A wonderful comment from James

James says:

I am American and have visited Ukraine and I am here to give you the truth.

First, all women are the same in any country. I have been all over the world and have had encounters with women from all over. Women are women. Period. The problem is us men keep trying to find the exception. The women who is different. This is where your thinking is wrong. Women are all the same. They want to have fun. They want to experience all that they can. They are opportunists and capitalists. Us men are the same. We want to get the best for what Value we can offer.

Ukrainian women would prefer to stay in Ukraine with their family and friends. It is a major sacrifice for anyone to leave their complete life behind. Regardless of the conditions. I found the conditions in Ukriane to be perfectly acceptable. In fact, the cost of living is so affordable, I considered moving to Ukraine. It is a truly beautiful country with a rich culture. The lifestyle is more relaxed and simpler in the sense that people aren’t obsessed with material things as they are here. Ukrainians are very family oriented. I have met Ukrainian women who struggled and the idea of a new world is exciting for them. But we all go through this when we travel. It passes.

Ukrainian men have a lot to offer. Sure I see you get guys partying in the parks all night long but the girls are right there with them partying and drinking and singing. Ukrainian men dress very well, are intelligent and have a lot to offer.sure there are some stereotypes. Just as there are stereotypes in all cultures. But overall, don’t think that your “Western” passport or citizenship will make their panties fall off. Ukrainian women like all women want to be attracted to their man. They like swagger and confidence and intelligence. Ukrainian men have all of this and more. I also see Ukraijian men holding hands and being kind to their women. So the competition is tough for quality Ukrainian woman.

Money hungry, social climbing women are everywhere. Especially here in the USA. So if finding a woman who does not truly love you is fine with you, there are these types of women in any country. Bring them here to the USA and then watch them leave you for another guy.

You have to visit the country. Ukrainian women like any other women aren’t going to fall in love with you through email. There is no exception to this. Period. All women want to meet you and feel your energy and look at you. This is the best advice I can give you.

Make connections. It’s fine to use email to make introductions to some ladies. Be completely honest. Tell them you are coming and you are talking to a few women you are interested in getting to know as friends first. Also tell them you hope to find a spark and make a real connection with someone. Keep it at a friendship level first. Be complimentary and express interest but be smart. No one falls in love through emails or phone calls. If you are coming off as high interest in your emails, you look stupid and your won’t earn any woman’s respect. Be respectful, optimistic, fun and charming. I tell the women I am coming to visit and I hope I have a few good tour guides “dates” and dinner and some flowers are on me. Keep it friendship oriented.

Plan lots of dates. Do not go to Ukraine to meet one woman. You’ll fail miserably. It’s too pressureloaded a situatuation. You just want to have an attitude of vacation with a few dates lined up. That’s all.

Focus your time on women that are a good fit. I am 40 and I have a child. So I’m looking for a women around 32 to 44 who has a child. I prefer a woman who speaks some English. Communication is key in a relationship. Don’t set yourself up for failure.

All women want a man with confidence, charm, intelligence, masculinity, a sense of humor and have a stability. Looks also play a part in attraction. So get in shape, get style and work on your appearance. Be the best version of yourself and you will have all the ladies you want regardless which country you live or go.

I hope this helps.

Ps: if you reply with negative comments and bull crap I don’t care. I will assume you have no game with the ladies and are jealous.

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Retire in Ukraine

Recently I receive letters from people who consider retiring in Ukraine. The main questions are how expensive is life in Ukraine and if their retirement money will be enough to have a comfortable life here. If we speak about not a very large city I will take Nikolaev as an example. It is pretty big but cosy and compact and has all conditions for comfortable living. Let’s start with accommodation.

You can rent a good flat, furnished with all conveniences and appliances, for a price beginning with $200 a month and for $500 a month you will have luxurious apartments in the centre (the price includes utilities).

A litre of petrol – 80c.

A bottle of vodka – $2

A pint of beer – 50c.

A bottle of wine – $3

A loaf of bread – 25c.

A kilo of potatoes – 20c

A kilo of pork – $2.50

A kilo of apples – 50c

A meal in a trendy restaurant – $50

A meal in a cafe – $5-10

A coffee in a cafe – 70c-80c

A Big Mac in McDonald’s – 80c

A ticket to the cinema $2

A ride on a bus – 15c.

A taxi ride – $1

A bunch of flowers – $10

A visit to a doctor – $5

A filling of a tooth at the dentist – $20

A massage – $5-20

Enjoy your life in Ukraine!

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A new con from the scammers

Hi guys, many of you have profiles on free Ukrainian dating sites. There are lots of women and they are mostly real. However this is a lucrative place for gold-diggers. There are many types of scam they can offer, bur here is the recent one. Surfing the dating site you come across a stunning lady with lots of photos and very tempting status. The residence of the girl is Donetsk, Lugansk, Gorlovka or other parts of Ukraine occupied by Russian terrorist troops. She will show you her interest and genuine commitment. Then she will tell you how bad it is to live among those gangsters. Of course you can ask her to leave those regions and come to you in any safe place. But she will tell you a story about some loan which she needs to pay otherwise she won’t be allowed to leave her city. Or she will just tell you that she doesn’t have money to pay for her ticket. Or any other sad story. She will tell you to send money to her sister, granny, mom, friend to Kiev, Borispol, Nikolaev etc. because there is no possibility to send it directly to her. And then the money will be transferred to her by train, bus, tank, pigeon etc.


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You need to be well-off to have a woman from Ukraine

I receive dozens of letters from you guys every day asking for help to find a fine Ukrainian woman to marry. You need to understand one thing. Women here are not as desperate to leave Ukraine to live in a rented room in a crowded American city or feed pigs on a remote American farm. I am sure you are all looking for a lady of high visual and mental standards. As I always mention, such women are of a high demand here in Ukraine, so you need to offer her something more than your open heart and a modest hut. She will definitely need comfort, living in sufficiency and being sure she and your children are getting good medical service, education and care. 

Can’t you offer her a well-off life? Forget about it. Or lower your standards. And guys, if my services are too expensive for you it means that having a fine Ukrainian lady is expensive for you either. Sorry.

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Check the woman in Ukraine

At the moment you decided to find a real Ukrainian woman using dating agencies services, you come in sight of numerous scammers and you are in danger of wasting your time, money and peace of mind.

With all its possibilities and advantages online dating is the most popular place for Ukrainian gold-diggers to scam men pulling on their heartstrings. Thousands of beautiful, sexy, hot Ukrainian chicks are looking at you from the pages of the dating sites. However you can’t guess what tricks they have for you.

First off all you can never be sure that the stunning Ukrainian girl on the photo in the dating profile is the same person you correspond with. If there is no video-chat, you might be corresponding with a bald ugly block good at writing sentimental letters. This is a very popular scam so before going on with women on the photos make sure you have checked their identities.

A lot of Ukrainian and Russian girls on dating sites can be involved in dating business. It means they are not quite interested in getting married. Their main task is to keep you on the site as long as possible with all those pay-per-letter services and paid video-chats. It is very important to be sure that the girl doesn’t work for the agency and really wants to get married to a foreigner.

There are a lot of beautiful, sexy Ukrainian and Russian girls on agency sites who not only earn on your letters. Their main interest is to “hook” the guy and make him send money, presents, jewelry etc. directly to them. We constantly get requests from men who have spent thousands of dollars on scammers and got zero result. All those girls make up pitiful stories about their miserable lives, ill grannies, starving children etc. Before sending money, check their backgrounds, being in the scam-lists and reliability of their stories. That will save you a lot of money.

Sometimes women use a lot of Photoshop on their pictures. We have some stories when people arrived in Ukraine and couldn’t recognize the woman, because the difference between the photo and the real person was significant. It is very easy to get real photos. We can deliver flowers to the Lady and make photos proving the delivery.

Everybody lies. Your lady may be real and willing to marry you. But sometimes she may hide information which can be crucial for making decision to marry her. Her real age, children, lovers, criminal records, illnesses can come as a surprise for you. You’d better know about everything before you get married.

Nowadays if a woman is online it’s unlikely that she doesn’t have a profile on one or more social websites. It is very easy to find out at least some things having lady’s profile on fb. But there are also many other social websites for Russian speaking people you have no idea about. Sometimes women hide their name so you can’t find them using an ordinary search. Online checks are one of the services you need to ask for.

How can you understand that this Ukrainian girl is real and sincere? Does she really like you? Does she want to leave her country and family for a faraway place? Is she interested in you or in your money? It’s sometimes hard to understand unless you are not a psychologist. A good psychologist can give you the answers to these questions having studied your psychological portraits and samples of your correspondence.

We have been doing such checks for 5 years. The records show that 9 of 10 women are worth being checked. It really can save a lot money and time.

You can choose the options you need from our services list:

  1. Gift&Flowers check

That’s the easiest one. If you have woman’s address and telephone number we will deliver a bouquet of flowers or a present to her and make a photo of her with your presents. Thus you will check the reliability of the information you have about her and you will see her photo with no Photoshop on it. Such a check is a good thing if all you need to check is her address and telephone. However it will tell you nothing about her background, being a scammer and intentions.


Cost of delivery to any place in Ukraine except some areas of Lugansk and Donetsk regions: $40 + cost of present


  1. Information search (online)

Nowadays if the person isn’t online she doesn’t exist. In many cases all you know about the girl you are communicating on the agency site is her first name, age, the city and some other facts. And she says that due to some rules of the agency you can’t have her direct contact details, Skype, phone, address etc. And you get her details only after you visit her in Ukraine at the agency’s office. Coming to a girl from another part of the world having no idea what her email address is? No. We can find any traces of her being on the internet. Dating sites profiles, social sites profiles, Skype, emails, her presence on her friend’s pictures. You can do it by yourself. You can spend hours and days surfing the net and have no results. Most of the time girls like that hide their profiles; they have profiles with fake names, hidden photos and only for friends’ access to the information. And you have no idea about the most of local sites she can be on.  But we know how to search quickly and effectively. We can find all the information she has online.

Cost of online information search: $60


  1. Information search (footwork)

When you can’t find enough information about your woman online, the only way to find it out is to go to the town she lives and look for her with the pieces of information you have. This is the most difficult task. But as a result you get the clear understanding of the woman to be real. Our agents can find her address, contact details, photos. And this service is the most expensive.

Cost of information search (footwork) in Ukraine except some areas of Lugansk and Donetsk regions: $200 + from $100 to $300 operational costs (depends on the city).

  1. Background check

Providing you have the details of your woman, but you are not sure about her background, family details, marital status, personal affairs (having a boyfriend or lover), criminal background, check any other information she gave you to see if she lies or she is honest.  No problem with such a check.

Cost of Background check: $100 to $300 (depends on the number of details you want to clear up).

  1. Scam check

There are lots of scammers databases and scammer lists online. They can be free but many of them charge fees for checking. We can check if your woman is in one them.

Cost of a Scam check: $30


  1. Intentions’ check


So you have all the details of the woman you are going to visit. But how will you know that she is really interested in you. We have our methods to find it out. Here we involve our psychologists. We study carefully your story, samples of your correspondence. In some cases we can even provoke the woman to see if she has serious intentions or she is just playing with the man.

Cost of Intentions’ check: $70

We guaranty that a woman will never know she is checked and we strongly recommend not informing your woman about the check as it can offend her.

We accept payment by Western Union or Moneygram transactions.

Contact us for the first free consulting:

Email: arminsarg@yahoo.com

Skype: englishmasters

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Free first consulting on any question you have about the dating in Ukraine.


– want to find a real Ukrainian woman but don’t know what to start with

– want to check if the woman you are corresponding with is real

– need help in Ukraine with accommodation, transportation, translation, guiding

– have a lot of questions about agencies, scammers and private affairs

– need any other assistance in Ukraine

Feel free to contact me for a free consulting – Skype englishmasters

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Racism and xenophobia in one of Nikolaev cafes

Hi guys, if you ever been to Nikolaev in Ukraine you are bound to know “Sotka” shop and “Sotka” bar inside it. It is situated in the very centre of Nikolaev and most of the arrangements to meet in the centre are made outside “Sotka”. The bar is popular as they smoke there (which is prohibited by the law in Ukraine). The meals are so-so and often of spoiled products. People usually go there for a coffee with a cigarette or some alcohol.

But now it is famous for it’s weird face control. The owner of the bar was once offended by a Turk. They say his wife got laid with him. So now any person of not Slavic appearance might be denied to be served and this is even written on their menu. Of course this is a criminal offence in Ukraine, but the owner is a former mp and has influential friends. Right now this story went public on the TV and online. There is hope the owner will be punished.

So if you are against the racism stay clear of “Sotka”.

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