, she hated it when I tried to make love to her. Currently I’m creating a loby group to create a new bill that will make it much harder for these bad women to make it here to Canada. Men are better off being alone than with a Ukrainian woman.

    • Joe Zajac says:

      Waterlooguy I’m perfectly aware about what you trying to say but that doesn’t mean that all of them are a bunch of skanky whores as you’re falsely claiming. Probably the most of them could be like that I don’t know. I’m not saying that I trust them since a lot of western Europeans and many Americans chose Ukraine as a tourist destination in order to satisfy their sexual appetite and that’s something we can’t deny since there’re solid evidence about it.

      Now the worst thing you could have ever done in your life was to trust someone who’s infinitely younger than you. If you’re the kind of guy who spend the whole day in front of your TV with a KFC pack next to you rather than reading a book, exercising and eating fruit, then the probabilities you find a good faithful lady are extremely low.

      You need to take into consideration psychological and social issues before start blaming a whole nation by your misfortune which you’d experienced with that lady who was used to cheated on you.

      I didn’t want to continue arguing in this forum but then I’ve got a E-mail where someone was recalling my name and I thought that this could be a nice opportunity to straight things out.

      And honestly I don’t want to fall into confrontation with personal guide at any instance. And if I were Ukrainian I’d certainly be extremely mad because my comments were kinda offensive and humiliating as well. Sorry for that really.

      • Really men choose to go here to fill their sexual appetite, your a clown.. The only woman that are going to just sleep with men are prostitutes you moron, show us the evidence what is it some std’s

    • Who are you to make it harder for woman to go to Canada

      • Pedro says:

        Ay caramba Jimmy you’re gringo but you definitely need help with your shitty English grammar, comprende? you’re very dumb you got not working neurons, first get a brain before submitting anything.

  64. guga kuerten says:

    Dear personalguide,
    i am a 36 year old spanish man…i knew ukranian girl(22) 3 months ago…and i have come to kiev to meet her
    3 times so far.i think she is from good family,good family values,religious,she goes to university,she has no problem of money…sometimes i think what she likes of me? Because i think she could have any man…but i am really in love with her…she looks like interested in me sometimes but she doesnt want to come to my country yet(for holiday) and she doesnt want to share apartment yet inour meetings in kiev…i am very afraid if she uses me and i would do anything for her if i am sure she is not gonna use me…anyone can help me?

    • personalguide says:

      Hi Luis,
      I think it is 80 per cent that she uses you. There are a lot of women in Ukraine who use foreigners as additional income source and a way of entertainment. You come and pay for her entertainment, shopping, going out, etc. You give her expensive presents and after all she kisses you good bye and says that she is still interested in you and your relationships might have some happy ending. So men usually end up coming to meet such ladies and spend their time and waste their money all for nothing, not even just sex or a good kiss. Well there is a possibility that she is real and interested in you, But what is more probable that she has a boyfriend who she loves or even a husband and you have no chance with her. I would suggest you to be very careful. But if you really love her and there is still a chance that she is serious, the only way to find it out is to check her identity, intentions and being a scammer.

    • Jaime says:

      hola luis,

      me llamo Jaime y creo que estoy en la misma situación que tú. he conocido a una chica en Kiev y me gusta mucho. pero tampoco sé si me está usando.

      ¿ cómo te resultó tu relación finalmente?

    • Aly Ahmed says:

      100 % she is using you, i have a bad expericence of that and i have been there many times

  65. nardoreventon says:

    I am: ” nardo reventon”.. I am from Saudi Arabia (k.s.a.) from riyadh a cabital city..
    I want told every one here thats words: I respect any person in this country (ukrania) also.. I wish to get a marriage a wonderful lady from it.. big kiss from my country for all the ukrainian people. Peas

  66. nardoreventon says:

    Can you give me a local website or agency in Ukraine that’s I can found and a get a real wife and wonderful lady?

  67. This case is not closed.. Joseph is right about many things.. Yes yes I am American.
    Lest be serious here. Culturally yes we are different, that in itself is not easy. Imagine even as a man how hard it would be to just move to Ukraine and try to live with some woman’s family.
    Don’t believe the false statistic that there are 8 woman to 1 man that is not true. These woman don’t just want security, they want a man who is sexy for them. They don’t just want a man who has puppy dog love for them, they want a man they can love. Money does not buy love. They don’t want a old man either don’t be fooled. They want good looking, secure men that can fully understand them and have a completely mutual relationship. Your not going to own these woman in fact most will manipulate you. If you can’t find and have no success with woman in your own country don’t even think of pursuing Ukraine women.
    It makes me sick that Americans think they can just go to another country and because they are American all the woman will want them.. I guaranty you can find some prostitues and then you can go back home tell everyone how many woman you slept with but your friends won’t know the truth that you just banged a bunch of prostitues. Good luck losers

    • I am sorry I meant the guide is right and Joseph is another ignorant tool just like most men that seek foreign woman. I am sorry when I met my woman I was not seeking a foriegn woman I just met one and ended up being with her. I had been with plenty of woman in my own country and never had any trouble finding a woman in my own country. I admit I like my woman I have now more than I liked anyone before.. Wish you all luck cause your going to need it

      • Oscar says:

        Are you affected in the head? because you sounds as such, I don’t know but you sound as if you had had a lot of bad experiences in your life….

  68. says:

    Women are women the world round! There isnt much more to be said at all.

    • Oscar says:

      The majority of all men here sound as if they were just another bunch of useless idiots who do not even care about going to the gym or taking care of their physical appearance so please don’t pretend that any of these ladies would pleasantly go to the bed with anyone of you belly losers!

  69. Khadir says:

    I have ukraine girlfriend asked me marry her and she is calme and i love her very much i live in uk can you give me same good information please.

  70. Markus Stanovich says:

    Great blog

  71. LawrenceH says:

    I am an American guy in his mid-40s. I am tall, good-looking, and make a lot of money ($500k per year). After dating and dating endless American bitches, I got online, and met and married a Filipino girl 14 years younger than me. She is beautiful, educated, extremely talented (ex-professional ballet dancer, and amazing ex-professional singer), speaks fluent English, and can cook like you have no idea.

    She worships me, takes excellent care of me, she is feminine, libertarian, hates American feminism, loves sex, and thinks that American women are the fucking devil. She is truly a magnificent catch.

    Having said that, there are COUNTLESS Filipino girls on dating sites who will steal you blind and have NO INTENTION of leaving the Philippines. In fact, my wife hated leaving. I send her home once or twice a year for 2-4 months out of the year. She loves it. In fact, I go there with her for parts of her trip, because I love it there, too. I also send her over for that much time each year in order for our kids to learn Filipino culture and language, and to get to know their grandparents, aunts and uncles, cousins, etc.

    But the fact remains that if you marry a Filipino girl, for example, and have no intention of allowing her to maintain a close connection with her friends and family back home, you are cheating her out of her relationships, and almost guaranteeing the demise of your marriage. Furthermore, if you have ANY ideation that you will be able to marry a foreign girl, bring her home to your western country, and mould her into an American/Canadian/Aussie/Brit/Kiwi woman, you are DREAMING. Cultural roots cannot be uprooted! Be VERY well-prepared for a multi-cultural relationship. It is more work, more challenging, BUT far more interesting, as well. Nevertheless, it takes a very special guy to do that. I have traveled the world (over 20 different countries on 4 different continents), I am bi-lingual (also fluent in Spanish) and I have a much different perspective than most American guys, whose only experience in international travel is crossing the Mexican border into Boystown for a weekend of chasing hookers. Most American guys totally lack the background to be able to handle a foreign wife, quite frankly.

    I cannot speak about other western men, except maybe Canadians, who are similar (but NOT the same) to American men. But American men, generally speaking, are stupid and extremely naive. They are dumb enough to watch the news (CNN, Fox, MSNBC, take your pick), and actually believe the American-centric nonsense they watch. They also believe that America is the “greatest country”, and that our culture is the best culture, and that our economy is the best economy, and that the whole world looks to us as the leader of the world.

    American men need to understand that the world now has this wonderful thing called the INTERNET, and the rest of the world is far better informed about the realities of America, than most Americans are themselves. The mythology of “the American way of life” and “the American dream” is most thoroughly believed by Americans themselves. The rest of the world has already woken up. America is in a steep decline, both economically and culturally, and the rest of the world knows it. American men were highly desired around the world 50 years ago. Not so much any more. Sorry guys. We blew it.

    Worst of all, if you are an American guy, you are stuck in a country full of obese, ugly, bitchy women, who are the biggest gold-diggers on the planet, AND, at the same time, the women in other countries really don’t want you, for the most part. They want your money, of course, but, YOU? Not really. But they know that they can put their pictures online, write some B.S. in their profile, and that you will be dumb enough to send them money.

    The area of the U.S. where I live has a HUGE Russian population. It is so funny to see all of the Russian girls who come here on fiancee visas, get married, and dump their American husbands a couple of years later, once they have scored citizenship. There are huge enclaves of Russians, and they all know the scam. I have met several of the Russian guys who have told me all about it. The girls get their citizenships, and then bring their Russian husbands over to the U.S. The unsuspecting American dupe never even knew she was married.

    The physical beauty of Ukrainian and Russian women (Ukrainian in particular) is truly astounding. These are some of the best genes in the world, no doubt. But the cultural realities very quickly put those gorgeous models into perspective. Are there some who genuinely want to marry a western guy? Of course! There will always be that 2% or 3% who want to leave their country. That is true of ALL countries. There will always be that 2% or 3% who want to marry outside of their culture or race. That will always exist. But if you think that all of the hot women on these dating sites are a part of that 2% or 3%, you are insane!! Most of those women are gold diggers and are NOT sincere!! It is the same on the Filipino dating sites, as well.

    I can tell you this: In the Philippines, the men really ARE lazy, rude, crude, treat women like shit, they are mostly uneducated, etc. No question that a Filipino women would be MUCH better off with a western guy, and believe me, if you are a good-looking white guy on a tour of the Philippines, while you are there, you will be hit on, stared at, ogled, and flirted with, non-stop. I am not kidding. It is surreal. But that doesn’t change the fact that, when it comes down to brass tacks, most of these girls will NOT sleep with you, they will not date you, and they will certainly not marry you. I don’t think any country would present a western guy with a better opportunity to score a hot wife than the Philippines, and it is still downright difficult to find a girl with whom you can fall madly in love, where she has tons of things in common with you, and yet is still willing to leave her country for you.

    How much harder to find a girl like that in the Ukraine? If you think the Ukraine is poor, I will take you on a tour of the Philippines, and show you POOR. I have been to the Philippines 16 times in the past 9 years, and have traveled throughout that country extensively. Trust me when I tell you that it is a VERY poor country. A lot of manufacturing is leaving China now, and heading to Viet Nam, Philippines, etc., because wages are cheaper in these other countries than in CHINA. You cannot imagine what you can hire out in the Philippines, and how little you will pay. Things like concrete work, for example. I poured a driveway that was 15 feet wide, by 25 feet long. My total cost was $600, for supplies and labor. It took 3 guys three 12-hour days to get the job done, and they did a splendid job. That price also included a walkway from the driveway to the front door of our home in the Philippines. The walkway is 3 feet by 20 feet long.

    This is a terribly poor country, and I can assure anyone reading this, that the men in the Philippines make the men in the Ukraine look like knights in shining armor. Filipino men are largely worthless. Yet, again, good luck finding a Filipino girl with whom you are truly compatible, and who will be willing to leave her home to be with you, living half-way around the world. And YES, my wife’s family back home has DSL, and they communicate DAILY by Skype, and iChat. They video chat and everything else, but it is not the same as being there. Thus, we are there once or twice a year.

    If you can’t afford to do that, I highly recommend that you not bother trying to score a foreign bride, UNLESS YOU ARE WILLING TO LIVE IN HER COUNTRY WITH HER, LEARN HER LANGUAGE, AND HER CULTURE.

    Culturally, the U.S. is a piece of shit. Maybe leaving the country will be the best bet for many of you. If you truly want a traditional wife, i.e., a woman who knows her role in a marriage and does NOT want to be the man (unlike 99% of all American women, and most western women), the best bet may be to leave the U.S. (or your respective countries), and live elsewhere with a much better woman in a much better culture. Feminism and unlimited faith in government has absolutely ruined western culture. This is why you are a man looking at pictures of beautiful Ukrainian women, dreaming about having a wife who is feminine, traditional, and who also happens to be a runway model. Your country’s rotting feminist culture has run you out of your own country, forcing you to look for love elsewhere.

    Have you met any guys here in the U.S. who have scored a hot runway model wife from the Ukraine? I’d love to see one, where the marriage lasts for more than 2-3 years. I’d love to see some of the kids from these runway models and their American husbands. Most will NEVER have kids with you, because they don’t intend to stay married to you!

    Oh, don’t get me wrong, I am sure that there are a couple of marriages like that out there, between American guys and Ukrainian women. But they are VERY exceptional. You will find countless more marriages like mine (white guy, Filipino wife), where the couple is still together 6, 7, 9, 10 years later, and with kids, too. But even my situation is pretty rare.

    When I was 23 years old, I rented a room in a really nice house of a rich guy who was 49, who was married to a Russian girl who was 32. They had been married for 3 years. They were fighting nearly every day, and she finally left him after I had been there for a couple of months. The guy told me that she had suddenly gone from being a sweet, nice girl, to outright picking fights with him over nothing, continuously. He was baffled. In the end, they divorced, and she got a lot of money out of him in the divorce, plus, she had scored her U.S. citizenship. I do not know what she did after that. All that I DO know was that this guy was not bad looking, he was VERY wealthy, he was VERY considerate, respectful, and loving to his wife, and she treated him like DOGSHIT. She was NOT a runway model, by the way. She was average looking, but did have a pretty nice body. They lived in a beautiful house just off of the coast of Florida’s Treasure Coast. Beautiful area to live in. She did not want kids, and she was obviously not there for the long-haul, by any stretch of the imagination. That was 23 years ago. How much worse is it now, boys?

    The best thing that we U.S. men could possibly do, is to REFUSE to marry American women, and treat them like the whores that they are. That is the only way we can take our culture back, and beat those cunts into submission.

    • John says:

      LawrenceH can I ask you something?

      Why did you end up marrying a non white girl who’s even infinitely much younger than you?

      You sound as if you’d had a lot of bad experience dating white American women.

      • Paul Gerasimenko says:

        You cannot generalize and take that opinion written by an idiot like yourself as a fact. + what woman would love getting laid with a man at his mid-40’s or even older?

    • miky says:

      You are rirght I met a few american woman they been very nice and friendly honest in opposition to Ukrainian ones

    • Mike says:

      I concur with most of what Lawrence says here. In particular, if you are a man over about 30 and think you will score a foreign woman, bring her home and live happily ever after, you are dreaming. Doing so is damn hard and success rates are very low.

      And even more specifically, toxic feminism has ruined American culture. Having the nice life my parents had, which was once the norm, is now very rare. So for all you guys under 30, my advice is to get the hell out of the US. That is easier said than done, but it is possible if you have a solid education, profession, and know how to work hard. Also, if you are savvy enough to find the sorts of companies and opportunities that will send you overseas. (Forget about the old fantasy of backpacking it – you need to have something to offer). I say if you are younger than 30 because it is a major cultural adjustment and that is easier when you are younger. But for all the hard adjustment, you will have a much better chance of enjoying the things in life that nature intended – a loving wife and kids.

      As to which country, that is another long discussion. But just forget about “the West.”

      And, yes, I live and work overseas in a non-western country. It was almost an accident that I made that move, but the best accident ever in my life.

      As Lawrence says, if you are stuck in the USA, treat the women like whores. Use them for carnal needs and ignore everything that comes out of their mouths. That’s the best you can make of a very bad situation.

  72. Jack B. says:

    Ummm.. I’m going to Donetsk and then to Lugansk next month to see a girl… I think she likes me, she seems into me. we’re just beginning to Skype each other. If I put some effort into it… I could get lots of dates over here Stateside… but I don’t want to be made to jump through hoops of fire like a trained circus animal… this is what the Domestic women of the U.S. want from a guy… plus I’m a Non-Hispanic, Non-black ethnic minority… (non-muslim South Asian). I personally like white women, but they think I’m something that I’m not at first glance…they’re mostly prejudice… not racist… just prejudice. So I don’t even approach them anymore. I got a lot of attention in College in my college class in Kansas, and I missed some great opportunities to meet women because I had my head to much in the books… but now after being divorced twice from women of my own ethnic background…. I just do not want to look at women from my Native country or from the U.S. I’m going to Ukrine not knowing what to expect, but if I am lucky enough to hit it off with this girl… I am making sure to learn Russian. I’ve already been learning for over 3 months and have a good working knowledge of basic phrases… I think it’s the least you can do if a woman might be ready to leave her home and family behind… at least you could learn the language there… I’m looking forward to learning Russian from REAL everyday, people in Eastern Ukraine, and seeing the bad spots of the cities as well as the good spots… hopefully with a sweet lady who wants to walk arm-in-arm with me…
    “God gave beauty and brains to the women of Eastern Europe, everywhere else he just gave them the ability to make opinions”.

  73. Steve Griffin says:


    I have read all these posts and must comment. I have been to the Ukraine three times and dated several women who say they want to be married and move to the U.S. I get 50 emails a day and all are beautiful women. I have worked the letters down to a few from which I have limited to one and met her twice and talk to her daily for 6 months. She is beautiful and sincere in my opinion. She is willing to sign a per-nuptual and pay her own way to the U.S. to get married.

    I have had women try to scam me and I have had nice women who were a joy to be with. I have been using a dating agency for over a year.

    As I mentioned I have women who I have been writing for a long time, met them and had dinner with them, and narrowed my search down to one. I think if you are very careful and take many trips the scammer quickly separate from the women who are sincere in their wishes. But it takes time and a lot of exchanges in letters, webcam, and visits.

    As far as the many insults in the blog it makes me sad. The conversations do not have to go that way. I am an older educated American and do not consider myself any better or worse than any Ukrainian man. I did see a lot of alcohol consumption while I was there. And alcohol is a problem there as well as the U.S. I saw the same thing in Japan.

    I NEVER saw a Ukrainian woman with bruises or any sign of abuse. I did hear a lot of stories about alcohol, abuse, and cheating.

    Most of the women I dated and met were 35 and over. I did not date any women below that age group. They always presented themselves very well and where polite. I was never asked to buy them anything other than dinner.

    I think my experiences were not typical because I 1.did not date very young women, 2. dated only women with at least one child, 3. made it clear our relationship would take time and I was not in a hurry, 4. made it clear she would pay her own way over to the U.S. if our relationship went that far.

    This approach limited the scammers because they do not like these 4 approaches. I am going over again in the fall to meet the one woman I think is sincere and meet her family. I expect her to come over in 2014 after a year of talking, meeting, and discussing our relationship and our affections for each other.

    I enjoyed every trip to the Ukraine. I took bus trips, met many Ukrainians and found them to be wonderful people. The country is culturally rich and a WONDERFUL country to visit. I would move there and retire if given the opportunity. I say this because family is number one to these people. They are very focused on family and it is a joy to experience after being married in the U.S. and divorced too.

    In any case please feel free to write me. I will respond to all emails but will not engage in culture or country slamming.

    If you want to write me and ask any questions I can be reached at

    • Jack B. says:

      You told the ladies that THEY would have to pay their way to the US?? That’s a long stretch… especially if you are seeing women who already have kids. Considering the average monthly salary of a Ukrainian lady is around $300… how do you think she’ll be able to afford all the other expenses involved in the Immigration process, never mind the airfare for her and her child. If she had access to that kind of money, she’d probably just try to find a man from Europe or even closer…. I’d be delighted to hear about how you pull this one off….

      • Steve Griffin says:

        Hi Jack,

        My comment didn’t stick to your question. Yes, I know what each girl make because some tell me. And yes, I have asked for Passport, Visa, and plane ticket. I have had push back but usually those women are gone soon. I have had two say no problem right away. These are women in their late 30;s and early forties. One is a travel agent and the other owns her own construction company. Of course this is what they have told me and who knows. We’ll see when the time comes. I also have one more trip (meet the parents) and wait for the attorneys to finish the paperwork and deal with the Consulate. I’ll keep you in the loop as things progress.

      • Steve Griffin says:

        Hi Jack,

        I have still been talking to my “girlfriend” for over a year now. She now has her passport but was denied on her first visa application. She is going again back to Kiev to try at getting her tourist visa again. I don’t know that all this is true. But if she shows up at my door I will let you know. This is one that told me she has money and does not need mine. Most of her letters have remained extremely romantic. So if what she says is true she has paid for her passport ($300) and is now working on the visa ($1,000). I guess time will tell. Of course with all the unrest in the Ukraine now, who know what will happen with passports and visas.

      • Jack B. says:

        Well Steve… I hope that she is being honest with you. To tell you honestly, I have my doubts about her being granted a tourist visa, that is pretty rare. It might be a long shot, but maybe there will be a point if the violence gets too out of hand that the U.S. will grant asylum to ordinary Ukrainians. At the very least, your chances of getting her out of there are better right now. I used to see my girl on Skype every other day… now I see her twice a day. We are planning a trip to the Crimea in the spring… after which time I will start her paperwork. Of course, in my case I will be footing the bill for the immigration expenses. She sometimes is still very humble and self degrading… saying that it will be too expensive for me to pay for her expenses, even though she is crazy about me. This just makes me get closer and closer to her. Because of the below zero temps over there she has not been able to go to work, but today she will brave the cold to look after her workers, who are mostly the homeless….

  74. Steve Griffin says:

    The response to this question is accurate and I did many of the same things. You can also see my comments too. I am now writing to the woman I have been attracted to through personal email.

  75. Steve Griffin says:

    Sorry, wrong question. I am new at this. To answer the question about numbers. You would never know this because the websites don’t publish this information. But there are many of these websites out there. They have offices in every major city staffed by a few people. I never did meet any other westerners when I was there. I went to multiple cities via bus and never met anyone on these buses doing what I was doing. I just don’t know but I am sure it is enough to make tons of money for these folks.

  76. Steve Griffin says:

    Yes, and you’re right about the salaries. Several have told me what they make and I too was skeptical. We’ll see how it goes. One of the women I knew ran a travel agency so it is possible she had this covered.

  77. Mark says:


    Thanks for your insights. You show respect for people in other cultures, and I like that. A lot of the guys give Americans a bad name, like we don’t already look bad enough. I hope it works out for you and you get the right woman.

  78. elbochie says:

    Ukrainian men vary as American men do, however, there are a lot of ugly men there. Many do not take care of their appearance and many smoke and drink. It is very hard to get a woman to leave her home anywhere and it is harder to get them to leave Odessa. There are nice places to eat and many enjoy living there. I would if I find a woman to marry. If you want to get laid ask the concierge to hook you up and tell him what you want. Usually it is 100 bucks plus about for taxi home for the girl. She gets to keep 30 bucks out of this. And you can screw some really hot chicks, much better than playing the game on their turf. You will lose and be out a lot of money. Women will not normally go out with old men but it is common there because they want a sugar daddy, however, you can find the same thing in America, although she may be strung out on drugs.

  79. Steve Griffin says:

    This was a very interesting post. I have been to the Ukraine twice and I am getting ready to go again in search of a wife. The information is accurate. I had a taxi driver who had business cards from prostitutes that were college students. They charged $50 an hour and were beautiful. But I think you have to weigh two things. First why would you spend $1500 (at least) for air fare, food, and hotel to get a prostitute when you could go to a major city and get the same thing for a few hundred dollars. Second the Ukraine has a high HIV/AIDS infection rate because of IV drug usage. I would not take a chance on that to get laid. But that’s me. And my info is from the WHO.

    I have been talking women for over a year and after that long inconsistencies will show up in their stories if there are any. I also feel after a year they are serious in their intentions.

    Yes of the women who come back 50% will leave. I have friends who have had this experience with their Ukrainian wives. You can’t take the culture out of someone.

    The way I dealt with this homesick issues is, these four women have no family to speak of. Their father is long gone (common story) and their mothers are in other countries working jobs. Two of the four have businesses and don’t need my money and they are in their forties but still beautiful. Those are my characteristics I look for.

    Now these are only my warped approach to hoping they will not miss the Ukraine too much and want to leave. Of course I have been there twice now and I can see why they love the country. It was hard for me to leave the last time.

    The point to my posting is to tell you that yes, the hookers are cheap and beautiful if that is your thing. It is not mine. Also to tell you what I look for when looking for a wife because I think it decreases the odds of her leaving after a year or so. I have also been writing these four for at least a year. The ones that aren’t serious are long gone.


  80. Mario says:

    I married a Ukrainian woman in march 2012 still waiting for her to get her papers to come to Canada. Now I have been to the Ukraine many times and spent a lot of time there over the last 2 years but I’ve been traveling there for about 13 years. I got to tell you that the personal guide is correct you should listen to him. men are men in the Ukraine and there are many good men there. life can be financially more difficult there but on the whole, people generally have a good life.
    As for looking for a wife it can be difficult to get connected to a woman that is honest and sincere, and there the scammers out number the good women, and the net is full of sites that offer only scammers, one girl can have up too 10 or more different pic, of different girls that she presents herself as being, they get a cut of the money that you spend to write to her, so it is in her favour to speak to many men, and I have met a few of these girls, and the got money. But I got to also defend the good women, and there are a few, a real Ukrainian woman will make a good man a good wife. but it is not so easy to find you need to go there by connecting with a honest dating service that will set you up with different women that are screened to keep out the scammers, professional daters, hookers etc… and still you can never be sure, this is why it is so difficult for these women to come to Canada or the US the government knows that they are trouble.

  81. Tim says:

    I have read this blog from beginning to end. Everyone here has their good and bad points but I think (and may be wrong) that Steve Griffen is the closest to being accurate. I have been lucky enough to live in Europe for many years as well as Israel so have met many lovely ladies from many countries.
    The one thing I have found is that they are all the same no matter where they are from. As one we all want acceptance and to be loved and as one we all have our scammers in our own countries that EVERYONE has to watch out for. Yes I own my own business and no I am not rich. I am 51 yrs old and naturally as a mature male I would love to see some hot sexy young lady loving me but then reality sets in and I wake up. I would love to meet someone that is honest, loving, caring and looks after themselves both physically and mentally. I have kept myself in shape all my life as my job demands it. I am however very picky about the person I am with as she will have to put up with me as much as I will with her and let me tell you I am no joy to be around sometimes.
    If you are lucky enough to find someone then way to go, work like hell to keep them and have a lot of patience as they will need the same with you. Trust me, it has taken me 51 yrs to realize I am not gods gift to humanity so I have been humbled and would love to meet the “right one” for me no matter where she lives. Good luck to everyone and Steve thanks for some rational thinking, as an American you have hit the nail on the head with the thinking pattern there. Hope your marriage works out and if she has any friends give me a shout.

  82. BB says:

    Any place thats advertised as having really sexy, easy to get females is going to have men outnumbering women quickly. I have a couple of friends that are Ukrainian and they said places like Odessa and Moscow have nothing but guys with expensive cars, clothes, many in there late teens to early 20’s. Think Las Vegas NV, my home town, is a fountain of penis. Trendy and popular places have too many men spending too much money, so Joe Average has to move on!

  83. Jack B. says:

    I am in Lugansk right now as I write this….
    I can see how life in this city is depressing and why people would want to leave here….. water gets turned off after midnight, nothing to do after midnight, all streetlights off also after midnight…I mean complete pitch black!! I also went to Dnipropetrovsk… and I must say that it is a lot better there…. the girl I met there said there are is a lot of ignorant people in Lugansk and Donetsk…. and I’m inclined to believe her….
    Overall….though, Ukraine is a nice country, and the people generally are very friendly…. speaking a little Russian before you come is almost a necessity…. trust me, you will be glad you learned it…
    Maybe next year I will visit Kiev… I don’t know… I think things between me and the girl from Dnipropetrovsk are going well… so I may just go back there instead….

  84. Steve Griffin says:

    I have been to Kharkov, Donetsk, Nikolai, and Dnepropetrovsk dating women in those cities. I used the train and bus to get around. Your suggestion to learn a little Russian is a must. The only other way to get bus and train tickets if you travel is to tip the cap driver and have him get the tickets for you. The folks behind the counter will not have patience with you since the train stations are always busy. So an English speaking cab driver helps and they will be glad to do this for you.

    Also if the cab driver knows about flats for rent use them. The hotels run $100 a night and up. My cab driver found me a flat that was huge, beautiful, and only $50 a night in downtown Dnepropetrovsk.

    I am now concentrating on Dnepropetrovsk because I am convinced the most beautiful women in the country are there. That and it is a beautiful city with a lot to do and see. Be sure and see the longest Embankment (wharf) in the world while you are there.

    I wish you luck with your lady Jack. I am nearing the end of my search after one year on the site. But I have been extra cautious. Knowing 1/2 of the women who come over go back within two years I was very careful who I dated. I tried to find older women with 1 child and no family. I have found a few that meet that criteria. My favorite lady is well off (owns 4 businesses, and has no family. Oh yes, she is drop dead gorgeous!

    I have been very happy with the web site although the agency rep in Kharkov was less than honest. The agency runs off a loose federation of Ukrainians in the country to run the business. On the other hand the rep in Dnepropetrovsk was awesome and worked way harder than she was supposed to do.

  85. Jack B. says:

    Yeah, Lugansk is a real rathole….
    even the girls from surrounding cities don’t want to come to Lugansk because it is so drab….
    My lady does not own businesses like yours does, but she works in her Fathers business, and is very thrifty with money…
    When I left lugansk to go to Dnipropetrovsk, I called her on the phone so she could talk to the taxi driver to drop me off at the bus station and help me to buy my ticket without ripping me off. She told me to pay the man $10. I thought this was the minimum fare just to get to the station.. he came inside… helped me buy the ticket, and walked me to the bus platform and told me where to wait. I thought that it was his courtesy so I gave him an extra $5, so $15 total. When I got to Dnipropetrovsk, she and I were discussing money and how much people earn in Ukraine and such… she asked me how much I paid the taxi driver, and I told her $15…. she got a little upset that I gave the guy an extra $5!!! She said “I told you how much to pay, but you didn’t listen to me, I discuss with him $5 to drive you and $5 to help buy ticket”. This conversation was AFTER I made clear to her that I may not even choose her as my woman, and that I was also meeting with other girls, so I knew right then that she really cared for me, and that she was a keeper…I felt a little bit used when I paid for her friends food and drink for a couple of days… but her friend was really keen on us being together in the end… so I think it was ok, and it was her friends suggestion that she put her profile up on the dating website where we met each other.
    It happened so fast, she even took me to meet her parents and her mother cooked a feast for us… I bought some Tequila from the US that I shared with them… they were ecstatic. Her younger brother seemed a little concerned at first, but I think he warmed up to me by the second day…
    She drinks beer, likes sports, is frugal with money, eats spicy food like me and doesn’t think that sex should be a taboo subject as much as it is in the U.S. What more could a guy ask for?
    I just need for her to be a teensy little bit more homely in terms of kitchen abilities, but I’m sure she’ll get that from her mother. The whole family works every single day of their life in their family business… so she is accustomed to a tough life.
    Like I said before, she is NOT drop dead gorgeous, don’t get me wrong, with a little effort, she could easily be a head turner… she already has the body to be one, but I am more turned on by her exceptional smarts, which can sometimes not be so easy to find in Ukrainian women… so all of you who read this… don’t spend a whole bunch of money to go to Ukraine and let your little head do the thinking once you get there… you might wind up with an empty wallet…
    Do a lot of homework before you leave…. the more the better.

  86. Steve Griffin says:

    Hi Jack,

    This sounds very good for you. The thing with her friend was a little payback for getting the bio on the website. It’s OK and is expected.

    I think the deal with the cab is she was concerned that you paid too much. But I ‘d just let it go. It’s not worth getting in a disagreement and I would guess her upbringing makes her a little cautious with money. That’s a good thing guy!

    They do work their asses of. Most the women I have met work 6 to 7 days a week and do 10 to 12 hour days. They are tough people.

    It is a little unusual that you met her parents already if you haven’t know her that long. Sounds like she isn’t going to let you go.

    They do have a different outlook on sex than we do.

    You know Jack, most of them are beautiful compared to what we are used to. Sounds like a good deal all around for you. I hope things continue to go well for you.

    Two things you hit the nail on the head with. Use the the right head or lose tons of money and do lots of homework.

  87. Olya says:

    It was interesting to read this article as I am Ukrainian woman who got married to an amazing Canadian man and I could not be more happier!!
    I don’t know where the guy who wrote this article got this information that there is a lot of man in Ukraine? not true at all…you can go any places in Ukraine and you can see so many single beautiful girls out there.
    Not enough decent guys that’s for sure! I would even say that most of them so spoiled that they now have this criteria how the girl should look like in their imagination and the other thing is most of the guys can not even take care of themselves because they are so used that their mothers cooking and washing their clothes every day compare to Western European or American guys who are more capable of taking care of themselves from the early age.
    I can say only one thing…that everyone has a choice in their own life and I made mine.

    • Lina says:

      You’re right Olya men here beside being very hideous are completely mindless.

      • Steve Griffin says:

        I find this conversation very interesting. I am in Kharkov at the City Club Hotel right now. I have met a couple very nice Ukrainian women and must say they are very beautiful. I can clean, cook, do laundry, and do not need a woman for these things. I would offer to date anyone (woman of course) who contacts me today at the hotel and show you that American men are able to run their own house, are very affectionate, and not bad looking.

  88. adrian says:

    Olya I am glad everything turned out well for you I have not been to Ukraine but once met two Ukrainian girls working for a childrens charity I was working in India at the time They where great girls very funny and very polite

  89. Steve Griffin says:

    I have been to the Ukraine twice now and the third trip next month. I have met a couple beautiful, polite, and attentive women.

  90. Steve Griffin says:

    The Ukraine is a wonderful country rich in history and tradition. You should visit and talk to the women there. They will tell you the same thing this woman has said, They do make wonderful dates and I suspect wives. They take care of themselves, are intelligent, and hard workers. My dates have been nothing short of spectacular.

  91. adrian says:

    I am hoping to visit in the Spring

  92. Steve Griffin says:

    Getting ready to make my final trip to find my other half. Every trip has been great, the women beautiful (with or without makeup), the culture exciting, and the women beautiful. Did I say that already? $*)

    I have spent more than a year talking to several women. I think I have made a choice and will spend a couple weeks in country solidifying my relationship with her.

    She makes good money due to four well run and profitable businesses. This woman has it all. So off I go down the path of domestic bliss. You should all never give up. But be smart, do you research, and be careful who you fall in love with. Learn some Russian, and set your expectations at a reasonable level. There are good women and bad women just looking for a buck just like in the US.

    I will check in when I get back to the US.

  93. Russian says:

    Ukrainian women are the most stunning women on this planet. There are no ugly Ukrainian women, you know? I mean, Ukrainian women are tall and in excellent shape. What else do you need from a girl? Hope it helps.

  94. Kadiri says:

    Ukrainian women?That’s new? men always want a good looking women ,i personaly don’t care .All the women are igual if they are well educated and support man in bad time.To marry a woman just to enjoy sex or for the others to say “wow what a woman he has” is a stupid idea.

  95. TRUTH says:

    white illegal westerners in Canada and America are women beaters bums backstabbers . to all Ukrainian women stay away from these germbags they are out to hurt you and hurt you good! why do you suppose their own weomen in north America don’t want anything to do with them. white people in north America are scumleeches are mental don’t know how to dress are obsessive and abusive.and don’t are better off with a nice handsome indian Aryan guy.they are rich and are not infidels and have monogamous relationships with no baggage and have the lowest divorce rates!

    • Steven Griffin says:

      I feel so sorry for you. Have you ever been to America?

      I have never beat a woman, dress well, am in the upper income bracket, and shower every day. Soon I will marry my Ukrainian fiancee and she is more than willing to come to America. I don’t know where you get your information but it is just wrong.

    • Jack B. says:

      Dude, there is absolutely no need to play the victimized south Asian Desi card here, and start taking it out on the white dudes… there’s many Ukrainian women themselves who are racist, and will not even look at a brown dude like you or me. Yeah, maybe Indian men are monogamous, but some of them also treat their white girlfriends/wives like dirt, as if she is a trophy catch to them… and baggage? I don’t know WTF part of India you are from… but virtually ALL of India has this bullshit belief that the wife is subservient to the husband. At social events all the men and women are separated… I’ve grown up with this BS… what do you think a poor white Slavic woman would talk about with all these self centered, egotistical, calculating, scandalous Indian cunts?? I swear to god I don’t know what some white guys see in our stupid head-up their ass Indian broads. “I want a chick from the land of the Kama Sutra”, NO YOU DON’T!!! Instead of getting better in bed, Indian women have a tendency to get WORSE… Just my two cents after being married to two of them. All these antiquated customs and beliefs need to be thrown out the door… India as a country still believes itself to be an innocent little flower and tries in vain to avoid all kinds of Western culture and socioeconomic influence….

  96. TRUTH says:

    if I was to be with a Ukrainian or Russian woman I would take great extreme care of her and would let her not work if she didn’t want to after all I am self sufficient and self employed and I believe in old traditional ways that it is the mans prerogative to make sure his woman is well taken care of whether it be good food nice house to live in and beautician manicure hair etc all taken care of no problem. she would be spoiled !and always loved! and have the life she always wanted which is security happiness,entertainment,shopping,going for drives to special resorts and have dining.i like Ukrainian north east indian women and Russian women the three favourite and most hottest women on the planet at least to me that is.

    • Joe Czerkawsk says:

      Personally I wouldn’t like to see a white woman marrying a Dravidian. There shouldn’t be any doubt that all you want is to corrupt Slavic genes with your filth and defective genetic which will submit Western culture into another third world nation of undeveloped useless vermin. These woman do not want to marry pigs like you why don’t you go home and let these women alone!

      Slavic women for Slavic men only! I am a Slavic descendant who speaks 4 European languages. Do not pretend that these women are at your disposal only because you’re an alien!

      • Steve Griffin says:

        There is obviously a need not being met and thus the reason for these women to advertise on a website. The ones I have talked to (thousands at this point) want to be with a man who loves them, trusts them, and treats them like an equal. Perhaps you should direct your comments at your own women and see how they react.

        Of course I am no expert, I only get 50 emails a day requesting my attention since this must be missing in their lives. it is obvious they DO want to marry western men. My three trips to the Ukraine have convinced me that they are lacking in attention and so have decided to seek it in another country. Of course I am very happy about that.

    • Jack B. says:

      dude, seriously, you sound like you just want to become ANY woman’s little bitch… why don’t you just stick your neck out for any interested woman so she can put a collar and leash on you.. don’t be surprised if you wake up one day and the house is stripped bare of everything you owned.

  97. Joe Czerkawsk says:

    There must have been something which made you change your mind since the last time I read your comment.

    Well you shouldn’t trust them if I were you! But I wish you the best with your woman quest in Ukraine. I can’t deny that many things which you mentioned are indeed true.

  98. Markus Stanovich says:

    Hey Joe racist, Slavic women for Slavic men? Also all the Ukrainians that escaped and are living luxury in a modern county, should move back to Ukraine. In fact all immigrants worldwide should go home to their country of origin!!!!!

  99. brian says:

    Come on don’t stop now it is just getting good

  100. Oliver says:

    I have read all your posts and arguments.
    Lets hear what Ukraine women got to say or don’t you allow them their opinion ?

  101. Mark says:

    What is odd, I have a profile on four sites. When the “same” lady is contacted at different sites, I am a “stranger”!

    Also, with over 1,000,000 free ways to “chat”, why in the world do they want you to pay to chat UNLESS they are not serious, I’m feeling scammed, haha

  102. Steve Griffin says:

    Yes Americans cab be irritating but so can Chinese, Germans, and any other group of people.

    And yes, changes take hold slowly in countries that had not seen change in hundreds of years. And I agree not everything in the Ukraine is working properly and perfectly. I have visited the Ukraine three times in the last year. I came into the country as an ignorant American. But the more times I visited the Ukraine the more times I fell in love with her culture, kind and hardworking people, and natural beauty. I do not think the Ukraine is stupid or disgusting. I think the Ukraine is full of hard working people who just want to make a living and be happy. It is a wonderful country and it does pain me to see the political problems tearing the country apart. But I think the people are tired of the corruption, a government that doesn’t listen (we have that too), and working so hard for so little. I have many friends in the Ukraine now and I hear both sides of the story. One thing that the Ukrainian people do not lack is passion.

    I think I have discovered the heart of the Ukraine you mention. A story helps here to explain why I think the Ukraine is such a wonderful country. On my first trip I was on a train from Kiev to Kharkov. I was jet lagged and paced up and down the rail car. There was a retired couple in the car with me and a younger man who was traveling also. This retired couple brought a little food and make a small dinner for each other. It was pretty obvious I was an American. When I walked past the car on another pass at the isle the woman stood up and offered me a plate. I though WOW! These people do not know me and they are willing to share their small meal with me! I was so appreciative and humbled by their kindness. To me THIS is the heart of the Ukraine. The young man even offered me a ride into town to a hotel. He had a car and wanted to give me a lift. Of course it wasn’t necessary because I have a ride waiting. But this retired couple and young man who didn’t know me wanted to help knowing I was lost in a strange country.

    I can still see their kind smiling faces. And I will never forget their kindness. This is the Ukraine most Americans never see.

  103. Steve Griffin says:

    This is the very reason you should ask for photos in her “normal” setting. Those will help show she is a real person. And then there is always the trip to meet her that will show she is who she says she is.

  104. Greg says:

    Hey don’t judge all Americans by one man he does not speak for all of us I have many friends In Ukraine and other countries and I am with a woman from kherson every country has problems and yes that was a remark that should have never been said but you need to watch how you say it too because you just came off the same way as him just from another country.

  105. RC says:

    I have taken the time to read over all of the postings and you all have a diverse point of view I’m talking from personal experience I have been corresponding with a Ukrainian lady know for over 2 years I have in the Ukraine twice and base on my observations their are serious problems in the Ukraine the amount of men suffering from alcoholism is extremely high compare to most other countries this has to do with the lack of opportunities for good employment also the levels of corruption are sky high I experience that first hand the minute I got to the Airport in Odessa the customs try to get a bribe from well they did in order for me to be able to enter the country with items I had brought my lady friend. Know things are even worst I was schedule to return this summer to start the process of getting my fiancé her visa to come to the US with me but do to the current situation in the Crimean and the Russians presence their I may not be able to go my fiancé is very afraid she’s a nurse and she has been told that if a civil war starts all Doctors and nurses will be required to go to the Crimean region to provided medical support and she’s very afraid I was trying to expedited her visa process but the US consulate is currently only taking care of Americans living in the Ukraine and all none essential staff are been evacuated back to the US so all of the consulates and the Embassy will only have essential staff in place, until this entire situation is resolve. so lets hope all goes well and this entire issue does not escalated to a civil war.

  106. Michael Hazen says:

    Dear friend, I have been widowed for two years. I tried dating in my area. San Francisco bay area. I own my home in Napa. Ca. I was disappointed. So I joined sites from other countries. One in particular was Anastasia. Ukraine women
    who want men from America. I spent hundreds of dollar’s and many hours corresponding. I even set travel plans to go to Odessa. The woman I was to meet had gotten arrested for illegal trafficking. So I can celled my trip. I have been receiving at least a half a dozen letters a day from all kinds of girls from this site every day. They all write the same thing. Ukraine men are dogs they get drunk they are abusive. And they want to fall in love with me. I have one question. Should I continue with this site and how sincere are these girls? I have a hard time believing that a single woman some with children would leave their career family and surroundings friends to move in with me. It’s just not logical. Sincerely; Diamondmike

    • personalguide says:

      Hi Mike, any agency site is based on scam. There is much more demand than supply. Lots of thousands of men want to find a young, beautiful Ukrainian Lady. But we don’t have enough women of their dream who want to leave their country and move somewhere far away from what they like and who they love. But men want them so desperately that they are ready to believe that all those model type girls on agency sites dream about western guys day and night. Well, they just earn money, they don’t even bother to be varied in their letters. They send you same things all the time. You pay per letter and they get their interest. But well, it is possible to come across a real woman on any of these sites, but the chances are so low, that you might spend lots of your time and money with no result.
      Another point is if you want to marry a Ukrainian woman who is nice, loving, caring, and ready to leave her country, family and friends; you need to offer her something better. In other words you need to be well off. If some hundreds of dollars is a big money for you and you aren’t ready to spend some thousands for the search better don’t start.
      My advice is-
      – leave the agencies, all of them, try free local Ukrainian dating sites, don’t pay for the letters.
      – do learn some Russian, you’ll be more confident then
      – if you want to make it faster, hire a dating agent who can do it for you and on your behalf.

      Need any help write directly

    • underhill32 says:

      Those are the sorts of sites that need to be named and shamed so they don’t get used.

  107. Steve Griffin says:


    I have been on Jump4Love for over a year. I have met (4 Ukraine trips)
    several women and have several who tell me they would come back with me. Are they being honest? Most of them are in my opinion based on what I hear when I am at dinner with them.

    I have not heard good things about the website you are on. I have met the women I write and they are real. I speak a little Russian and so I can follow the conversations between my date, the translator, and the woman I am with. In every case but one the conversations were sincere. And boy was she surprised when I spoke Russian to her and told her what I thought of her professional dating for dinner scam. Of course I did not tell them I speak Russian and so they were unaware I could follow the conversation.

    My advice to you is to leave this site and try another. Mordenson Agency is a family run business and is a good honest service. I would also suggest Jump4Love. I actually have a woman I have proposed to, gotten her passport, and now we are working on her visa. Of course the political issues are preventing me from going back again for now.

    Before you commit to any woman I would suggest meeting her a couple times. The immigration folks will require this anyway. The times I came to the Ukraine I had 4 to 6 dates set up and would take these women to dinner and listen to them and the translator talk. As I mentioned I knew what they were saying.

    But you MUST learn some Russian and go to the Ukraine and visit them. Of course it is not safe now but that will change. If you have lots of cash you can also hire a private detective to look into this woman you are interested in when it gets serious.

    I think you were unlucky this time but keep trying because there are women who want to marry and come to the US. I know 6 Russian/Ukrainian women here in the US that got here by finding a American husband and marrying them. All are happy and have children. So it is possible but there are many dishonest services and women out there. As I mentioned I took a year to meet and propose to my fiance so it took time and I was very cautious.

    If you want you can write me and I’ll go into great detail about my experiences off line.


  108. seen all the scams says:

    I communicate with several women for free via what’s app, and Skype, I have learned over the years, scammers don’t want to leave the agencies because of $$$ there are 1,000,000+ free translation sites on the internet, so communication is a lie they say they must stay at agency.

    Be careful

  109. sandesh nundraj says:

    I’m a south african indian male looking for a sexy stunning supermodel ukrainian women as a wife. She must be around 18 to 32 of age. She must have green/blue eyes, blonde hair, good sexy drop down gorgeous figure and single who would like to marry and have a family with me! I am financially secure and will take care of her every needs.

  110. Robert says:

    Hello! Iam going to Kiev next mount and would like to have some places were I can meet them in Kiev?

  111. William says:

    I have met a sweet girl from the Ukraine via internet and we speak on skype everyday for about 4-5 hours the last 2 months. We talk a lot about meeting each other, but i can’t find any information about safety to travel to Ukraine (Donetsk, to be exact). All i can find that: “traveling to ukraine has to be with caution”. So my question at this point is: Is it safe for a western-european man, to visit the city of Donetsk at this point in time. I don’t speak russian very well (working on it, with help from the girl).
    I hope someone can give me some honest advice, because most sites i ask, don’t come back with an answer.


    • personalguide says:

      That’s not a good idea, there is war in Donetsk. If you don’t want a special holiday under bombings and gunfire, stay away from Donetsk and Lugansk. Whoever invites you there is either crazy or a scam. You can safely travel to any other region of Ukraine without a doubt, but Donetsk is a hell now. Thpusands of hired terrorists from russia are surrounded by Ukrainian forces. We all hope they will be wiped out soon, but till then no trip to those regions.

  112. personalguide says:

    Better Kiev then Kharkov. But Kharkov is OK

  113. Steve Griffin says:

    I am leaving for Ukraine in a couple weeks too. I have friends in Donetsk and Luhansk and they tell me these cities are battlegrounds. Those cities and the east along the Ukraine/Russian boarder ARE NOT SAFE! There are still daily gun battles occurring. Kiev and Kharkov are safer. But the country is in a civil war.

    • Serg says:

      There is NO civil war. Russian troops massively help some little groups of local separatists. Russia also supports weapon and terrorists. That is why there is no CIVIL war, there is unnamed and not proclaimed officially war between Ukraine and Russia.

  114. Nina says:


  115. Curtis says:

    I find this interesting 🙂 Ukraine here I come. All of you guys brings something to learn from Joseph and Personal guide you great. One thing for sure regardless were you come from women are the same and surely you will find someone to love you unless you are not serious. be it a foreigner of native because of personal preferences. I need that super model and planning to be in Ukraine soon. 😉

  116. Jay says:

    PersonalGuide, I apologize for the Americans that act like fools on your website. I almost believe these were not Americans at all. I certainly have not met such rudeness in my life while living in America. I also wanted to thank you for the updates regarding tourism issues in your country. I want to visit Ukraine and meet some of your women. I am curious to see if they are more family oriented or if this is an unrealistic stereotype. I am sure there are lots of Ukrainian women that do complain about men in Ukraine. This is most women for you. Most women, in general, are never satisfied and complain about everything. Ha. The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. I truly don’t think a typical Ukrainian women would desire to move away from friends and family. Who would? It is not a natural and mentally fit thing to desire. I think Ukrainian women watch too many American movies and think we all look like Brad Pitt and have his large bank account! Ha. Keep up the great work!

    • personalguide says:

      Jay, thank you for your opinion. When you are in Ukraine stay away from all those scam girls and you’ll enjoy your stay.

  117. alan reed says:

    Hi Personal guide , thanks for you forum it has been informative and also a laugh , at those dumbass’s way up there (joeseph)

    I am planning on a trip to your country in the near future , and need some information , i am planning on going to odessa , cause i am a West Aussie , we love the beach.
    I would like if you could recommend some night spots to meet some local women as i am still skeptical of the web site unless you know of any with a good reputation of course .
    how long is it best to go for etc 2 weeks or three
    i may venture out a bit in a hire car ! is this advisable ? or are trains they way to travel ?
    any information would be truly grateful



    • personalguide says:

      Hi, Alan. If you want to hire a car you can choose one here But you can also use taxis, buses and other public transports, which will be less expensive and quite comfortable. Odessa is one big hot spot, the most popular place to spend a night out is Arkadia district. It has a lot of night clubs, beaches, bars and restaurants. Also you can visit Koblevo resort which is between Odessa and Nikolaev cities and has most of local beauties concentrated there in summer. Two weeks is OK to have a rest and fun, but I am not sure if it is enough to find someone serious. Anyway it’s all up to who you want to find. If you are in Nikolaev contact me if you need any help.

  118. William says:

    Hello personal guide,
    I’m leaving for Kiev in 3 weeks. But i need to say 1 thing before i come to your country. I want to thank you for this site, it really helped me allot. keep up the good work, at least you and others are being honest about the whole deal. i want to thank you for the quick replies.

  119. Jim says:

    Hello All
    I have read this blog and thought that it might be about time I shared my experience with travelling to Ukraine and dating Ukrainian women. Like many of you out there I too wondered if it was all too good to be true.

    I am in my forties but still ok looking, I have a very good income and I can find women locally to date etc. My problem is living the expat life I meet women who are not really interested in anything long term and while this can be fun I tend to drift from one shallow encounter to another.

    So I thought that I would try a Ukraiian website, and for the last 7 months I have talked to literally hundreds of women. some have been genuine, some have been scammers and I have had some really fun times and I have had some disasters.

    In all i have been to Ukraine 10 times. The first trip was to Lugansk, I had not been talking to this woman for very long but the curiosity was killing me. I just wanted to see if she was real and if the whole thing was a scam or not. So I went to Lugansk. I immediately knew I had made a mistake. She looked nothing like her profile pictures and there was just no chemistry at all. So I stuck it out i was there for the weekend and thought that maybe it would get better. It didnt and the trip with all of the meals, taxis, interpreters etc not to mention hotels and flights had cost me a couple of grand.

    So i realised that it was a steep learning curve. All of the reports of these beautiful women just dieing to jump into bed and become your faithful companion are completly untrue. These women are complex, proud, intelligent girls who are looking for a better life but they are not just going to throw it all at you, There is a much more complex and old fashioned courting ritual to go through

    So I tended to talk to a couple of women at once via and a month or two later I thought I would have another try. This time i went to Kiev. I met another woman who again was not nearly as attractive in real life as her profile picture but she was great fun and we hit it off straight away. We went out drinking and dancing and we did have a physical relationship. I visited her three or four times and I really enjoyed her company but after a while I broke off the relationship as while she was really nice it wasnt love and I am afraid as they say, there is no fool like an old fool I still want more than just company and sex.

    So there were more trips, I have visited seven women in all. I have found the women in Kiev to be more demanding and sophisiticated than the women from the smaller cities. Of the seven women I have met I have had short flings with two of them, two of them whilst very nice women there was just no chemistry, another I really liked but she was just very unsure so after a lot of effort I decided to give up on her and one of them was a complete disater. So not a bad conversion rate. But it is an expensive hobby and I have spent a lot of money in my quest for happiness.

    The last woman I met is an ongoing story, I went to see her in Krivoy Rog. She actually was much prettier in real life than her pictures and was super intelligent, witty, fun and just down right sexy. She is coming to see me here in the UAE in two weeks so I will let you know how we get on. We talk on Skype everyday and it looks very promising.

    Let me just add a few comments on what I know so far:-

    Most of the girls are on the site through an agency. They have an interpreter assigned to them and this person actually writes most of the letters.

    The interpreter does get a commision for the letters opened by you. They basically meet with the girl once a week for a bit of a synopsis of what is going on.

    The interpreter will write letters to men that have contacted the girls without the knowledge of the girls and some times these letters are pretty generic.

    A lot of these girls are not desperate to meet you for a lot of them it is just a fantasy that they play out with no real intention of ever actually meeting you. You will find that when you are writing to them via the site they are full of inuendo and cheek but as soon as you get their actual email address the tone will often change and the frequency of letters will drop off.

    Going to Ukraine to find a girl is not like going to a car yard to buy a car! In a lot of ways they play a lot harder to get than many western women. They are complex and strong willed and while they do have strong family values they are not going to put up with any sh*t.

    So dont be like some of the guys on this site who think they just have to go to Ukraine and click their fingers and they will have a pack of beautiful creatures begging for you to save them from misery. It just is not like that at all, but if you put the time and effort and of course cash into your quest then there are beautiful, genuine women out there who would like to meet you.

  120. Ben says:

    I have been dating a Russian women for 6 months now. She a really cool person and we seem to hit it off way before we met in person. All I can say if your planning on finding a Russian or Ukrainian women be prepared to spend a lot of money. I am one of the lucky ones. My girlfriend is a good woman and jumped right into domestic life with me. The problem is most eastern women are very poor and cannot work in usa to help you pay the bills. My girl buys her plane tickets but I pay for all the day to day living and entertainment when she is here. There are so many great woman in the areas of these conversations and if you just be yourself and don’t BS anything then you really can find a good woman who will love you. We aren’t married and don’t plan on getting married anytime soon and you should all do the same so that you know where her heart is. When dating anyone you always can tell if the really love you or not by the conversation the body language if they do for you and not just themselves etc. Good luck to all you guys!

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  122. ebg says:

    I’ve been looking at the website of Ukraine women, and what I notice is that they’re very fashionable and all say “they want to travel.” High Maintanence, I’m sure a women like that would really want to travel half way across the world to baby-sit with me and my three children. Also, if you notice, Odessa has a lot of yachts in it’s ports?? Why would a beatiful women drinking champagne on a yacht wants to travel acroos the world and live in St. Lious or Cleveland??? Would you? If the Ukraine have the most beautiful women…then the men must also be good looking to make such beatiful children, right! Some fat old forgeign man is not going to wow a 21 year old with his sex appeal if there are alot of hot looking studs in town. But, I guess the girls have thier problem tooo…how does the saying go “Why do all the rich ones have to be so old.”

  123. storpick says:

    Hi guys.
    I have been reading all the things you have been publishing and i believe that there is everything and all sort of people everywhere so all of you have different experiences and different opinions .
    I am a 50 years old and i divorced 4 years ago, after going around with girls from different parts of the world from Africa to South America (as my job allows me ) i became more and more aware that the more i date this girls the more i was sure they were no good for my purpose.
    I register in Badoo and two years a go i met a girl from Odessa we became good friends and i add her on Facebook . For two years we spoke as normal friends and we showed no interest of flirting or anything and after becoming good friends i invited her to come and see me in the Algarve (i had no intention and we were just friends ) well, it was well understood to all my friends that we liked each other and at the end of her vacation we had everything clear.
    I am impressed by her kindness, sense of humor, honesty and class. we are very happy and falling for each other i have plans to go to Ukraine next year and she is coming to see me next october . I don’t see any manipulation or any interest from her side other then the need to be loved and to love .
    One thing is true i have never met anybody like this girl she is intelligent , clever honest and very very pretty, we don’t know if we are going to live there or there and that will be to discuss later on but one thing is sure this girls are special and they are no poor creatures that you need to feel pity for, they are proud with a great personality and very feminine.

  124. storpick says:

    JOSEPH. YOU IGNORANT CUNT (talking you got an hispanic name “Cesar” is not a white name! you got be hispanic in oder words you must be a non-white) YOU FATHER SHOULD HAVE JERKED YOU OFF.

    • Joey says:

      First of all “Cesar” isn’t even my name. I am a Polish descendant living in what is known as the jewnited snake of murka. a country which has been sadly flood by undesirable and repulsive ignorant Untermensch like you. I am a very proud Polish descendant. Btw Cesar is NOT an Hispanic name but rather a Greek one. You wouldn’t be entirely capable to spot Greece on the map. Cesar is just the Spanish version of Καῖσαρ. No wonder why many of these girls make a fool out of their fat murkan boyfriends. lol

      Americans are dumb as fuck they think that they can get anyone they want only because they are Americans but know little or nothing about the world around them.

      I wouldn’t ever recommend any Ukrainian girl to move to this degenerated country.

  125. Steve Griffin says:

    I think a lot is missing here. Like an understanding of what is REALLY happening in the Ukraine. I was there for the sixth time three weeks ago so I have recent experience. The biggest current issue is the war with Russia. It is sucking the cash out of the system. Of course the Ukraine is already on the verge of bankruptcy so your pretty picture of a house, food on the table, and a happy single woman are scarce right now. Two of my female friends do not eat regular because they have not been paid in a couple pay periods. Of course prices on everything are rising fast. So what they ate a few months ago, they cannot eat now. I filled one female friends refrigerator because it had been empty for weeks while I was visiting last month. Things are very tough for the common Ukrainian right now. Many are pawning things just to pay bills, never mind eating. So they do have a reason for wanting to leave. Things are tough for them now and not the picture you paint at all. The banks just went through a consolidation. That means one of my lady friends lost EVERYTHING she had because the bank her money was in failed . Another reason to leave? You bet it is! All I am saying is be careful what you think life in the Ukraine is like . It is VERY tough right now giving these ladies several reasons to leave. Yes, they are tough and hard workers. But right now the country is struggling.

  126. James says:

    Hi,I’m in need of a lil help and information,first let me say that I am a black man in America interested in coming to Ukraine to find me a lovely wife,I would like to know is that possible and what steps do I actually need to take

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  128. Rahul says:

    Hey, my name is Rahul or i’m from India and i’m looking for a girlfriend from Ukraine or Russia, not just a girl but also a life partner, only for long term relationship.
    Well i’m looking for this bcoz i like their eyes, face and smile.
    Hope you have blue eyes bcoz blue eyes get me hypnotised.
    I can promise you that i’ll stay by your side till the rest of our life.
    Email me at

  129. rob says:

    I am going to Odessa on my own. I have no intention of using any agency. But I would like some recommendations of where in Odessa to look for single girls? Or is there an online newspaper I can advertise that I am in town?

    • personalguide says:

      Hi Rob, we have emailed you the answer

      • Ian says:

        Hello my name is Ian. I am 38 and single. I am a good guy looking for a good woman. If you are a sweet lady from the Ukraine and would like to email me please do. No games please, just sincere ladies who want to find a husband and have a family. Please be a non smoker and no drugs, and drink very little or not at all. Please be slim and healthy, and single, without kids yet. My email is please tell me a little about yourself and send a photograph to. Thanks Ian.

      • personalguide says:

        Hello Ian, I am not sure by site is visited by women, it is for man who needs assistance. We can help you, email us.

  130. Bart says:

    “Forget those tours with the sites as you will not meet real girls but only professional daters out to eat and drink on your dime and spend lots of money for not even a kiss. Went to Odessa in December and luckily met a foreigner living and studying in Odessa. With his guidance I had the best time as he introduced me and met real girls on my 10 day stay in Odessa.

  131. Bart says:

    here is some helpful advice for those who want it:

    When the girl says she sees dots in chat that is your signal to drop her and run as they are lying and it is not the program or software. Had this confirmed from girls no longer at the sites. Been able to get my email to some girls and even to skype then they still want to use the site chat so they throw you for a loop and you back to square one. Another trick is get you to do a phone call or even send flowers then maybe you get one email to you then its back to site chat where they make money and they don’t want to use skype or free chat as they claim they don’t have available, but now you just spent monies on the hope you could chat outside the site.

    Bart from USA

    • Olga says:

      you can’t say there are only white or only black. you can’t say if you hear this or that – drop her. it’s life, there are so many reasons for any actions. I won’t say that all the girls are angels there, absolutely not, but there are real ones, who are looking for a husband. so first of all you should understand that the information on those chats is saying – NEVER give your e-mail, your phone, skype or any information to the unknown person, here you will be protected, using our site. personally I had no idea that a man pays for every message. of course I was afraid to give any information to my future husband. For the second! and most important – you should understand that we use different mails here and there. ours .ru, yours .com. My husband had no idea that when I’m sending him a letter through the mail he’s not getting it, because your system considers all endings as .ru as scam and delete it at once. That’s why I had to use that site again, just to send a message that I’m writing to him and he’s not responding. (according to your advise – i was trying to make him use the site, so he should drop me, but it wasn’t a reason.) always try to think that maybe you don’t know something but that something is on your way, don’t blame girl at once.

  132. Emeka says:

    Why is that only western the Ukraine girl get married to, am an Africa and I want to mary from Ukraine what will I do

  133. James says:

    I am American and have visited Ukraine and I am here to give you the truth.

    First, all women are the same in any country. I have been all over the world and have had encounters with women from all over. Women are women. Period. The problem is us men keep trying to find the exception. The women who is different. This is where your thinking is wrong. Women are all the same. They want to have fun. They want to experience all that they can. They are opportunists and capitalists. Us men are the same. We want to get the best for what Value we can offer.

    Ukrainian women would prefer to stay in Ukraine with their family and friends. It is a major sacrifice for anyone to leave their complete life behind. Regardless of the conditions. I found the conditions in Ukriane to be perfectly acceptable. In fact, the cost of living is so affordable, I considered moving to Ukraine. It is a truly beautiful country with a rich culture. The lifestyle is more relaxed and simpler in the sense that people aren’t obsessed with material things as they are here. Ukrainians are very family oriented. I have met Ukrainian women who struggled and the idea of a new world is exciting for them. But we all go through this when we travel. It passes.

    Ukrainian men have a lot to offer. Sure I see you get guys partying in the parks all night long but the girls are right there with them partying and drinking and singing. Ukrainian men dress very well, are intelligent and have a lot to offer.sure there are some stereotypes. Just as there are stereotypes in all cultures. But overall, don’t think that your “Western” passport or citizenship will make their panties fall off. Ukrainian women like all women want to be attracted to their man. They like swagger and confidence and intelligence. Ukrainian men have all of this and more. I also see Ukraijian men holding hands and being kind to their women. So the competition is tough for quality Ukrainian woman.

    Money hungry, social climbing women are everywhere. Especially here in the USA. So if finding a woman who does not truly love you is fine with you, there are these types of women in any country. Bring them here to the USA and then watch them leave you for another guy.

    You have to visit the country. Ukrainian women like any other women aren’t going to fall in love with you through email. There is no exception to this. Period. All women want to meet you and feel your energy and look at you. This is the best advice I can give you.

    Make connections. It’s fine to use email to make introductions to some ladies. Be completely honest. Tell them you are coming and you are talking to a few women you are interested in getting to know as friends first. Also tell them you hope to find a spark and make a real connection with someone. Keep it at a friendship level first. Be complimentary and express interest but be smart. No one falls in love through emails or phone calls. If you are coming off as high interest in your emails, you look stupid and your won’t earn any woman’s respect. Be respectful, optimistic, fun and charming. I tell the women I am coming to visit and I hope I have a few good tour guides “dates” and dinner and some flowers are on me. Keep it friendship oriented.

    Plan lots of dates. Do not go to Ukraine to meet one woman. You’ll fail miserably. It’s too pressureloaded a situatuation. You just want to have an attitude of vacation with a few dates lined up. That’s all.

    Focus your time on women that are a good fit. I am 40 and I have a child. So I’m looking for a women around 32 to 44 who has a child. I prefer a woman who speaks some English. Communication is key in a relationship. Don’t set yourself up for failure.

    All women want a man with confidence, charm, intelligence, masculinity, a sense of humor and have a stability. Looks also play a part in attraction. So get in shape, get style and work on your appearance. Be the best version of yourself and you will have all the ladies you want regardless which country you live or go.

    I hope this helps.

    Ps: if you reply with negative comments and bull crap I don’t care. I will assume you have no game with the ladies and are jealous.

    • personalguide says:

      James, thank you for your brilliant comment. It has everything in it and and a lot of practical answers for possible questions.

  134. Pingback: A wonderful comment from James | Your Personal Assistant in Ukraine

  135. Olga says:

    LOL I will reply with negative comments LOL. But I’m a Ukrainian woman married to a wonderful American man. You sound so confident – “I will tell you the truth” ))))))))))) you won’t, because the biggest mistake is to say – all women are the same!!!. We are not, and luckily the men aren’t the same either))))))) you will get love and respect and sparkles if you are giving the same back. always! Woman will love you for your attitude. Not always, not all of them, but if you are lucky and find the right one in any country you’ll get it.
    “They want to have fun. They want to experience all that they can. They are opportunists and capitalists” I’m sorry, you’ve met wrong women there if you think that way. Ukrainian women are more oriented on their own families – their husbands and kids, that’s true. all the rest depends on the woman.
    “I also see Ukraijian men holding hands and being kind to their women.” hm, in public yes, at home………… You have one difference from Ukrainian man, one huge difference, the most important one – You respect your women. (not you personally, I don’t know you. American men, whom I met, living here)
    ” Ukrainian women like any other women aren’t going to fall in love with you through email. There is no exception to this. Period.” LOLLLLLL So confident!!!!! I fell in love with my beloved husband from the first word!!! There are exceptions!!!!! Always!!!!!!! Just remember that you need to be honest, about everything, And do the same as you say. Always!!! Of course you need to go there, otherwise how would you know whether it’s the right one.
    “Plan lots of dates. Do not go to Ukraine to meet one woman. You’ll fail miserably.” Fuuuuuuuuu (it’s Russian). Thank you God, that not all the men are the same!!!! Thank you!!!!!!!!!
    You will fail miserably of you are going there to have a lot of dates. You are not coming to the market to “select and buy a woman”, you should come to the woman with whom you already fell in love through e-mails and skype. Otherwise you will find, bring her here and then it will turn around as the biggest mistake in you life. There are exceptions…. But very small amount.
    “I prefer a woman who speaks some English. Communication is key in a relationship. Don’t set yourself up for failure.” This is the only one thing, where I agree with you. completely. Though I knew exceptions where it worked out. small amount.
    “All women want a man with confidence, charm, intelligence, masculinity, a sense of humor and have a stability. Looks also play a part in attraction” One mistake – attraction doesn’t have anything in common with good relations and good marriage. My husband wasn’t the type of man in appearance which I like, ask me right now – he is the most attractive man FOR ME in the entire universe! You won’t love a person only for appearance, never. But you will love him for sense of humor, intelligence, his own charm, and his attitude to you. Always!
    “Be the best version of yourself and you will have all the ladies you want regardless which country you live or go” – are you planning to find a wife or sex for one night?????? BE YOURSELF! Always!!!!!!! You will find out very quickly whether the person tried to be the best version or himself. If you found out that it was just a play and in his normal life he is not the same – what a fail right there.
    And remember! There are exceptions! Always!!! This is life!

    • personalguide says:

      Olga, you might have experienced very difficult time in Ukraine claiming that there are no men who will respect a woman. I am sorry about it. People call it Karma. You had bad Karma in Ukraine. However, it doesn’t mean that your experience is the only example of men’s behavior in Ukraine.

  136. Olga says:

    I didn’t experienced difficult time in Ukraine, for me it was normal, but I didn’t know that somewhere it wouldn’t be considered even to be a respect. But believe me during those years that i was living there, I saw very very small amount of families where husband respects his wife. And you should know that Ukrainians like to play in public. You will never even guess what the relations really are, just being there for small periods of time you just wouldn’t be able to see it different. I was able to through part of my life. You call it bad Karma. Poor women of Ukraine 90% of whom are having bad Karma then.

  137. personalguide says:

    I am not sure we are speaking about same Ukraine. Which part of it and when did you live?

  138. Olga says:

    Unfortunately we are speaking about same Ukraine. I was living there till 2011. Kharkov (east part), Nikolayev (south) and Kiev. Looking right now at the majority of friends – they are divorced, with kids, where fathers don’t care how their kids live. Different families – different reasons for divorce, men drink a lot, make very little money, when they don’t care whether it’s enough for his family to survive, the more money they make, the more reasons to have less respect for their wives, they cheat a lot, it came from 1990’s where it was cool to have a lover on the side if you are making a lot of money, right now almost nothing changed, because men think they can do it, and their wives shouldn’t. There are exceptions, but very small amount. For the woman with kids it’s almost impossible to get married for the second time, nobody will want to take responsibility for smb’s kids. There is a saying in Russia and Ukraine – better to have at least some husband than none, that’s why a lot of wives close their eyes for what their husbands are doing. That’s ok if you drink, cheat, beat and doing other bad stuff, just stay with me.
    Personally my life was ok, before I found out that everything may be much better))). I had very high husband’s standards, because of my father, but I realized in my head there is no way I will be able to find another one like him. Should admit that my ex with whom I lived for 11 years almost didn’t drink, didn’t beat, made small amount of money (but wanted to be the king of the family still) but at the end began to look aside, he didn’t cheat, at least I didn’t know, but I found out that he had a profile on the sites and writes to other women. For me it was more than enough to say – that’s enough. And I will repeat I understand perfectly that you saw a different side of Ukrainian’s families, which they wanted to show you, none of them will admit it to be different.

  139. Jonathan says:

    That is a useful information !

  140. Carl dekok says:

    I have been writing to a Ukrainian lady for 9 months…sometimes I get so over whelmed with what all has to happen…then reading some of the comments on this site has discouraged me..

  141. Andy says:

    I am going to take my time and say some things on here. First i am from the USA, i have been married to a Ukrainian woman for the last 25 years, before we got married we dated for over 3 years. We have two grown boys 24, 22 out of college and own their own, and a 14 year old girl still at home. We did not meet in any dating or marriage agency as i do not think such a thing existed at all in 1988. We meet in a airport in Berlin in 1988. My flight was delayed due to weather over the UK, her flight was delayed due to a suspicious package. Yes i know, the chances for a Ukrainian woman and a man from the USA to meet in an airport in Berlin, Germany was very much luck, or fate, or none of those. After an hour or so of casual conversation and my attempts to put a country with her accent, as her English was really good. She told me she was from Sumy, Ukraine. That made me flinch. Yes it did. Because i knew exactly where Ukraine was and it was very much apart of the Soviet Union. Maybe i had watched too many James Bond films, or read too many Tom Clancy novels. So based on my very limited experience with someone from Russia, i asked if her name was Olga. Yes it was a joke to me, and i considered it an ice breaker for me, since i was looking for men wearing black suits watching me. And yes, that is like going to Utah and asking a woman there if her name is Ann. I could tell by her stare and the ever slight frown that she was not overly amused with my choice of giving her a name. A few awkward moments of silence went by and she told me her name was Valeria. Not what i was expecting to hear, and quite frankly one of the best sounding female names there is in any language. She then went on to tell me her friends and family call her Lera and asked if i wanted to be her friend. So here was this incredibly beautiful, to me, 5 foot 10 inch tall, blonde hair, blue eyed young woman, i am one month older than her, asking me if i wanted to be friends. Humm, it was game over for me right then and there in my search for a woman, that frankly hadn’t really begun yet, and something i did not plan to do until i was old, like 22.

    The early years for us was not easy in any language. We had stiff resistance from our parents, and as well from our different governments. And i was in more than one fight over being called the guy with a “ruskie” girlfriend. The one thing we did have going for us, we were both 18 and declared adults by both our countries so, that was about all. Our parents though it was a “phase” we would grow out of. My father in law never called me by my name, even on his death bed in 2011, i was simply “the American” ,as he had always called me. Like wise, my mother in law supported her daughter’s decision, and that was that. Our kids? No, they never knew any of this and were family, despite who mom and dad were. Our parents always had time for the kids, even if they did not have time for us. The kids spent as much time as possible in Ukraine while growing up. The boys always make time to go to Ukraine to see family and friends there, they are also correcting the vast majority of Americans who could not find Ukraine on a globe, with what is happening there with Russia. My youngest and only daughter, has no love for Ukraine. I can get her to go to the dentist easier than i can get her on a plane to Ukraine. Why? Who knows. Well enough about me.

    Some of the comments i have read on here and similar sites from my fellow American man, and other western man, i can only tell you this. Stay home and find a whore, it is cheaper and faster. As that is what i get you are looking for in a wife, just from your own comments. You are trying to take a woman out of her country, from everyone and everything she knows, move her halfway around the world up or down, from her family, friends, literally everything she knows. And yet you make comments about “oh the cost” and everything related to her is “money”. Since she will be depending on you 100 percent for everything, that is not cheap, and since that is a problem you should find a local woman and be happy with her. Frankly, since you put a “dollar” amount on your woman i still suggest you keep a whore on call, as you are guaranteed to get something for your money that you are worried about.

    Thanks to some, but not all, Slavic males, you will have to work a lot harder finding a Slavic woman than you would finding a woman in your own country. Get adjusted to that right now. As the author of this thread plainly stated and i second, the main competition between women there is other women, and if they catch a man’s eye, oh well. There is plenty of Russian and Ukrainian male sayings about this, and none of them are polite, “My wife dresses up for her friends” comes to mind here, i’m sure others will post more about that.

    Now for you American guys, she will and i mean she will become Americanized very, very, very fast. Forget all the BS you might have been sold by those overcharging dating marriage agency. For the first few months, maybe a year, she will act as when you first meet her in her country. How will you know? When she goes out in flip flops, t-shirt, shorts, hair in a ponytail and no make-up. And she will, trust me. No, she will not go out to dinner, special event or “women’s” shopping looking like that, she will venture up to the grocery store and local areas, to fit in with the other women, who do the same. She will also figure out very fast that the laws in North America are more enforced than where she is from. So don’t be surprised in the first few months if she is charged with bribery trying to bribe a cop out of a speeding ticket. Something similar will probably happen. It takes years, not months to adjust to a new place.

    For the rest of your marriage and active life, expect to make at least one trip a year back to her country, more than that if a family illness or wedding happens. So don’t be leaving Ukraine,Russia or other former Soviet bloc and thinking you will never be back. Another thing, never, ever get caught alone in a room with any of her female friends, even if you are just talking. By that i mean, do not have a friend of hers at your apartment while you are waiting for her to show up, big no-no, even if you have to tell her friend to wait outside for her. Matter of fact, if you have a female translator i would ask her to wait outside until she showed up, most good translators will know this already. Yes, her friends will try to play similar games. They will flirt, call, text, email, you name it. This does not stop once you have said “I do”. If she tells you to spend time with her female friend(s), or says she does not care, she is playing you. The majority of affairs over there happen with “friends” not strangers or friends of friends. Write that down.

    The fun really begins when you have the wedding, i would suggest doing that over there, and a formal ceremony back in America, as American weddings are boring compared to weddings in Slavic countries. Paying the ransom for my bride, was probably one of the most funniest, memorial days of my whole life, three different amounts, three pumpkins, a whole 30 story apartment building keeping me from my bride on the top floor. American ingenuity doesn’t cover what i did to reach that top floor with all the elevators mysteriously not working! If the woman you want to meet is from a rural area, or what they call a village, it will be more traditional and outside.

  142. Olga says:

    interesting story))) I had several question though…. the time you are writing about….. I really can’t even imagine that you could meet in Berlin and then go back to Ukraine and bring her here, Soviet Union times, people could leave but they were not allowed to come back (like traveling). this is not even a question, like a comment. But you are absolutely right saying it was fate))). I really liked a comment “Stay home and find a whore, it is cheaper and faster”. Mu husband gets really angry, when he sees that American man who brought here a wife from any other country, but doesn’t treat her as he would treat the American woman.
    “My wife dresses up for her friends” – well, you know, that is the only one thing that I really miss. I never dressed up for somebody I was doing it for myself. I stopped feeling myself as a real woman here, because you need to fit in, and it’s impossible if you get used to go to the store or anywhere in high heels for example.
    “It takes years, not months to adjust to a new place.” It depends on a woman, I love this country and it was so easy to adjust because inside I am the same like Americans. Especially about the law.
    “For the rest of your marriage and active life, expect to make at least one trip a year back to her country” LOL from all my family the only one who wants to go back is my husband LOL, that doesn’t mean that life was so horrible there or I don’t have relatives and friends whom I want to see. I just don’t want to spend horrible amount of money on nothing really. For the family of 4 to spend 6000 just for tickets…. that’s ridiculous. There is nothing there that I want to see for that amount of money LOL
    “By that i mean, do not have a friend of hers at your apartment while you are waiting for her to show up, big no-no,” LOLLLL))))))))))))))))) that’s probably true))))))))))))))) I was upset when my husband added my Ukrainian friend as his friend on Facebook. Oh my, just don’t ask why ))))))))
    I trust my husband 100% but I never trusted any of my friends for that much))) not in Ukraine, not Ukrainian friends.
    “The fun really begins when you have the wedding, i would suggest doing that over there, and a formal ceremony back in America, as American weddings are boring compared to weddings in Slavic countries.” Well both my husband and me had first weddings, really good weddings, but it didn’t make us happy. I didn’t care about the wedding at all. Life after the wedding should be much more important and fun that the actual wedding)))) But i would probably agree with Andy if it is your first wedding)))

    • Andy says:

      Hello Olga.

      No, i could not even get a visa to be in Ukraine until 1990, then under very strict conditions. We were pen pals for the first few years. Even then our governments would routinely read and edit our letters to each other. Until we got married, the State Department routinely denied her travel entry into the USA. After we were husband and wife, we could go and come as we please, but even then we were monitored. 1988,89,90,91 were very difficult times for people living in Russia and Ukraine. The Berlin wall might have been knocked down in 9 November 1989, but Ukraine was not a independent country until 24 August 1991. So, the events there today with Crimea and the Donbass region do not surprise me, Russia never wanted to let Ukraine go.

      Yes traveling round trip for 5 was never cheap. I have always found that KLM is the best way to get from here to there, and the cheapest, since they fly directly out of Houston Bush Intercontinental airport, that is a hour drive for me here. I have saved some money by going one way on UIA. Not a bad experience, i don’t like the running around changing airplanes. We took Southwest to New York Laguardia airport, then a taxi to John F, Kennedy airport, nothing like a taxi ride in New York!!!!! then flew UIA to Paris changed planes, flew to Stockholm, Sweden, changed planes then finally to Kiev and a crop duster to Sumy LOL, it had propellers! The problem with flying on UIA, or Ukraine international airlines, is that the cheap seats sell out months before the flight, so you have to book your seats very early, and it is not easy to switch seats or get a refund from them either. Since the invasion of Ukraine, Aeroflot has been hit and miss flying from, and to the USA.

      My sister inlaw and brother in law have educated me on many things Ukraine. And i have unintentionally offended at least everyone in my wife’s family at least once in the early days. Handling things across the door threshold, placing empty bottles on the table, whistling in the house, on and on. That was very difficult!!!

  143. stephen eastman says:

    I have been talking with a lady for over two years in odessa. How do i know that it is not a scam and how can i find out if she is real and really is seriouse about me. We have sent alot of letters photos and talked many hours. And also i intend to visit there in the near future however i do not want to waste my time or money to find out this is a scam. She says she loves me and we have talked very seriouse about marriage. She claims there is no other man in her life and i am the only one she talks with and the only one she is interested in. Please help i need to find out the truth about all of this

  144. Andy says:

    I a Man 27 looking for a serious relation , I have a baby, I want a women who wants to share Life together.

  145. Dhinesh says:


    just wanted to know if you had my comments

  146. Dhinesh says:


    I recently used a dating site, international cupid and got an interest from a beautiful Ukrainian woman who ask my email address which I gave her and we started our conversation..she sent me letters with her pictures and saying that I’m the man she was looking for.. Later on after a week I noticed I had another emails coming from Ukrainian girls but I never saw them on the dating site and they have the same story like all of them are 30 and sending their pictures and willing to know me better for a future. As they were all beautiful and sexy, I just wrote my letter to them as you are tempted.

    One day I ask one several of them if we can have a chat on Skype but they do not have this at home and are using a translating company to communicate with me. So I got suspected and I sent a serious letter to one of them to know what they really want as I also noticed one picture looking like being Photoshopped which arouse my suspicions.. The next day I got an email from the translating company saying what they do and the services they provide and telling me that the woman who I usually wrote to cannot afford their cost now and telling me she is really interested in me and would like to continue our conversation.. They said if I really want to, I need to contact them to help continue the conversations.

    I have yet to receive any video call from them as I think the company discovered that I do not seem to be a fool..but I’m still confused if I’m really writing to the real girls? The manager of the company is Ekaterina zvyagintseva.

    Can you share your views on this?

    • Olga says:

      I would tell you – change the site. There are a lot of sites which have several girls sitting and sending letters to the clients from different profiles. They are all fake, just making money, because they take money from you every time you get or send letter. First of all you should look at the photos and age of the girls. If all of them are young and extremely beautiful, especially putting photos there in swim suits, know it’s fake. None of the normal women would do that (I assume), I doubt that you need a woman who’s posting very sexy photos for everybody to see.
      Second thought if they don’t want to call you using skype… It’s not that expensive to do it there. Everybody can afford it already. Don’t listen to the “translating company” either, they are using you to make money. Good luck

      • Dhinesh. says:

        Hi Olga,

        Thanks very much for your advice. I knew it was fake too recently yet I’m confused how they make money when I send them an email. I mean an email sent from your personal email address doesn’t cost anything right?

        The site does not only have Ukrainian girls though but all around the world. It worked for some people and that’s why I tried but I will never give my email address to a Ukrainian girl now

      • Olga says:

        Sorry, didn’t get it, I thought you were writing each other using the same site, well, I read also a lot of stories, even on the site where i met my husband, that girls are writing to several people and in some time they will ask for money, explaining it as if they want to learn English better and so on so on. In that case I would stop writing to them right away. And probably I wouldn’t use the site where they have women all over the world. It’s strange, because for example Ukrainians or Russian wouldn’t find that site. All of them are using Russian sites where there are only girls from the former Soviet Union countries. And you know there are a lot of nice girls who are really looking for a nice husband. I wouldn’t give up that easy)))) Just look at the photos and read the information, you will be able to see the difference if they are real and fake ones.

      • Dhinesh says:

        I have stopped writing to them anyway and my doubts are now clear thanks to you..would be great if you can suggest a site which works?

    • Olga Lesch says:

      I met my husband at LoversPlanet 5 years ago. But we didn’t really use it after 2-3 days, began to use e-mails and skype. Be aware that the site tells the girls not to give any personal information to anybody, e-mails and skype included. I didn’t know that a man is paying money there for every message. So when you are corresponding to someone just be honest and tell why she needs to give to you e-mail and skype. There is also a black list of e-mails and girls names (think on that site), where men will write down the information of the girls who were trying just to use them. My husband checked me there also))))))))))))). I read a lot of messages from the girls there who were saying that they are just finding men to make them send money. Just be careful. Again if she is asking for money don’t do that. Try to find through the internet the names of the sites where Americans already found somebody and it worked out. You can check Visa Journey, it’s a site which people use during the immigration process, you can just ask a question which of the site worked out for them. There are Americans who found already women all over the world. They can tell you also, a lot of people are using that site. Just remember that sometimes it’s a long way to find somebody, my husband spend several years trying to find someone, he even went to Russia and Ukraine before, it didn’t work out. He told me at the beginning that I’m the last one, if it doesn’t work out, then it’s not for him and he won’t do it anymore. It worked!!!!!!! For me it was just the beginning, I was on that site just for a week when I found him, and by the way I even wasn’t looking for a husband))))))))))))). Just don’t give up!!!

    • Olga says:

      Can you write to me what woman are you looking for? What age? I have a friend, who is looking for a husband. She is 39 and lives in Ukraine

      • Dhinesh says:

        Hello Olga,

        Well that would be great if you could find someone who is friendly, nice and charming. I’m 29 and looking for a woman around my age…maybe up to 32…thanks

      • Tim Friend says:

        hello Olga
        Do you know if your friend is still looking?
        I am from England. I have travelled in Ukraine a few times, and met some fine people there.
        Rather than hijack PersonalGuides` blog, my address is tim_personal(youknowwhatgoeshere) .
        Many thanks!
        Kind regards

      • personalguide says:

        Hello Tim, what type of woman are you looking for and tell more about yourself, we might help you. Contact me

      • Olga says:

        Hi, Tim. I sent you a message from my e.mail, if you don’t get it, check the settings because it might automatically go to scam as my email. ends on .ru

  147. evgeni says:

    I a Man 32 looking for a serious relation , from bulgaria,living in uk, I want a women who wants to share Life together.

  148. isaac says:

    i need beautiful lady for serious relationship

  149. David says:

    I am looking for a woman to marry and come to the United States with me.

  150. Matthew says:

    I am sure we can all agree a lot of inappropriate and rude “stereotypes” have been used in this entire post. There is no reason to insult an entire culture from any one part in this world. We all have our problems, we all have “stupid” people in our societies from top to bottom. In the United States for example most of our “retards” come from the top. I am certain it’s like this in most countries. Yes I am an American, but it’s important to realize that you need to think above your own self and try to be empathetic as to where people come from. I have fought in Afghanistan, lead men in combat. I have also served with the polish, the French, and afghani foreign nationals. I respect all of those cultures I would’ve died for any of them. I do believe in God and I believe Isiah says “anyone who calls on the name of the lord shall be saved!” What that’s says to me is we are all brothers and we should act as such. Also I am thankful for all of your posts I was very uneducated in the matter of finding a beautiful Ukrainian or European woman, I appreciate diversity and just want to be happy. I want to build a house on my acreage and give a special woman the world and more. I have had a hard life and I’ve done the right thing by me as I’m sure we all have. I know men from other countries do the same. America is no different then Ukraine we have worse issues if not the same as you guys perhaps different circumstances. The lure is set and most American men are indeed naive I have been scammed that’s why I am here. I learned to speak German and I’ve always loved Europe so naturally I would love to be with someone from a different culture and spend the rest of my life trying to understand them and having fun by just doing that. Simply put thanks for the post I am glad to have gotten some insight and realize the odds are against me 😜 Owell, this is life for about 90% of us. That statistic is made up by the way ;). Also I’m 28 yo blue eyed, blond haired male, who weighs 193 lbs, I’m in excellent shape and I’m a highly decorated veteran with a quality engineering degree. So I’m not fat, stupid nor arrogant. I won’t deny I’m an American that was naive and ignorant to the fact that I have 3% chance of meeting a beautiful Ukrainian or European woman. Thanks again and I really do appreciate your insight.

  151. underhill32 says:

    All men at some time might seem desperate. Those “wife hunting” tours though are not the way to go.

    • Olga says:

      personally, living in Ukraine couldn’t even imagine that such tours exist, would never go on any of them trying to find a husband, but my husband’s friend found his wife in one of those)))) of course there was a small battle over the American, of course she even lied that she is younger and doesn’t have kids………….. well, happily married for 10 years already……)))))) Probably the most important is to be in a right place in a right time)))

      • underhill32 says:

        There are exceptions to every rule. We were created to be relational beings. I have met a lady from Kharkiv. We have developed friendship, but I can do nothing with my feelings until July next year when my mutual divorce happens. I’m not saying that romances don’t occur on such tours, I’m saying that men get fooled easily (and I include myself in that list). I’ve read some sob stories too. It’s not easy trying to woo a lady, and rejection is never is easy to take in experience. I can this from my experience of being single, married and separated.

  152. underhill32 says:

    I have chatted with a lady from the Ukriane and I think I might have insulted her. My computer is as broke as me at this stage so I’m down to smart phone for internet usage and I can’t spend the money on credits to continue the chats that I don’t have in the first place. I do start a very casual job soon, which will have no leave. I’m also dealing with a divorce from my wife and we must follow the law here in Australia. She has insisted I see her so that I can be certain of who she is, which is why I have chosen to trust her. I’ve been scammed in the past and I’m very much aware of such schemes. Can I do anything about this or would it be better that I move on? And if so how can I explain it to her in words of one syllable?

    • Olga says:

      What was the insult? Just be honest, always, if it is your person she will stay in your life, everybody goes through ups and downs in their life. but when you have a chance it’s really very important to go there and meet her in person, you would know right away whether she’s the right one

      • underhill32 says:

        It turns out she was alright. We chatted the other day. I’m really looking forward to next July now. Thanks for the advice Olga. She really seems like a special lady. I’m going on the basis that she is insisted that I see her first on camera. This can only take place when I can replace my laptop though.

      • Olga says:

        Good luck to you! Next July sounds toooooooo long))), I remember that horrible time of waiting for visa for 7 months, but may be it will work out for you. Write to her, I hope she knows English and it will be easy to create a real love on the base of friendship )))

      • underhill32 says:

        Yes it may seem long, but I must comply with the laws of my country, which is the only reason I’m still in Australia. I have some hurdles to get over such as passport replacement, visas to apply for, medication to take with me. We are writing via a website, which means we can use their services. I will write more about this later

  153. Ali says:

    Hi im searching for a good women to marry I live in Texas, USA

  154. Adriaan says:

    Hey my name adriaan. Life in south africa love a lady from europe. email me.

  155. Mark says:

    I met a Ukrainian girl just over 4 months ago while i was on a short break in Dubai. We met at the pool of the hotel and exchanged numbers. We started to chat on whatsapp and then eventually on Skype, we have been in contact pretty much everyday since. 2 months after we met I planned a trip to Kiev to visit her, i stayed in a hotel in the city center. I was there 4 night, we became intimate and our relationship was going really well. Now…2 months after our first meeting we planned my second visit, this time for 1 week, she insisted i stay at her apartment so i did not have to waste money on a hotel. things were going great as usual. Then we decided to make my trip longer, 18 days in total (so i could spend xmas and new year with her). Things were still fine. She lost her job because the company she was working at closed their office. I sent her $200 to help her out so she could pay her rent etc. She didnt directly ask me for money but she was acting a little off with me, she told me that she was upset i didnt offer to help her.

    2 weeks before i was set to travel (december 15) she started to act a little strange with me, she eventually told me that her sister in law told her that our relationship would never work, i think because of the culture difference, distance and the fact that i didnt offer to support her. She asked me to cancel my trip 3 days before i was set to travel, i bought her many gifts for her birthday and xmas which she knew about, i booked a spa hotel for 3 nights. she told me that she is worried about my trip, we would be living together for 18 days in her apartment and i think it freaked her out. She has been acting really strange, i changed my ticked so i should go on the 26th, this is so she can have time to think and decide if she wants me to visit. She told me that the issue isnt with money and she was crying on skype for a full hour nearly. I broke up with her 2 days ago because of how she was treating me. she didnt give me any solid answers and i can’t keep waiting for her to sort her head out. i removed her from facebook, whatsapp and instagram. if i do not hear from her by the 25th of december i wont go to kiev and she will never have another opportunity to get back with me.

    does anything sound suspicious to your guys?

    • personalguide says:

      Mark, nothing suspicious so far. Any woman can act like that. They can be moody and easily convinced by their relatives and friends. Who knows what could have happened. Women are women and you can do nothing with it. It is possible she met somebody else or she thought you were mean to her. If you really like her you need to check her. What is the age difference between you?

      • Mark says:

        Hi, I don’t think there is anybody else…but actually i’m not 100% sure of that. there is only 4 years age difference between us. I am 32. She has been liking my photos on instagram tonight even though we do not follow each other anymore….and just an hour ago she followed me on instagram again. its all very strange for me. If she found a new man i would appreciate that she was straight with me and told me.

    • Olga says:

      Mark, it would be more suspicious if she didn’t broke up with you…. after you sent money. if woman wanted your money she would continue acting and trying to find a way to get them. Believe me her relatives really could “help” her change her mind. It’s really scary for some people to let somebody stay in their apartment so long, it’s really scary when you hear a lot of stories about wrong people, it’s really scary when people whom you trust began to give you “right” advises. I truly believe you should contact her first, right now, I truly believe that you should still go and check in private what is going on there, if you really like that girl and if you have serious intentions. Call her, try to calm her down, try to reassure her that you love her and really want to come for a visit, tell her that you will meet her relatives to show them that you are a normal person without dirty thoughts.
      I wouldn’t agree that she is just a WOMAN so she acts like that. Man can also act like that….. Really sensitive PEOPLE can act like that. She is a normal human.
      After I told this story to my husband first reaction was – he needs to find another one, but only because his first experience over there was similar to yours))))))) later he said – no, he should reach her and tell that he would come and show her and her sister in law that he is a right man)))))))
      I always lived with a thought better I would do something and later admit that it didn’t work out, than didn’t do it and through the rest of my life had a thought that may be it would work and regret))) And believe me I never regret of something I did))) Don’t loose a chance to be happy)))
      At least let us know what you decide)

      • Mark says:

        Hi Olga, thank you for your advise. I have tried everything with her. i read a lot of stories written by guys with bad experiences with Ukrainian girls but my girl doesnt seem like that at all. She doesnt really seem too interested in money, she is more interested in being happy and starting a family. I will not contact her again as i told her everything that i think and feel about what is going on. if she wanted to work things out she can come to me. she know my intentions and we have discussed everything in detail.

  156. Olga says:

    Read less, it won’t help, it will make you more confused. Other people, other stories won’t make it clear for you, everybody’s different. Don’t make a mistake)))) she’s doing a small step to you right now, liking your photos))) But you SHOULD BE A MAN. YOU should be the first to make a real step. If you want it to work out. You need to talk, talk looking in the eyes, holding hands. You still have that opportunity, don’t loose it. She won’t make a step, you are expecting. She is a WOMAN. Especially Ukrainian. Believe me, listening to everything that we are told about Americans, I’m still surprised she went so far)))). For the second, we were raised that way that a man should do the first step, a man should insist (in a good way), being on her place I wouldn’t come to you, because I would expect it from you. Sorry, it’s a different culture. I would wait for a step from you, otherwise I would think you are not interested anymore. At the same point I don’t know what you’ve discussed and what you’ve already told, can’t tell you her real thoughts. But I’m a Ukrainian woman,who went through all of it, and believe me if I listened to the stories and THOUGHT at that time I wouldn’t be here))))))))))) and I would miss the chance to be happy. Don’t let her do that mistake.

  157. Mark says:

    Hi Olga, i understand that there are many differences in culture etc. im british and egyptian. i have told her that she needs to decide what she wants. when she has decided she should tell me. either i will go to her or our relationship is over. i told her i can be very flexible, i could stay in a hotel some nights if she isnt happy, i could change my flight and leave early etc. i have given her many different options. Do you think there could be another man involved?

  158. Olga says:

    I don’t think another man is involved. Tell her “let me come and then you will be sure whether it’s worth it to continue our relations”. How well does she know English? The problem might be that you do not understand one another well enough and it might create a lot of misunderstanding. On the other hand she doesn’t behave as if she is 28, behave for 20, when she doesn’t know what she really wants

    • Mark says:

      I told her that already, we must be together in person to really know how we feel but she says she doesn’t see a future for us etc. She has been very down recently so I dont that if she really believes that or not. Her english is ok…we can talk about most things but sometimes she need to use google translate for specific words. im just trying to give her space to think properly. like i said, if i dont go on the 26th i will never go again and our relationship is completely over. i really dont know what to do…

      • underhill32 says:

        Try to think of what this might be doing to her. The stress of losing a job can take a while to get over. If she cries you have one option – reassure her. She needs your support. If my family found out I was going to the Ukriane to find a wife they would do all within their power to disuade me. I would say don’t lose the interest. But in the end it’s your call

  159. Mark says:

    I was reassuring her for a long time, trying to keep her positive about getting a new job. Like I said earlier, I do not fully understand what her problem is and why she isn’t willing to give it a try. I think the whole idea of a future with me is scary, she would have to leave Ukraine at some point, our cultures are very different etc. She might have a new guy lined up or even want a guy that is wealthier and is willing to send her money each month….I am not that guy and I made that clear from the start. Today i asked her why she started to like my photos on instagram again and she responded as if its normal. i told her that she is the one that didn’t want our relationship anymore and that I would not continue any form of contact once we break up. She is giving me little pokes but then when I ask her if she is 100% sure she doesn’t want to give us a try she doesn’t respond. I’m just leaving her alone. I’m sure i wont be getting on the flight on the 26th…

    • Olga says:

      I agree, she needs your support. she lost a job, how does she live???? Who’s supporting her? Well, I’m sorry, she may be really looking for support. The country is completely destroyed, I don’t know how people survive even there. I didn’t get one thing – trying to keep her positive about getting a new job…….. We are not talking about getting married or we are? – I’m confused already… and you know if a person is serious about getting married he wouldn’t go there and back. She will have 90 days to decide whether to stay here or leave. I don’t understand what might even keep her there??? There’s no future, nothing….. On the other hand I don’t know how you are saying it – Honey, let’s get married, I will love and support and cherish….. or is it a different story???
      My husband came to see me on the 28th of December. By the way we met at the end of October, and he was serious about getting married right away. (I wasn’t Lol), he came in December and proposed. But it wasn’t a story, I came to the airport with my daughter to meet him. It was in Kiev. For some reason there was Santa standing there in the crowd of people, and we were going by and Santa asks my daughter – do you want to take my stick and make a wish? My daughter laughed and said – no. And he asked me ))))))))) I’m a big girl, don’t really believe in miracle))))) He insisted, and I did, and the wish was – I want this to work out))))))))). Don’t loose the miracle)))) I would go to Kiev, find Santa and make the same wish, if I were you))))))) And then take a woman whom you love and make it to work out)))))))). But it’s your life, your story, your decision. Thank you for amazing memories that came up in my mind))))) Love my husband more every day))) Anyway – Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to all of you. Make a wish and then make it to work out))))))))) We are the only one who can do it))))))

      • Mark says:

        Since she lost her job she told me she was taking money from her credit card which has a $400 limit and also taking money from friends. her rent is $180 per month so her credit card must be full. Her parents still think she is working, she told me she didnt want to tell them because they would be upset. So…I dont know where she is getting money from, that is something else that is worrying me. I told her from the start that my intention is to get married, she is looking for the same thing. We decided that i would come to visit her in Kiev a few times and then eventually she could come to the UK maybe around easter time. I told her that it is very strange for me to give money to a girl, i never did that before but i am still open to it. i live quite a lavish life, i travel a lot for work and i dont like that she doesnt have money. but we didnt really discuss the issue in depth, i was hoping to talk about it fully when i visited this time. she knows that too.

        It sounds like you really did have a fairy tail relationship from the start. it make me feel confident i will find someone one day. 🙂

  160. Olga says:

    You see it worries you, where is she taking money from but at the same time you don’t seem to be worried, that what she might think. You say she knows, you’ve already told….. Mark, she is a woman, to see a serious relations she needs to see the actions(I would say each person needs to see actions not just listen to words). If you told her, let’s file papers for visa and then when I see that you are ready to move on, I will support you financially, she would think that you are serious. When i met my husband he wasn’t able to support me financially, though i told him I wouldn’t take it, but I had different situation, he called me every day and ask, is everything ok, are you ok for money, do you need more? I didn’t ask, I told I wouldn’t take it, but he was asking over and over again. I felt that he cared. It’s a huge difference. At the same time my husband was very serious about getting married, and if you fell in love with somebody you can’t be so far away for so long. We were quick, we were waiting for visa way too long, I don’t like to even remember that time, we didn’t see each other for 5 months, it was horrible, skype didn’t help, but at least we did everything we could and we were just waiting. We did have a fairy tail, but I told you if I was thinking, if I was listening to everything what people were telling me i wouldn’t be here. If I didn’t see that my husband carries about everything i wouldn’t be here. My husband tried twice before me, he came to Russia once and he came to Ukraine once. It didn’t work out, he told me from the beginning – that he is done with it, if our relations didn’t work out it wasn’t for him and he would stop even looking. I wasn’t serious at all))))))) I wasn’t looking for a husband at all, because I thought that such relations just couldn’t work out……. They did. we probably just were meant to be together. You will get the same, what worries me what if you already DID but you don’t want to see it. Because of your ambitions you might miss it. That’s true when it is told, life will open for you a door once but whether you notice it and get into that door right away. Or you will be waiting for it to open the door again. I would go to Ukraine on the 26th just to be completely confident whether it’s right or not, and if it isn’t, you would be completely sure that it’s not for you. But at least I would check))))) Especially if you live in UK, you are much closer to there then I thought, you don’t need to go through half of the world to check)))))))))

  161. underhill32 says:

    I would be inclined to believe this with my dating experience and my attempts to keep the Western style of marriage alive. It fizzled pretty quickly after we sold the marital home. It is time the ladies learnt that men can and will go elsewhere. If I’d stuck to my original plan I would have had a very different outcome I’m sure. It’s hard to woo in the modern day, but it’s not.impossible. Get creative and find a way into the country of your choosing. Be aware of the dangers and boundaries research websites. If they sound like a scam avoid the site. Warn your friends, don’t trust.anyone, be careful wary and you stand a good chance of success. Be successful in your field and have something stable to offer the lady. But above all be men and be natural.

  162. Rob S says:

    Hi my name is Robert – 30yrs and from the UK.
    I signed up to a normal UK dating website in September and stopped using it for a few months, in October I received a random email from a lady from Ukraine saying just “hi”, I had a look at her profile and it only had one picture and a small amount on the site, but she looked beautiful and I thought “why not?” and messaged back.
    We seemed to click and after a few messages I was asked for my email so we could chat more easily.
    Her likes, favorite foods, hobbies ect, ect.. Everything seemed to match, anyway..
    Two months later and over 200 emails and 28 photos she sent, including pictures of family members, we are talking about meeting and she wants to come to the UK soon..
    The thing is we have never spoke on skype as she says that the wifi is not working where she lives because of the war and she has no computer or internet at home, she uses her work computer to contact me but can’t call because she’s at work obviously and this part of Ukraine does not like westerners at the moment, Alina is from Sverdlovsk, Luhansk.
    We do also speak on the phone, not often though, she sold her mobile after the war broke out and she needed money and can’t send any more recent pictures. I am still a little suspicious as she says I can’t come to her because of the war and I can’t send her anything either as it’s local post only.
    Lots of the pictures are photoshopped (not all) but she has asked for money to install gas heating as she said the heating system has been damaged in the war and it’s -12 at the moment and she’s cold.
    Honestly, we get on so well and she emails twice a day, her emails are always very exciting and always sounds excited to get an email from me with lots of )))))))))))))))))))) after most sentences. I can’t wait to meet her, but I’m worried that this could all be a massive scam, I have tried to look more into the war and confirm these things but I can’t seem to confirm anything properly online. I don’t want to be sending money to a scammer, but I’m not short of money, far from it and really do want to help.
    Anyone from Ukraine could shed some light on this, do you think I’m being scammed?

  163. Rob S says:

    Sorry Olga, I tried to reply but your comment is not there.. Thank you anyway for your response x

  164. Rob S says:

    Hi Olga, she told me I can’t come to her, it’s dangerous and there’s no way we could meet there, there’s no flights she told me this, I meant going to Kiev, sorry.. Yes, she has said that other parts of Ukraine don’t like people from where she lives. Everything you’ve said she has already told me. That is why I don’t think she wants to meet there, but if you are 100% certain that she will not get even a travel visa, then I will have to go to her, I’ll have to have a talk.
    She also said that she would have to go to Kiev for the application, she knows this, I guess she honestly thinks she will get the travel visa, because she will go through and agency and she has a good job and permanent place. I did question this before..
    I will go there instead then, but even if I go there and we meet and everything is good, then what? Fiance Visa? I was told it’s very, very hard to get one.
    I appreciate all of your help.
    Thank you

    • Olga says:

      It’s not hard to get fiance visa, it might be hard to get it because she is in that part of Ukraine. You are filing the documents and sending them, she will need to go there only for the interview. She shouldn’t apply from her side. But it’s very interesting, so you can’t come and see her, she can’t come to another city but she can fly to UK??????????……………………… Strange thoughts. It was hard to get a travel visa before, it’s impossible right now, i would think, job???? Well it doesn’t pay that great so they could think that she just wants to come to UK to travel. You have more chances to get fiance visa. On the other hand how is she going to come for the interview to Kiev if she can’t do it right now???? On the other hand you need to check whether she is a right person. I would rather apply then for fiance visa and you’ll have 90 days to decide whether you want to be with her…..

      • William says:

        Hey Rob, mind if i put a thought in? i’ve read your post and i have to go with Olga on this. My girlfriend lives in Donetsk but every vacation i have, i’ll travel to Kiev and she always takes the train. Well first she hitches a car to a city in Ukraine territory (controlled by Ukraine), from there she’ll take the train to Kiev. but the rest of the time we talk on skype, she’s never without internet. I, personally, have a lot of doubts reading your story. But as personalguide says, read (if you haven’t already) from top to bottom. I came here to for information regarding my first trip to Ukraine and the awnsers i got here were extremly helpfull. My first rule of internet dating, skype is an absolute must. Pictures of her with a family mean not that much. but that’s my opinion. I want to see if the pictures and the skype call are the same girl.
        I hope this helps a little.
        Gr. William

      • danaricardo7 says:

        Dear Olga,
        I would appreciate if u could express ur opinion on my mysteriously crazy story (commented bellow), please provided u have time for it. Like, u have said it, many times again and again, I believe in exceptions. I have never given up on anything in my life and have been very successful in achieving almost 95% of the goals I ve set up. I ve turned around so many impossible tasks into reality…….

  165. I receive at least one e-mail per month, every month for the last two years, from desperate and surprizingly drop dead gorgeous women, all from the former Soviet block. Some are quite well educated, half my age, but insist they want to share a life with me. i tell them all I have no money to send them EVER. The insist they want to come here after I explain how NOT rich I am. I seriously doubt if a pauper like me could even arrange for a Ukrainian woman from Crimea Republic…CAN I? If it’s not that difficult, and free FOR ME, I might do it. I met a good catch this time…at least it appears that way. You folks please tell me the procedure…am I getting myself into shark infested waters? Black Sea shark infested waters? I need to know guys. Thanks

    • personalguide says:

      Gerry, I have already written here that having a Ukrainian wife is quite an expensive deal. First of all the search process, visa, your and her visits. No regular woman will visit you first. Firstly they expect you to come and not once, so there is a great travel expense. Then you need to provide her with good life, a house, a car, nights out, holidays. One more thing, when you marry a Ukrainian woman you marry all her family. She will expect you to support her family and give good education to her kids.
      When women write you they don’t care of your financial state, they lie. It means they want to grab at least something, another $100. Take care and stay away from scammers.

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  169. danaricardo7 says:

    Thank you very much all, for having your contribution and enriching the debate except few “special” Americans. All I would like to say about them is; ” It’s a pure insult an absolute crime against America to class Richard Feynman, Neil deGrass Tyson…….etc and these “special” ones as citizens of the same country.

    Beforehand, I am very sorry about the length of my comment.

    I really benefited from some of the comments and your priceless advice, specially the ones from both Personalguide and Olga.
    I don’t have to emphasise how remarkably brilliant the service that this forum provides,is. Alongside them, Olga, as a very honest Ukrainian lady, has done a pioneering contribution such that if I somehow achieve success in “my quest for wife” there in Ukraine which I have talked about in length below, that would be partially because of the encouragement and honesty she has shown in her comments and for that reason, I owe her a good, reasonable present (this is not about bribery, but rather a reward for the credit where it’s due).

    However, I would like to talk about my story of being fallen in love and my future plans for it;

    I am a British citizen from a Kurdish background, living in Hastings, UK. I am 6 ft tall, in a good shape and an average looking male. I am a vey friendly and open-minded person and have chosen to be an atheist since I was 16 despite the fact that I was born in an Islamic background. Having done my masters degree in nuclear-astrophysics in the UK’s 4th best university (the Uni of Surrey) [despite the fact that English is not my first language], I have a great job. I initially intended to pursue my PhD studies here at Surrey uni but now have switched my focus and would like to pursue it at the National university of Odessa , instead, simply because I would like to follow love.

    However, Since December of 2015, I’ve been dating a beautiful Ukrainian girl who lives in Odessa. After having a slow communication with her via a dating website called (, I carried some great research on her and thank to the Google search engine and my intelligence skills, I finally managed to find her on vk social network ( something that I had no idea whether it existed or not prior to this- as u know, Facebook, Twitter and Instagram are the most famous ones in the whole western world), that was without knowing even her full name! All I knew was her first name since those online dating websites don’t release their full names just to prevent the possibility that you might be able to find the ladies on one of those social networks. Before finding her on the vk, it was me who initially wrote to her on the dating website-unlike almost 90% of the other ladies on the website who have sent me countless letters, showing interests in me.

    This following is how she talks about herself on the dating website:

    Well, first of all I don’t like talking about myself. I really rather hear about you . But…there is a little about me. I am trully blessed by my family and friends. I live my life with no regrets. I believe that everything happens for a reason. I just truly enjoy life and all the adventures! Will you join me ?
    I want a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who will stay awake just to watch you sleep. The man who wants to show you off to the world, who holds your hand in front of his friends. The one who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you! In my turn I will do everything to make hime the happiest man in the world! Maybe it is just a dream but I do believe in it! ].

    I, then expressed my interests in her and she replied back with such a great letter full of sweet and promising words, as follows;

    [ Hey there
    ! What a great smile! I can’t believe my eyes ! It is so pleasant to see the attention of such an interesting man!
    Dear, if you have serious intentions and if you are looking for marriage, love, serious relationship – I am here…Don’t wait…Just write to me!
    We can fulfill a lot of our dreams together! How do you like this idea ?
    I am a happy person. Yes, I am happy not every minute of my life but I am happy every day. The only point I need to be absolutely happy – loving and caring man. Could it be you ?
    I’d love to find out more about you and your thoughts and dreams. I can’t wait to hear from you!
    Sincerely )………..]

    By the way, We have a 5 years age gap, only. After I presented my intentions very clearly and showed my commitment to approach her, and then telling her (in my 3rd letter, I think) that she has invaded my whole heart and mind and that I have already fallen in love with her, she decided to step back and change her tune. Guys, I know it was wrong for me to admit the facts and reveal what was in my heart, but please bear in mind that there’re few people out there, specially people who work at the field of science, like myself who can fall in love at the first sight and a great example has being the great love story of the super-great Irish physicist and mathematician, sir William Hamilton and Catherine.
    Despite the fact that I can describe my self as a very successful, intelligent, hardworking and very confident man, but unfortunately when it comes to love, my emotions take over, straight away!!

    After being very curious about her and sending her a friend request on the vk (which’s still pending and have been kept as a follower) and sending her many letters in both English and Russian, I never received a reply except once when she wanted me to contact her via the dating website. Straightaway, the combination of this and many online negative reviews about the whole thing and the nature of these online dating sites and marriage agencies, raised my suspicion alarm and decided to do some other search on how genuine these type of marriage agencies are. I then came across to a booklet by Elena Petrova of called “stop wasting money when dating Russian send Ukrainian women”. in which she classes the entire business by those pay-per-letter online-dating websites as scam. According to Elena, this is a big business in both Russia and Ukraine organised by the scammers in order to help employees to earn some extra money…….ect.

    I personally don’t mind to pay for each letters I receive or buying her gifts, at all even if I know it’s a scam because I always look at it in a different angle and think about it in a positive way and think that nothing is better than when you feel you have been helping and improving the lifestyle of those who are in need of the help and have done this far too many times in my life and never expected anything in return. Because I always thinks that if we re all given good opportunities in life we can evolve and make a staggering progress in life and those who haven’t had the opportunity due to having a very corrupted political system in place or haven’t had the opportunity to escape from it, have experienced loads of suffering in life. So, for me helping another human being in anyway (via genuine or scam means) is a great privilege because simply nobody would do that just for fun. It’s desperation that forces anyone to act inappropriately. Probably this is a heritage related value that have been gifted to me. (P.s. My parents have both been working with the UN in the Iraqi-Kurdistan).
    Anyway, What I am really worried about is when I feel that somebody is playing with my emotions, the heartache and all the time wasting…….

    However, After reading Elena Petrova’ booklet, I, stupidly wrote her (the lady that I am dating) a letter in a quite harsh way (i.e. From a loving and caring man, I changed to a man who throws accusations at women) and she replied that she got very offended because of the way I had put her and the scammers, all in the same category which wasn’t quite like that. Whatever happened, happened but I can admit that I didn’t mean to hurt her or do any damages at all because she’s the first woman in my life that I have fallen in love with. Then I wrote her a very apologetic letter, but no reply for nearly 1.5 months. Then I wrote to her back again to see how she is, she replied with a much smoother tune but still a bit angry at me. Then finally,Last month (May 2016), I ordered her some nice flowers from the dating website with a very apologetic letter (for which I had done my research online regarding the style and context of the writing….etc including what specific colour of flowers are sent with an apology letter for which I decided to send the yellow flowers as the entire online info recommended so, but since the yellow colour flowers option wasn’t available from the dating website, in my letter to her, I explained it and sent her pink flowers, instead. The nature of operation for this dating website is, When the dating website delivers the flowers, they take few photos of the lady with her holding the flowers and email it to you as a proof of the delivery and a short message from her – in which she had written the following;

    [[ Hello Dana, thank you for definitely unexpected surprise from you. I accept the apologies and I do understand that people can mistakes (I do it as well). Do you know what yellow color of flowers means in my country? It means parting and it is a bad sign when a man presents a woman flowers of this color. So, possibly it is good they don’t have roses of this color on the site :). Ash-pink roses are actually my favourite :). Sincerely,……….]]).

    She then finally accepted my apology in her follow up letter. The following is a copy-paste of what she wrote;

    [ Hello Dana!
    How are you today? Thank you for the letter and a separate thank you fro the beautiful flowers. Like I wrote in the short message which you should get with pictures of delivery, I udnerstand and accept people can make mistakes. I am not an exception. Be patient and cool-minded, don’t let yourself believe in things you are not sure about and which you don’t see with your own eyes. We can try to start from the beginning but you must know I will be even more careful. I also want to ask to not say words, you are not sure about. Be serious and let’s try to get to know each other before saying loud words.
    I must finish my letter, I am leaving in an hour. I have not seen my sister and nephews more than a month and I am going to spend the weekend with them.

    Warmly, …….].

    Now, the online “relationship” or whatever you wanna call, has gone back to a normalised status and we exchange letters about the daily activities and so on, almost once a week…….. I don’t know how long more shall I wait to make the suggestion of visiting her? Or At what stage do I have to make suggestion for the meet up, there at Odessa? What would be the best way to tell her that I wanna visit her?

    However, In my experience, many characteristics that distinguishes this indescribably beautiful lady from the so called “scammers” are as the following;

    1) she’s always very busy at work and very rarely comes back online (once a week or 10 days or 2 weeks in some cases, for a couple of hours only), whereas the scammers are constantly online and are consistent at bombarding you with letters.

    2) her photos on the dating website and her vk account are identical.

    3) she doesn’t create stories like the so called scammers do in order to entertain those whom they have correspondence with. whatever she says in her letters, reflects on what’s going on on her vk profile – if u try to find an inconsistency between the account of events, from both the letters she send to me and the activities she posts on her vk profile, using even an electron microscopy, you won’t be able to find any!)

    4) I have been exchanging correspondence with few other ladies mostly scammers, whom I have intentionally been a bit offensive to just to examine their level of honesty. Not that they don’t get offended and yet receive their letters in a larger frequency. ….ect whereas, with this genuine one, I had to try very hard just to persuade her so that she speaks to me ,once again. Moreover, unlike the other ladies that I ve had communication with, she never uses very promising words, such as honey, sweetheart, my future husband…..etc).

    5) once I have managed to find most of the girls that I ve been corresponding with on the dating website, on the vk social network as well, and contacted them (on vk), most of them blocked me straight after they knew who i am whereas this one hasn’t. And the fact that she hasn’t blocked me, moreover, she keeps reading every single text I send her may be is a good sign that she is also interested in building a relationship but doesn’t wanna admit it. I don’t know? Maybe, I am just daydreaming!!!

    5) and finally, I have approached one of her friends on Facebook who’s also my “friend” on Facebook , in a very diplomatic way just to find whether she ( the lady I am dating) is single or not and yes, she’s single. I carried out This last check on her after recently she posted some new photos on her vk account having an engagement ring on her left-hand marriage ring- finger, whilst she was still communicating with me on the dating website. Which left me with far too many doubts and questions. (The good news was that I have been recently told that a ring in the left-hand marriage finger doesn’t mean anything in Ukraine! True or false, no idea??)
    Besides these facts, A serious question which remains to be answered is why doesn’t she wanna have a chat with me on her Vk account since she immediately reads every single text that I send her (to her vk) ? Is it a normal thing (part of the culture) for girls in Ukraine not to chat with strangers on the social networks so easily? You know what; I mean no offence at all, but trust me understanding quantum mechanics is by orders of magnitude easier than understanding women!!

    However, I would like to admit that I love her that much that I’m prepared to;

    a) change my views on religion and convert to Christianity from atheism.

    b) chose Odessa National university (1852 world ranking university) over the University of Surrey (within the top 100 words ranking universities), to conduct my PhD studies in theoretical physics, starting from Sep of 2017 and hope to be a lecturer there at the university Odessa afterwards and live there forever.

    c) buy a good house or flat there just to let her know how serious I’m in my quest which should give her enough time to get to know me further. I know she’s a very family orientated lady, for that reason I think By buying an accommodation there, I would indirectly deliver the message that since she values her friends and family that much, I have full commitment to relocate myself into her place of choice and not vice versa.

    And finally, after using my detective and “spying” skills, I have managed to Put all the dots together to find her work address to show her a massive surprise, as the following;
    when I want to visit her, hopefully in October of 2016, i obviously want to drive all the way from the UK to Odessa (3000 km approx), I wand to conduct some surveillance on her to see when she finishes work and which bus she gets onboard, then I wanna stop the bus somewhere safe and hand her the most beautiful flower design made of red and pink roses just to tell her how great she means to me and how seriously I am in love with her. I wanna tell her that I have driven 3000 km across the continent to reach this point. I wanna tell her that I am ready to live my country of resident, friends, family, job, almost best kind of lifestyle, behind and make many more sacrifices just to approach her and live with her for eternity, if she’s also serious about what she says.

    I am sure about everything she says she is and stands for except I can’t properly read her intentions since she has stepped back since she knows I feel I ve fallen in love with her. Does that mean she is also interested but she wants to hold herself very hard and she needs more time to get to know me before making any decisions or she plays emotional games ( which I don’t think she does since she’s a Nobel-lady from a very decent family with super-great values).

    I also would like to point out that Unlike few who have commented in a very negative way and think that if spending few dollars doesn’t get you a wife therefore the entire female population in Ukraine isn’t genuine, I am fully prepared to spend thousands of GBP (not few bucks only) to her and not even get a kiss, because genuine relationship should start at a point where she thinks that I don’t use her as a sexy tool, that I genuinely want to look after, spoil and respect her. In fact, I should spoil her more than she has already been spoiled by her friends and family (as she claims in her intro), then I will be in a position to win her heart and then she hopefully will be able to makes the decision of choosing her Mr Right. If successful, then mission accomplished, if not, then I consider it as something must have gone wrong along the line. So, I need luck, not small but on a massive scale!!

    I seriously need some help and advice and greatly appreciate ur cooperation in this matter

    Many thanks for reading and paying attention to this, guys.


    • personalguide says:

      Hello Dana,
      Thank you for your interesting story. Now I would like to put you somehow down to Earth as I can see it is your heart is talking and your mind is following. From what I have read I can assume that she is likely to be a scammer. Not a cheap one but still a scammer.
      Why do I think so?
      1. A real woman in Ukraine has the understanding of how easy it is to be scammed by women in Ukraine. Everybody knows that this is a real industry in here. So when a foreigner expresses his doubts about the woman and she is offended by that (offended in such a dramatic way) she is either a scammer acting her part or a very fussy, arrogant or moody person.
      2. The main fact that makes me think she is a scammer or an agency girl is – she is still keeping you on the agency site even though you can communicate freely on VK. This is 99 percent proof of her either working for the agency and earning money on you or not being very interested in you. Nothing else can explain that. I am sorry to say about that. I would strongly recommend to check her before setting off. And also make sure she has any feelings towards you and she really considers being with you. You can lose a lot of money, and what is more important you can be heartbroken and frustrated.

      No problem with the ring. Married or engaged women wear it on the right hand.

      • danaricardo7 says:

        Dear Personalguide, thank you very much for the prompt reply. I shall not agree with you regarding the scamming part but what I am not sure is her intentions. Serious or not, no idea! I also have asked myself whether she is also interested in me , have any feelings towards me (as u pointed out) or not, that’s a question that has remained as a mystery for me. As said, I will try my hardest to make this work. If not it will add some new experience to my life.
        However , I would like to use 2 sections of the service you provide (as advertised here).
        I will get a proper check carried out on her before meeting her plus another one. Would you not accept PayPal transactions for the service u provide? Or it’s just western union or money gram?
        Can u also please give me ur email address so that we can discuss it all in private.
        Many thanks

      • personalguide says:

        Hello Dana, I think there is some mistake in your email you filled in the registration form. Contact me

  170. Andrew Graham says:

    Genuine women are hard to find anywhere in the world. You can think you know a women then you marry them. In my case it has ended in divorce. There are several other factors why we didn’t work, my family is one. The industry doesn’t have a good reputation. As for some of the names given I have experienced that too. They did turn out to be scammers. Trust is earnt. The only way is to get boots on the ground and use sites like this. They will save you thousands of currency and wasted time and disappointment. Go by all means with an open mind. You will find a good one if you can shiw ambition and genuiness.

  171. Olga says:

    Hello, Dana.
    I will agree to Personalguide in that……. Sorry…….. I don’t want to mark her as a scam……, well 90% maybe. Come on, I still believe in fairy tales))))))))) Why she didn’t accept you as a friend at VK?????? I would think that people, who are sitting and writing their letters should attach it to some real profile in VK or Facebook so if the person is searched for could be found as real. That what happened to you. And as I was writing before, you should think that everything can be real, only if you have her personal e-mail, if you are friends on all the sites, and write to each other there and of course the most important if you are talking on skype. If for some reason some or all of it is missing I would be suspicious. By the way the first her letter to you looked like a scam to me. If I’m writing to one person, I would write a little bit personal. That one looked like sent to several people. Again don’t forget that even if you communicate and talking to each other every day she still might be a scam one. In that case only visit can put everything in places. I was reading what women think about all of it at the site where I met my husband. You know I was ashamed that I’m from that country, it was disgusting to read how they “get a man ready” to “make” some money on him. I don’t want to ruin your dreams, I truly believe that there are normal, honest girls there, who are looking for the husband. It’s just hard sometimes to find them, but if you are meant to be together, you’ll find her for sure.

  172. danaricardo7 says:

    Thank you all, for the replies. May be I was wrong in making my assumption about her not being a scammer! Ever since I found her on the VK, every now & then I was sending her gifts (on VK, obviously). The last time I sent her a gift, was yesterday followed by an immediate reply from her which I would like to quote; ” Может хватит тратится на подарки здесь. От них толку нет”. So, (after using google translate) I am guessing she’s not happy about the virtual gifts since she can’t convert them to money. In the meantime, she encourages me (indirectly) to send her the real gifts for which she obviously gets a share of the cost.
    However, I am still prepared to do the checks on her and in the worst case scenario, I would still b interested in meeting her (specially after starting my studies in Sep 2017), inviting her to meals of her place of choice but interpreters of my choice, and tell her; hey friend, I will b glad to help you financially for nothing personal in return but try to give up on this bad habit……

    Thank you all, once again for your contributions.

  173. Solomon says:

    I am crazy for a Ukrainian girls. I need a special love as my partner for life, I promise to always be by her side. to love without limit. love is only a word until someone comes along and gives a meaning to it. that’s all I wanna do for you,

  174. Mike Kools says:

    I am American guy lived in Ukraine for 4 years, Moscow for 1 year. I met and married a beautiful Ukrainian woman. Their man is #1, the most important thing in the world to them and they care for you in that way. I must get up at 5 am. My wife gets up at 4:30, cooks me breakfast, makes me a lunch (no store bought food could be as good as what she makes) then comes and gently wakes me with kisses and “good words”. ..
    They always look great! For one thing, there is a high percentage of beautiful women in Russia and Ukraine, it is incredible. But also they NEVER go out of the house unless they look beautiful and they always look beautiful for their man. My wife wants me to say how I like her hair, her clothes, her make-up. She wants to look good for me and it makes her feel good. Don’t even think you can go through life without complimenting your woman and telling her how wonderful and beautiful she is many times a day. And ONLY your wife is “beautiful” this is a very powerful word and means “most beautiful of all”.
    They generally don’t want to work outsode the house, even thought they are usually highly educated (my wife has a masters degree and speaks four languages) and they are NOT lazy. Their DREAM in life is to have a husband, children and cozy home to care for, even if it is a tiny 2 room “flat”. They are not demanding. My wife has 8 pairs of shoes and thinks it is “excessive” she has asked if now I will “run away” because she has “so many” shoes. :)) She grew up with a family of four in a flat the size of our living room now. You think she is happy? She thinks our small (by American standards) house is about all she can care for properly.
    They ENJOY, crave, to look like and feel like women. They are very feminine. ALL of her night wear is attractive or sexy. We never spend a night apart. They want their man to look good, it is a reflection on them if you don’t. She cares for my clothes, irons my jeans (!!!!) and checks me out before we go somewhere. If I don’t look good, she doesn’t look good.
    Sexually, ah yes, you knew I would get to that. In general, they never refuse their man, EVER. It is the MAN’s resposibility to be, well, responsible. I would never initiate ( I never “ask”) sex when she is feeling ill. She would not refuse me, I promise, but she would think I am abusive and not considering her. As I said, this is NOT a one way street. They receive TRUE pleasure from giving pleasure to their man. She gives herself to me completely and expects to be pleased the same way.
    They NEVER argue. They expect their man to consider their opinion and listen to them. BUT it is the man’s job to make the decisions. If I do NOT make decisions and DO the things I need to, she will have no use for me. I MUST do what a man should do. It is my job to relieve her of responsibilities, not boss her around. If you think for one second a man can boss around a Ukrainian woman…wow, have you got another thing coming! She EXPECTS to have everything she “needs” and things she “wants” if it is possible. She expects me to do anything I CAN do for her and the family and not complain, just like she does.
    I think a Urkainian woman would rather cut off her arms and legs than cheat on a good man. They just WILL NOT! They won’t do it. As fantastically beautiful as she is, as outgoing and friendly as she is, I am absolutely secure. Not only would she not cheat, she won’t even do anything to make me suspicious. Oh…she demands the same from me….

    • Olga says:

      LOL, Mike, you are living in a dream world)))))))))))))))) The problem is that if you found the one and she is 100% of what you described it doesn’t mean others will be so lucky))))))))))). I would say it’s really close to me but my husband usually says I’m exceptional LOL. And he is absolutely correct. Well, maybe 5% of Ukrainian woman are the same way you described. Everything depends when you were living in Russia and Ukraine. Time has changed, in a bad way, very bad. Though in your story I saw some discrepancy.
      I personally know a lot of Ukrainian women who are mostly the opposite way. Even those who already have an American husband.

  175. Ira says:

    So much inteteresting information here! Thanks, great topic.
    What can I say from myself: I’m from Ukraine, 22, when I was 19 I went to AnastasiaDate for a couple of months and it was awfull – to feel that you’re lying to a person that is truthfully fall in love just because you need money… So I left it soon and found a normal work. I know that there’re girls who are really searching for a good husband and life-friend but it’s really difficult to find such a ladies at anastasia date or smthng like this.
    Anyway from school i dreamt to live abroad, simply because i want to travel and to come time to time to my native place with this feeling of missing home and family…
    Now i found a man that became a best friend for me and who wants to supporrt me, this is a totally different thing then talking with men just because of getting money! He’s older for 8 years, has a good job and lives in one of the richest countries. But the thing is not just in “rich”, even if he’s not, i see that i can learn a lot from him and from the other side i can make him happy. it’s like “win-win” 🙂
    The only problem that i’m a little bit afraid to meet a person that i don’t know in real life. He can be good at Skype but a totally different person in life… the same about me: i always trying to do my best but in real life everything is always mooore difficult:) anyway, it’s life.
    Good luck for everyone to find your love though it’s in Ukraine or in any different country!
    P.S. i have a lot of friends in Ukraine that are NOT alcoholics and etc. and they have good education, works, interests… But i almost didn’t date with anyone here, don’t know why. And most of my friends girls are dating with ukrainians and they’re totally fine with it.

    • Bilal Khan says:

      Can you please help me to find a beautiful girl for me. I wanna marry. I am a software Engineer. waiting for your response

  176. tariq satti says:

    hi i want marriage with ukraine girl plz contect me

  177. Bilal Khan says:

    Hello there,

    I’m a software Engineer and want to marry a Ukrainian girl. Can you please help me?

  178. Mohamed says:

    I am nuclear engineer ( 41 years old ) and I need to marry a beautiful girl with yellow hair from Ukraine. Can you tell me which is the suitable age to me and which city is suitable for me to choose from it.

  179. Michael Norton says:

    Hello and thank you for you discussion I will travel to Ukraine next week and u would love to have a few first consultation. !

  180. Larry says:


    I am a 55 year old Canadian in Sumy right now dating a 46 year old local lady. We have had 5 consecutive dates with an interpreter present and I am here cor 5 more days. Prior tocoming we exchanged PPLs for 4 months. Presently everything seems good we enjpy each others company but the relationship does not seem to be advancing….at least as quickly as I had hoped. The only physical contact we have is at the end of each date with brief hand holding and I am presented her cheek to kiss good night.
    Is this reasonable to expect or should we have at least moved to a peck on the lips by now? I think that I could be a tad paranoid of being taken advantage and I dont want to mess things up. I invited her to visit me in Canada but she said to discuss this at the emd of my stay here. Am I on the right track and need to be more patient or what do you think?

    Crazy Canuck

    • personalguide says:

      Hello Crazy Canuck.
      What is seen out of here is:
      Your age difference is very reasonable for real relationship. It is OK that she doesn’t allow more than a kiss to the chick. However, 5 consecutive dates with an interpreter looks like earning money. After the second one she should have offered to skip the interpreter. It might be that she is a professional dater, although there is not enough information to draw a final conclusion.We would recommend you to conduct a check on her. Any questions, feel free to contact on

      • Hisham says:


        I’m looking for Russian/Ukraine wife age 25 and younger, some say Ukraine women wont leave Ukraine only for men that are very rich. I wonder tried many sites but only to discover they are scam with no real intent to provide true chance for one to find a wife, please tell me if you can help with my request really appreciate it.

  181. Johnbosco says:

    Hello, to be frank here i feel so intimidated over all i have read above. the next question that stroke my mind was…. can u marry a Ukrainian woman or even any foreign woman all?
    i desire to marry a foreign woman but the problem is my color, educational background, the bad name of my country and my financial status….
    i want a woman that will accept me just the way i am..
    a woman that will swallow her pride and walk out her kind of man in me
    i need a woman that will bring the kind of man she wants in me… so help me LORD

    direct contact:+2348066924444

  182. Zafar iqbal says:

    Good thking that Ukraine is good and best women in the world

  183. Ahmad says:

    Want to visit Ukrain and explore business prospects.Also like visiting good places.only then, I would b able to comment.

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